Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?

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We all know its true for women alotta times (marry the simps they werent attracted to when there in they primes)

But this is an interesting take on the male side

What do u guys think?



She has multiple dms and texts of guys saying “yeah, my wife is cool , but I dont really love her I just proposed cuz she was there”:mjlol:


Ladies , u ever felt like a mans second choice? U ever been with a man u deemed ur second or third choice?
 

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As a married man, I could see this being true. I would put the guys who are married but are up on everything when we go out without their wives acting single. The dudes who are still lying to women about being married to get the draws when in fact most women would sleep with a married man knowingly.
 

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I think I'm gonna build a shack somewhere in British Columbia and become a hermit tbh the world is cold af

I'm probably already socially conditioned to settle down with a ting I don't care for that much.
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I would say that is truer for women.
I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.

I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone :yeshrug:


It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.
 

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while i still feel like a man has to love you/see you worthy of being a long term partner, i do think happening to be that woman when the time is right for him is a big component. you can have identical copies of a woman, but if he's dating version 1 from 26-29 when he's still kicking it, wanting to fukk other women, finding/developing himself, etc. she's not getting a ring. version 2 can be in his life at 33 and get the ring simply because he's ready, not because she's anything more special or different than the one who preceded her.

women tend to find dudes they want to marry and will work hard to hold on to him or get him to feel the same...for years.
 
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I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.

I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone :yeshrug:


It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.
this is complete bullshyt, but if it works for you and your dad, good luck to the women who settle(d) for that role in his/your life
 

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It's true for both men and women. Marriage is a business decision.

This, doubt I will marry for love. I will marry the woman that I can build with the most when I am ready. So many men are married to women that don't truly love them(but want their financial security). I just seen this girl with two kids from my high school with a dude she would not look twice at :'( in the day.
 
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this is complete bullshyt, but if it works for you and your dad, good luck to the women who settle(d) for that role in his/your life

It isnt bullshyt, and its been working for 20+ years for him so:yeshrug:

Ive never been in love esp to the point I gave a woman too many chances but if I did that would put me in a losing situation. Gotta keep ya head skr8:wow:
 

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I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.

I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone :yeshrug:


It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.

shyt is lust more than love in a lot of those situations though. at least from cats I know that say that.
 

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shyt is lust more than love in a lot of those situations though. at least from cats I know that say that.
Really does seem that way. And trauma bonding.

These dudes be still so called in love with the girl who cleaned their bank account & fukked their best friend:mjlol:
 

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We all know its true for women alotta times (marry the simps they werent attracted to when there in they primes)

But this is an interesting take on the male side

What do u guys think?



She has multiple dms and texts of guys saying “yeah, my wife is cool , but I dont really love her I just proposed cuz she was there”:mjlol:


Ladies , u ever felt like a mans second choice? U ever been with a man u deemed ur second or third choice?



:mjlol: The lyrics for the hook of this song perfectly describes these nikkas thought process of getting married.
 
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