Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

A lot of brehs in here are gonna be real sad and lonely when they're in their 40s and 50s.

im in that age bracket and just about EVERYONE i know...men and women are SINGLE.....and i mean not even DATING anyone serious....this shyt is wild to see...

and these youngsters are ojn some other shyt that we werent on at that age....youre right its going to be worse than now

 

[mag357]

well fact of the matter IS that we both live in a developed society (sort of)....

yes...i think existentially....what am i here for? what am i supposed to do? if these things dont occur to a man at some point in his life....he might as well live in a 3rd world country and all he has to think about is fuqqing...eating and sleeping....

I get it. We aren't necessarily disagreeing.
So let's go a step further.

Since our basic needs are met right now.
we can start thinking existentially and thinking of things outside of basic survival
But still... unknowingly, we're still guided by our nature and doing what it needs us to do.

So no longer are you hunting and gathering food just to live another day. But now you store food in a fridge, thinking about how much u enjoy cooking, then u season ur food and put in on a nice plate.
Even with all that, The goal is still to satisfy an urge to eat.

You don't have to hit a bytch over the head and fukk like an savage just cause u horny.

You get tired of dealing with a bunch of chix.
You start thinking about a child and teaching your child things. And growing old.
So You get one chick and you tell yourself she's cool.
She could be a good mother. I'll never leave her...
You get a house, you have kids. Trying to start a legacy lol

Cool.
Nature still has you playing the game
It's All to satisfy the urge. That's the goal
You're looking at it as wholesome shyt.
All you did was set up a more structured way to have your basic needs met.

I'll do it this way...
If creating a family meant you got married to one woman.
And there was no need for sex to make a child.
Your woman could just pop out children without your dikk.
So you'd be there playing husband, father, with no sex.

No man on earth would sign up for that.
So that shows you right there what this is all about

 

[The Realist Perspective]

A lot of brehs in here are gonna be real sad and lonely when they're in their 40s and 50s.

My name Corey

 

[mag357]

I didn’t say i was “better” than anyone else.

I said choices are deliberate. Whether you chose to be fateful to one person or fukk everything that moves, that’s your choice.

Some people try to wave away cheating as “natural” behavior. But in reality it’s a choice made by people who are not serious/dedicated to the relationship they built their life around.

The OP is trying to place his own lack of self control on everyone else.

It’s obviously human nature for your dikk to jump at like 99% of the women you see.

It’s your choice to decide which of those you actually lay with

I don't think people are trying to wave away cheating.
I think it's more of trying to tell people, stop making such a big deal deal of it.

Whether right or wrong....You're asking men to suppress something that they feel naturally pressuring them to do, everyday.
We make them out to be bad people and monsters. When we all know how hard it is for men not to do it.

Are cheaters great people, NO. Are they monsters, NO.

When people go on diets, which is basically you trying to fight another urge, so that you can live a healthy life.... No one will bad mouth you for cheating on your diet. Because we all understand how difficult it is.
They even have cheat days, to alleviate the pressure of having to eat right everyday.

But to the point of the thread...if a muthafuka was on a diet and said they never even think about pizza or cake. We would know theyre full of shyt

 

[moorfeus]

Now I applaud the breh for being real. This is not meant to clown him in anyway. But I STRONGLY believe the vast majority of men feel this way. They love their wife. She's awesome. All that. But as a man, there is just something appealing about variety.

A perfect scenario would having a wife, but having a rotation of girlfriends every quarter. I honestly cannot think of any other way a married man can be legitimately satisfied with his aging, same old p*ssy. Let's speak on it. And let's be honest. This is a safe space amongst the brehs.

And as for the miracle brehs that have NEVER even ONCE thought of having sex with a woman other than his wife, please, share your secret. How do you manage to do that?

Noticing that other women are attractive, YES, that is natural though. No biggie. Allowing other women to get close enough to me to be pulled into my orbit and think I'm emotionally or sexually available to them? HELL NO. I expect the same from my wife too. Not entertaining that option so there is no real desire to have sex with anyone else. Also not kidding myself into thinking its just sex, there is ALWAYS more involved than that. I'm not up for those headaches.

There is way more to life than sex alone. Men that never advance beyond that mentality wind up in their 70s, still chasing broads, blowing money on them, and popping viagra pills while ignoring the serious side effects that are messing them up. Popping pills trying to keep up with younger women meanwhile their vision is blurry, their heart rate is jacked up, and they have chronic, throbbing headaches.

People think there is something wonderful about variety because they aim for low-quality people, possibly because of their shallow personalities that just seek to please their carnal desires with meaningless sex. I think quality is superior to quantity. Its cool to have someone (of the opposite sex) that you can relate to, trust, travel with, create a family with, grow with in wisdom/spiritually, and that you are intimate with because life has so many more dimensions to it and meaningful experiences than just sex alone. Its amazing creating children with someone and raising those children together in the same household, traveling, and experiencing life together with a partner that you enjoy expands your consciousness. It also just makes life more fun.

But, if you are just a savage animal that's all about sex and doesn't partake in any of the higher faculties of the mind, none of the things stated would apply or be appealing to you. Sex, murder, drugs are the main programs being pushed via rap music. Many are stuck in that low vibrational mindstate and unable to break free of what they are programmed to think.