Married brehs are in denial. Enter.

[Marlow Stanfield]

Isn't OP the same one who has given up on even trying to talk to women?

 

[the bossman]

Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

Grown man shyt. It's difficult to really be able to understand this perspective at 25 vs. say 35

 

[the bossman]

So wheb a dude is MARRYING, im like...okay bro lol you trapped bad, or clueless.

Since you clearly got it figured out you need to put cats like lebron, Obama, or JayZ on real game then.

Hurry before it becomes too late for them

 

[AngryBaby]

Since you clearly got it figured out you need to put cats like lebron, Obama, or JayZ on real game then.

Hurry before it becomes too late for them

2 out of the 3 cheat.

One basically follows every traditional societal value in the book...

And I already said, wife quality may vary. She better be a baddie

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Why is it that cats who aren't/never been married wanna tell ERRBODY how 'bad' marriage is?

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Same with militants that stay worried about white women. They low key want marriage. Whole thread plat off dudes who haven't been on a date in a year downing marriage.

Incel shyt.

 

[Left.A1]

You incels aren’t fukking different women to begin with Might as well get married and kill these fraud ass “dreams” of lusting after multiple women

 

[AngryBaby]

Every single man I've come across lie and live double lives, instead of telling women they just want to be single and keep their opinions open. Any woman worth having is not about to get into a open relationship.. So some single men lie just to get with that caliber of woman, then have side bytches. Which is no different than a miserable married man aside from the legal ramifications.

Some single men lie and say their committed some their main bytch don't cheat, yet they're out cheating. Thats stupid to me and a waste of energy.

I never needed to do all of that. It was simply, meet someone, smash. Only hit them up for that if they are down for it, and rinse repeat. No quasi fugazi relationships or hang outs and shyt like that. Unless you actually like the girl.

Then you just hang out with friends, meet new people then or not, chill and deal with sex when you want to. No girl Ive delt with ever felt mislead and also understood what it was. Especially if you're using tinder and such.

 

[AngryBaby]

Same with militants that stay worried about white women. They low key want marriage. Whole thread plat off dudes who haven't been on a date in a year downing marriage.

Incel shyt.

Im in a relationship...lol ya'll really must be old on here or something...

 

[the bossman]

2 out of the 3 cheat.

One basically follows every traditional societal value in the book...

And I already said, wife quality may vary. She better be a baddie

bruh there's a laundry list of highly regarded brehs in the community doing it. my point is even dudes that are living life on a high level are in marriages

living in some hi rise condo while working at a fortune 500 is nice (done it). but it doesn't mean you now have everything figured out. there's levels to life. Try to be open-minded enough to think - maybe just maybe there is something to this marriage shyt I might not be able to see right now.

 

[AngryBaby]

Same with militants that stay worried about white women. They low key want marriage. Whole thread plat off dudes who haven't been on a date in a year downing marriage.

Incel shyt.

Im in a relationship...

bruh there's a laundry list of highly regarded brehs in the community doing it. my point is even dudes that are living life on a high level are in marriages

living in some hi rise condo while working at a fortune 500 is nice (done it). but it doesn't mean you now have everything figured out. there's levels to life. Try to be open-minded enough to think - maybe just maybe there is something to this marriage shyt I might not be able to see right now.

And most of those guys wives are bad.

Oh trust me, I get it. Im in a ltr and dont cheat myself. BUT, im simply saying it isnt overall better per se. I'd say it's about...50/50

I just have a problem with married dudes acting like there isnt an alternative thats as good. Or acting as if they are in an elevated position because of their being married lol

Mainstream basic mindset

 

[Wildhundreds]

I never needed to do all of that. It was simply, meet someone, smash. Only hit them up for that if they are down for it, and rinse repeat. No quasi fugazi relationships or hang outs and shyt like that. Unless you actually like the girl.

Then you just hang out with friends, meet new people then or not, chill and deal with sex when you want to. No girl Ive delt with ever felt mislead and also understood what it was. Especially if you're using tinder and such.

And this is absolutely fine because you've made a decision on how you want to live your life and you're behaving as such. And you have married men who look at his marriage, and the options you just laid out as well.. And he's content with his choice as well. Both of you are happy and its foolish and extremely dumb to debate who's lying because thats some hater sh*t..

But my issue is with the single men who lie to be with a woman.. Thats some miserable sh*t and a lot of single men do it..

 

[AngryBaby]

And this is absolutely fine because you've made a decision on how you want to live your life and you're behaving as such. And you have married men who look at his marriage, and the options you just laid out as well.. And he's content with his choice as well. Both of you are happy and its foolish and extremely dumb to debate who's lying because thats some hater sh*t..

But my issue is with the single men who lie to be with a woman.. Thats some miserable sh*t and a lot of single men do it..

Oh yeah, I have a friend with a "gf" of 4 years that he cheats on routinely, he acts like hes single.

These guys...these guys just look at the "gf" as failsafe contingency p*ssy and still seek validation from others. Narcissistic shyt.

I question my friend on that shyt on the regular. He once tild me "why deprive yourself" and I said "well, to not fukk over the person you supposedly care about" and he just looked at me like a spoke a different language.

That is straight sociopathic imo

 

[Wildhundreds]

Oh yeah, I have a friend with a "gf" of 4 years that he cheats on routinely, he acts like hes single.

These guys...these guys just look at the "gf" as failsafe contingency p*ssy and still seek validation from others. Narcissistic shyt.

I question my friend on that shyt on the regular. He once tild me "why deprive yourself" and I said "well, to not fukk over the person you supposedly care about" and he just looked at me like a spoke a different language.

That is straight sociopathic imo

This is the real prison.. Moreso than the married man because at least we can understand why he stays in something thats unhappy.. But for the life of me I cannot understand a man in a unhappy relationship.. He can just easily leave but don't, and lies about why he's staying. Thats torture..

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Nope I dont have any desire to smash other women… For what honestly? Me and the wife get it in 3-4 days a week… I’m smashing raw and nutting all in them guts.. get my dikk sucked… I’m good, i munch on the p*ssy… my wife works out, so she’s into personal health.. im good

 

[Wildhundreds]

Nope I dont have any desire to smash other women… For what honestly? Me and the wife get it in 3-4 days a week… I’m smashing raw and nutting all in them guts.. get my dikk sucked… I’m good, i munch on the p*ssy… my wife works out, so she’s into personal health.. im good

And looking at whats available on the market right now.. One would have to agree.. Yeah, you good.