Married brehs....come through

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I been married for 20 years, I think the key to our success is a willingness to compromise while stile not losing each other in the process. I also appreciate my wife for taking me on when I was struggling financially and trying to raise my oldest son (from another girl) when she didn't have to do that. Sure we have are tiffs and disagreements but we also remember that we are both fighting for the same cause. Its interesting to see how much we have grown now that 2 out of 3 of the kids are essentially out the house. If I were to give any advice in choosing your partner is to not rush or settle take your time and be ready to commit.
 

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.Happiness is the last thing you should be looking for in a marriage. Security and family structure is the main priorities. If you're happiness and life goals are that important to you, you probably should stay single.
 

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Marriage isn't the problem, its when you have kids where the relationship becomes complicated.

This. We don't live near a lot of family, do finding people to watch your kids is hard. You have to make time for each other especially when you have kids and that ain't easy.

12 years later in October for me
 

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"Marriage" is a beautiful thing but the ideal marriage has been distorted by too many people who aren't built for marriage getting married. The truth is people love to say half of all marriages fail completely forgetting that means half of all marriages SUCCEED. We only HEAR about the bad ones because those are the ones being projected... doesn't mean it's not an enjoyable experience. All of my friends who aren't happily married or are cheating are dudes I know wouldn't be able to stay with one girl anyone but instead of understanding that they would rather blame it on "Marriage"... :yeshrug:
 

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No temptation during business trips

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With the broads I see in the environment I work in.... No :mjcry:

There's no way I could cheat down, especially with a warehouse thot. Aint no bytch doing the come up shuffle off my paycheck :rudy:

I can't be knocked out the box by no bytch!
 

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"Marriage" is a beautiful thing but the ideal marriage has been distorted by too many people who aren't built for marriage getting married. The truth is people love to say half of all marriages fail completely forgetting that means half of all marriages SUCCEED. We only HEAR about the bad ones because those are the ones being projected... doesn't mean it's not an enjoyable experience. All of my friends who aren't happily married or are cheating are dudes I know wouldn't be able to stay with one girl anyone but instead of understanding that they would rather blame it on "Marriage"... :yeshrug:

Church. Too many mufukkaz you know shouldn't get married do but blame it on the institution of marriage.
 

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.Happiness is the last thing you should be looking for in a marriage. Security and family structure is the main priorities. If you're happiness and life goals are that important to you, you probably should stay single.

Overall you seem kinda negative but this makes sense. You hopefully don't need to throw away happiness but different things (security and this new family structure) makes you happy as opposed to the single lone Wolf life
 

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[Verse 1]
You know I, thug em, fukk em, love em, leave em
Cause I don't fukking need em
Take em out the hood, keep em looking good
But I don't fukking feed em
First time they fuss I'm breezing
Talking bout, what's the reasons
I'm a pimp in every sense of the word, bytch
Better trust and believe em
In the cut where I keep em
Til I need a nut, til I need to beat the guts
Then it's "beep beep" and I'm picking them up
Let em play with the dikk in the truck
Many chicks wanna put Jigga's fists in cuffs
Divorce him and split his bucks
Just because you got good head, I'mma break bread
So you can be living it up
shyt I, part with nothing, y'all be fronting
Me give my heart to a woman
Not for nothing, never happen
I'll be forever macking



:wow:
 

Ninjaz In Paris

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[Verse 1]
You know I, thug em, fukk em, love em, leave em
Cause I don't fukking need em
Take em out the hood, keep em looking good
But I don't fukking feed em
First time they fuss I'm breezing
Talking bout, what's the reasons
I'm a pimp in every sense of the word, bytch
Better trust and believe em
In the cut where I keep em
Til I need a nut, til I need to beat the guts
Then it's "beep beep" and I'm picking them up
Let em play with the dikk in the truck
Many chicks wanna put Jigga's fists in cuffs
Divorce him and split his bucks
Just because you got good head, I'mma break bread
So you can be living it up
shyt I, part with nothing, y'all be fronting
Me give my heart to a woman
Not for nothing, never happen
I'll be forever macking



:wow:

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Jiggaman used to be my hero... what happened... :wow:
 
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