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nature this nature that…discipline is a major part of masculinity and a reason we got here in the first place

I’m not ready to settle down so yea I fukk on randoms…but best believe when it’s time to leave a legacy I’m finding someone who can be the best mother to my seeds and I’m not jeopardizing that over p*ssy…

tbh if we left it upto to nature 50% of u lames would get no p*ssy
 

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its deeper than this breh....

there should also be a drive as a man to fulfill his purpose on this earth....theres more to life than eating....sleeping....and fuqqing.....

what brings you joy? what do you want to leave when you're gone?
Brother... you're only saying this because you live in a developed society and all of your basic needs are met.

If that wasn't the case...
There would be nothing more important to you than the drive to survive.

Sustainance, shelter, sex.

All the other things like questioning what's you purpose on earth and meaningless things that give you joy, can come into play wants the primal needs are met.

You can see even in developed societies, people who still have issues with their basic needs, don't have time for happiness and joy. And then tend to commit crime or have mental problems.
People with no money commit crimes

The word "incel" is used alot on this site.
What is that... A person lacking an outlet to fulfill their sexual urges... correct?

Also, what do I leave when I'm gone?
Honestly, that's always a weird question to me.
I'll be gone. Who gives a shyt lol.
Who knows what happens once I'm gone.
 

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True...
I'm not talking right or wrong here.

Maybe following your nature is wrong in most instances, or maybe not.

But we all know what nature wants from us.
And if you didn't follow your nature In most instances, you and the rest of humanity would be dead.

You can make other choices opposite of your nature because maybe society says it's wrong, or for whatever reason you feel it's better to do something different.

But we at least have to be honest with ourselves. And look at what we find truthfully.
Cause then you might start to look at your life and decision differently

Like what the OP is saying.

But people can't even be honest with themselves.
The only “choices” we make are against nature.

The entire idea of “choice” is some human shyt.

Animals don’t make choices. They do what evolution/survival dictates.

Any guy claiming it’s “natural” to cheat is admitting he has no self control.
 
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Eventually you’ll get older and your desire to slide in a different woman every night will wane.

Marriage is more about the companionship aspect of things and having someone to share the good times with and also lean on during times of turmoil. This is not to mention it’s a more favorable environment for raising children.

A lot of you think you going to be smashing randoms from now until the day you die, but at some point life is going to start life(ing) and when it does you’re going to deal with all kinds of shyt like problems on your job, financial issues, life threatening/altering illnesses, the death of loved ones, etc.

It’s better to have a person that can occasionally be your peace and your help in the midst of the storm than trying to navigate all the aforementioned situations alone as you naturally start aging and many of your close loved ones have moved on to a different chapters in their life that don’t include you such as starting their own families, falling out of contact, death, etc.

Marriage is definitely not for everyone and there will always be what ifs involved. There will always be what seems to be a badder female out there, but there are what ifs in all aspects of life. There is always going to be a better house than the one you’re living in, a better vehicle than what you’re driving, better clothes than the ones you’re wearing, a better job than the one you have etc. You learn to live with it, grow, and make memories and hope by the time you’ve reached the dawn of your life you’ve lived a life worth living and have left a legacy those after you will admire, respect, and appreciate.

Of course, all the above mentioned is possible as a single person; however, you’re highly delusional if you think you’re still going be on that mackdaddy shyt into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond if you’re fortunate enough to live that long. Most people’s priorities change and they seek more meaningful relationships and bonds as they age.

Such a good post I can hear Morgan Freeman reading it
 

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The only “choices” we make are against nature.

The entire idea of “choice” is some human shyt.

Animals don’t make choices. They do what evolution/survival dictates.

Any guy claiming it’s “natural” to cheat is admitting he has no self control.
You guys are wild frustrating lol

Let me do it this way.

You think you're making a better choice against your nature to be with 1 woman and get married and have a kid...
And u have thoughts to fukk other women. But you don't cause you're better than all the other sick, cheating b*stards.

Cool cool

You don't realize you didn't make choice against nature.

You're still playing the game... You call it love or trying to build a legacy lol
But it's just another way that nature gets you to fukk and reproduce

The OP is just talking about people trying to act like they don't really want to be fukkin other bytches. Which is obviously NOT true
 

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You guys are wild frustrating lol

Let me do it this way.

You think you're making a better choice against your nature to be with 1 woman and get married and have a kid...
And u have thoughts to fukk other women. But you don't cause you're better than everybody else.
I didn’t say i was “better” than anyone else.

I said choices are deliberate. Whether you chose to be fateful to one person or fukk everything that moves, that’s your choice.

Some people try to wave away cheating as “natural” behavior. But in reality it’s a choice made by people who are not serious/dedicated to the relationship they built their life around.
You don't realize you didn't make choice against nature.

You're still playing the game... You call it love or trying to build a legacy lol
But it's just another way that nature gets you to fukk and reproduce

The OP is just talking about people trying to act like they don't really want to be fukkin other bytches. Which is obviously NOT true
The OP is trying to place his own lack of self control on everyone else.

It’s obviously human nature for your dikk to jump at like 99% of the women you see.

It’s your choice to decide which of those you actually lay with:ufdup:
 

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thinking of marriage in terms of sex is low level thinking...the woman you choose should be someone that adds to your life in more ways than she gives you erections. she should bring some value...this is where i messed up...choosing women based mostly on physical attraction and not on mindset and what they wanted out of life....

will this cure men from occassionally being attracted to another woman? no it won't

but it will make home life vastly more enjoyable and easier to maintain if you and the wife have more going on than sex.
Didn’t you keep a woman longer than you should’ve because you thought she had nice feet? There are people out here who get married for body parts.

I know an architect that married a woman who was a Chemist, because he liked how she could clap her butt in dresses. As in, I and his homeboy asked him why he married her and that was literally his reason. Dude knew her a year. It was one of the weddings I talked about where like 3 dudes at the wedding had smashed but was at the wedding. Dudes getting married for all kinds of dumb reasons out here.
 

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The disconnect alot of us have in a conversation like this is that y'all not thinking deep enough.

For example, before you typed that. You could have thought to yourself "why do people have kids in the first place"

Then you'd come to the conclusion, having kids is just the result of fulfilling a primal urge. People can talk about love and all other types of shyt but that's all it really is.
Everything else is just social conditioning. Relationships, what being a "good father" or "good mother" entails.
What's society feels is the best for survival, which changes.

But All things go back to basic needs and having access to basic needs

Food, shelter, reproduction
You're talking not going deep enough, but yet boil everything down to primal urges. You said fukking and reproducing. that's it nothing more. Purposefully deciding to raise kids in a 2 parent household as a family and simply reproducing are two different things

You can drop your seed off in random p*ssy and never look back. To intentionally want to raise a family there's clearly a bigger desire at play that you're not accounting for beyond urges and social conditioning
 

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Married breh, simple yes or no. Do you have any desire and I mean any desire at all, to have sex with a woman other than your wife? In all the years / months of being married, have you ever in the courting phase, dating phase, and now the marriage, have you ever wanted to have sex with someone else besides your SO?

If yes, then are you living a lie? Are you truly satisfied as a man? Don't get me wrong, yeah sure, you love your SO....but when it comes to men, having sex rarely involves any feelings, connections, or really having a care for a woman, it's simply the raw appeal of new p*ssy. There's just something about having sex with the same woman for a couple months, the appeal of having sex with her wears off so I genuinely wonder how a married men is honestly satisfied in his situation.

This thread comes to mind primarily due to stumbling across a married coli breh's post:



Now I applaud the breh for being real. This is not meant to clown him in anyway. But I STRONGLY believe the vast majority of men feel this way. They love their wife. She's awesome. All that. But as a man, there is just something appealing about variety.

A perfect scenario would having a wife, but having a rotation of girlfriends every quarter. I honestly cannot think of any other way a married man can be legitimately satisfied with his aging, same old p*ssy. Let's speak on it. And let's be honest. This is a safe space amongst the brehs.

And as for the miracle brehs that have NEVER even ONCE thought of having sex with a woman other than his wife, please, share your secret. How do you manage to do that?
Why does men being married bother you so much? Seriously, why are you concerned about the relationships of other men, as they pertain to marriage? You are on an unnecessary crusade to prove a point that is subjective to each person. There are no objective opinions on relationships and which types are better, yours just being another opinion in a sea of them. So in the end, are you trying to convince us, or are you really trying to convince yourself?
 

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One of the greatest lies women tell themselves, sex isn't everything in a relationship. It's not everything by definition, but if the sex game ain't right and it goes stale you might as well toss it in the bushes because that need will be rectified. So sex needs to be at the top of the list
My boy was engaged to a chick we went to college with. My friends always come to me for relationship talks and advice because I've been married since 2012. He was telling me about how their core values were changing and not aligned. He grew up in the church, but had been shifting away from religion HEAVY. But his family and her family were pretty religious. So they would just get into a lot of discussion arguments over everything basically.

Then he said that they don't even have sex and that there wasn't any intimacy that felt authentic. When he told me that, I told him straight up, "Ay man, if yal not smashing now before yal even married, then there may be something else there... sounds like she may not be into you like that and just looking for the show for a wedding and the wife title" I could say that confidently, because sex has never been an issue for me in a relationship. So I was being real with breh and saying the writing is on the wall. If you can't even fall back on great sex as a stress reliever or as a safety valve in a marriage, then you're signing up for a miserable life.

Imagine being in a relationship with a woman who you doesn't like fukking you?
:mjlol:

He ended up breaking things off... as he should have. Men have to be honest with other men. If you don't have similar interests as your partner, if you're not open to different lifestyle elements that they are into, if you don't share the same believes... if you basically don't like them. You don't like talking to them... AND the sex is mid to bad or non-existent. Then as a man, walk tf away. Stop wasting your time.

It shouldn't be pulling teeth fukking your wife. That's one thing that matters, idc what anyone says.
 

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Brother... you're only saying this because you live in a developed society and all of your basic needs are met.

If that wasn't the case...
There would be nothing more important to you than the drive to survive.

Sustainance, shelter, sex.

All the other things like questioning what's you purpose on earth and meaningless things that give you joy, can come into play wants the primal needs are met.

You can see even in developed societies, people who still have issues with their basic needs, don't have time for happiness and joy. And then tend to commit crime or have mental problems.
People with no money commit crimes

The word "incel" is used alot on this site.
What is that... A person lacking an outlet to fulfill their sexual urges... correct?

Also, what do I leave when I'm gone?
Honestly, that's always a weird question to me.
I'll be gone. Who gives a shyt lol.
Who knows what happens once I'm gone.
well fact of the matter IS that we both live in a developed society (sort of)....

yes...i think existentially....what am i here for? what am i supposed to do? if these things dont occur to a man at some point in his life....he might as well live in a 3rd world country and all he has to think about is fuqqing...eating and sleeping....
 
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Didn’t you keep a woman longer than you should’ve because you thought she had nice feet? There are people out here who get married for body parts.

I know an architect that married a woman who was a Chemist, because he liked how she could clap her butt in dresses. As in, I and his homeboy asked him why he married her and that was literally his reason. Dude knew her a year. It was one of the weddings I talked about where like 3 dudes at the wedding had smashed but was at the wedding. Dudes getting married for all kinds of dumb reasons out here.
yep...i kept her....and like clock work shes come back....but thats for another thread....

yeah men myself included get married for all kinds of dumb reasons....i learned my lessons though...the hard way
 
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