Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[mag357]

It's like teaching middle school sometimes with some of you Brehs.

Buying food from a store is not natural. Working a job for money instead of hunting is not natural.

Being married is about deciding to commit to another person because you have common goals. It's not a state of nature, it is an act of higher intelligence. It's actually the children that would benefit the most from having married parents that work together well.

It's an act of intelligence only to fulfill a natural urge easily.
Like everything else.

That's all this shyt is about, but we try to complicate it to make ourselves seem better than regular animals.

You buy food from the store, which isn't natural but you do it because it's the easiest way to fulfill your natural urge to eat

You work the job to have the food and shelter to fulfill the urge to survive.

Men only get a GF/wife for the same reason. Nothing more than to have easier way to fulfill their natural urge to fukk/reproduce.

Instead of having to go out every so often to find new p*ssy when u feel the urge. You just roll over and fukk your woman.

Just like not having to go hunt for food. U just go to the fridge

Any man that is great at hunting, doesn't have to store food

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Nah, i like my life.

Wouldn’t put it in jeopardy for physical stimulation.

Dudes who cheat either don’t like their life or their position in their family or they don’t have any self control.

Either way they don’t deserve to be the leader of family.

Can’t be a leader with zero integrity.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

It's an act of intelligence only to fulfill a natural urge easily.
Like everything else.

That's all this shyt is about, but we try to complicate it to make ourselves seem better than regular animals.

You buy food from the store, which isn't natural but you do it because it's the easiest way to fulfill your natural urge to eat

You work the job to have the food and shelter to fulfill the urge to survive.

Men only get a GF/wife for the same reason. Nothing more than to have easier way to fulfill their natural urge to fukk/reproduce.

Instead of having to go out every so often to find new p*ssy when u feel the urge. You just roll over and fukk your woman.

Just like not having to go hunt for food. U just go to the fridge

Any man that is great at hunting, doesn't have to store food

“Humanity” is all about making thoughtful choices in the face of “nature”

Everyday you walk out of your door you do the opposite of what nature would tell you to do.

Sex is no different.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

Talking to younger women I work with.. I’m glad to be married.. I can’t imagine trying to date in 2023. These people crazy now

 

[RiffRaff]

I fukked enough in my early years to not be succumbed by outside pssy. I still think about fukking other women but I learned a lot of it for me is knowing I can more so than the few minutes of bliss which isn’t as good ultimate as being my wife.

Sometimes getting compliments from random women when I’m out or going out with my boys just to make sure my jumper is still tight and that’s good enough for me.

Peace of mind and loyal partner who can throw down in the kitchen >>>>>

 

[Mr. Glass]

Married breh, simple yes or no. Do you have any desire and I mean any desire at all, to have sex with a woman other than your wife? In all the years / months of being married, have you ever in the courting phase, dating phase, and now the marriage, have you ever wanted to have sex with someone else besides your SO?

If yes, then are you living a lie? Are you truly satisfied as a man? Don't get me wrong, yeah sure, you love your SO....but when it comes to men, having sex rarely involves any feelings, connections, or really having a care for a woman, it's simply the raw appeal of new p*ssy. There's just something about having sex with the same woman for a couple months, the appeal of having sex with her wears off so I genuinely wonder how a married men is honestly satisfied in his situation.

This thread comes to mind primarily due to stumbling across a married coli breh's post:



Now I applaud the breh for being real. This is not meant to clown him in anyway. But I STRONGLY believe the vast majority of men feel this way. They love their wife. She's awesome. All that. But as a man, there is just something appealing about variety.

A perfect scenario would having a wife, but having a rotation of girlfriends every quarter. I honestly cannot think of any other way a married man can be legitimately satisfied with his aging, same old p*ssy. Let's speak on it. And let's be honest. This is a safe space amongst the brehs.

And as for the miracle brehs that have NEVER even ONCE thought of having sex with a woman other than his wife, please, share your secret. How do you manage to do that?

All of that is true, but how is it living a lie?

Sex isn't the reason I'm with my wife. I'm with my wife because she's my best friend and we have each other's best interest.

I don't know about you, but even on my best day, I can only fukk for like 45 minutes out the day. After that, then what? For the remaining 23 hours and 15 minutes, what else should I do? Fantasize about more p*ssy? Where does that get me? My wife has been riding for me since the mid 2000s. I'm not saying I don't see a big ass and be like, "damn." But after that, so what? I'm sure she does that same thing when she sees a dude with big arms.

We got a plan, and that's way more important than busting a nut.

 

[the bossman]

It's an act of intelligence only to fulfill a natural urge easily.
Like everything else.

That's all this shyt is about, but we try to complicate it to make ourselves seem better than regular animals.

You buy food from the store, which isn't natural but you do it because it's the easiest way to fulfill your natural urge to eat

You work the job to have the food and shelter to fulfill the urge to survive.

Men only get a GF/wife for the same reason. Nothing more than to have easier way to fulfill their natural urge to fukk/reproduce.

Instead of having to go out every so often to find new p*ssy when u feel the urge. You just roll over and fukk your woman.

Just like not having to go hunt for food. U just go to the fridge

Any man that is great at hunting, doesn't have to store food

so no men want to just simply raise their kids under a 2-parent household? It's weird the only criteria some yall use for everything is sex

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

My wife is cool with me flirting with and fukking other women as long as I keep her involved, but honestly the time and effort it takes to set that up is inconvenient and not worth the effort to me. We occasionally go to clubs/bars to see what that swinger life is about (women only) but we’re happy fukking each other and watching porn to put out those flames. She’s had a couple of girlfriends before we met, so that’s not a big deal to her. And I’ve checked off most of my sexual fantasies before we got together. We have this one chick who wants to fukk me, but she gives off obsessed vibes, so I’m not in a rush until we know her better. Another chick backed out of hanging out with us, but I think she just wanted me. I don’t have to deal with the shyt most married men do.

 

[mag357]

so no men want to just simply raise their kids under a 2-parent household? It's weird the only criteria some yall use for everything is sex

The disconnect alot of us have in a conversation like this is that y'all not thinking deep enough.

For example, before you typed that. You could have thought to yourself "why do people have kids in the first place"

Then you'd come to the conclusion, having kids is just the result of fulfilling a primal urge. People can talk about love and all other types of shyt but that's all it really is.
Everything else is just social conditioning. Relationships, what being a "good father" or "good mother" entails.
What's society feels is the best for survival, which changes.

But All things go back to basic needs and having access to basic needs

Food, shelter, reproduction

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

thinking of marriage in terms of sex is low level thinking...the woman you choose should be someone that adds to your life in more ways than she gives you erections. she should bring some value...this is where i messed up...choosing women based mostly on physical attraction and not on mindset and what they wanted out of life....

will this cure men from occassionally being attracted to another woman? no it won't

but it will make home life vastly more enjoyable and easier to maintain if you and the wife have more going on than sex.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

so no men want to just simply raise their kids under a 2-parent household? It's weird the only criteria some yall use for everything is sex

this is the point i was making

 

[Fill Collins]

Every other breh I know tells me not to get married, some of them damn near have a single tear going down their cheek

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

The disconnect alot of us have in a conversation like this is that y'all not thinking deep enough.

For example, before you typed that. You could have thought to yourself "why do people have kids in the first place"

Then you'd come to the conclusion, having kids is just the result of fulfilling a primal urge. People can talk about love and all other types of shyt but that's all it really is.
Everything else is just social conditioning. Relationships, what being a "good father" or "good mother" entails.
What's society feels is the best for survival, which changes.

But All things go back to basic needs and having access to basic needs

Food, shelter, reproduction

its deeper than this breh....

there should also be a drive as a man to fulfill his purpose on this earth....theres more to life than eating....sleeping....and fuqqing.....

what brings you joy? what do you want to leave when you're gone?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Every other breh I know tells me not to get married, some of them damn near have a single tear going down their cheek

they got married for the wrong reasons

 

[mag357]

“Humanity” is all about making thoughtful choices in the face of “nature”

Everyday you walk out of your door you do the opposite of what nature would tell you to do.

Sex is no different.

True...
I'm not talking right or wrong here.

Maybe following your nature is wrong in most instances, or maybe not.

But we all know what nature wants from us.
And if you didn't follow your nature In most instances, you and the rest of humanity would be dead.

You can make other choices opposite of your nature because maybe society says it's wrong, or for whatever reason you feel it's better to do something different.

But we at least have to be honest with ourselves. And look at what we find truthfully.
Cause then you might start to look at your life and decision differently

Like what the OP is saying.

But people can't even be honest with themselves.