Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?

[NoChillJones]

If I were to ask the nikkas in this thread how many of you are actually married or even actively in a relationship........none of you goofies who agree with OP would raise your hands........

nikkas talking about "I want the girl that puts butterflies in my tummy"

Wife the woman thats loyal, wont cheat, gets along with moms, cooks, is a good mother and holds you down. Call it a day

Who says the woman can't be the same person? Hell in most cases it is.....

 

[MaxPain]

nikkas talking about "I want the girl that puts butterflies in my tummy"

Wife the woman thats loyal, wont cheat, gets along with moms, cooks, is a good mother and holds you down. Call it a day

Right these dudes really sound like bytches. U use ur logic and wife up the women that makes the most sense instead of the one that looks the best or the one that gives u butterflies. I didnt know this many men wanted to fall in love like a chick flick but im starting to think men are the more romantic sex while alotta women are using logic (marrying the highest status men they can get). Its like these dudes want a real life Hitch movie. I could be wrong but its starting to appear like that.

 

[Mowgli]

Got married because i met a woman who loved me more and i loved more then any other prior.

If a woman cook clean and obey, you best know when youve won and lock that down, asap.

And obey her long as she obey you.

If having a family is important to you better now then later.

 

[NoChillJones]

...........did I not say orgies and her friends are women ......is that what you been mad at this whole time..................cause I said my wife's past sexual experiences opened up the door for me to have 2 women at the same damn time?
.........you been jealous all these months........holding on to some shyt you only dream about..........

 

[MaxPain]

Hahahaha....HELL FKN NO!!!

My wife shytS on all my exes all the way back to the very first!!!
Even the best of my exes can't compare to my wife!!
Almost every one of them wasn't about shyt or wound up getting whale fat or weren't good people.
There's no way I could ever say I married for convenience. My life has amplified from the day I started dating my wife...she's been a multiplier in my personal success, happiness, stability and completeness.

That's why she got the ring!

You won then. Is she the love of your life?

Alotta sim...I mean men I know consider women who did them the dirtiest the “love of their lives”...

U sound like u came out of a bad situation and actually dont miss it...

God bless your marriage.

 

[MaxPain]

...........did I not say orgies and her friends are women ......is that what you been mad at this whole time..................cause I said my wife's past sexual experiences opened up the door for me to have 2 women at the same damn time?
.........you been jealous all these months........holding on to some shyt you only dream about..........

Why are u so mad breh? Is it cuz I smoked all ur black n milds last time me and ur wife had a slumber party

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

If I were to ask the nikkas in this thread how many of you are actually married or even actively in a relationship........none of you goofies who agree with OP would raise your hands........


Who says the woman can't be the same person? Hell in most cases it is.....

I would agree with @Hennessypapi but as I stated it depends on the circumstance. I would agree because most people settle, hence terms like "starter marriage" etc. In my observations, many of women, who get married in their 20s end up marrying the first guy she meets that differs from those who she likes. What usually happens next is resent, divorce etc.

My advice to the brehs who are contemplating marriage is to do a little research on your potential wives "ex-boyfriends" before you commit. IF you are the outlier, don't do it. Every woman has a type, if you aren't her type, chances are you are her convenience man.

 

[MaxPain]

I would agree with @Hennessypapi but as I stated it depends on the circumstance. I would agree because most people settle, hence terms like "starter marriage" etc. In my observations, many of women, who get married in their 20s end up marrying the first guy she meets that differs from those who she likes. What usually happens next is resent, divorce etc.

My advice to the brehs who are contemplating marriage is to do a little research on your potential wives "ex-boyfriends" before you commit. IF you are the outlier, don't do it. Every woman has a type, if you aren't her type, chances are you are her convenience man.

Ive been saying that for years lol. If none of her ex bfs had anything in common with u, dont do it. U arent her type, the type she’s truly attracted to. She’ll go back to what she’s comfortable with.

 

[dark_magic]

Right these dudes really sound like bytches. U use ur logic and wife up the women that makes the most sense instead of the one that looks the best or the one that gives u butterflies. I didnt know this many men wanted to fall in love like a chick flick but im starting to think men are the more romantic sex while alotta women are using logic (marrying the highest status men they can get). Its like these dudes want a real life Hitch movie. I could be wrong but its starting to appear like that.

You hit the nail on the head, guy.

From Rollo Tomassi:

Women's love is transactional.
Men's love is romantic.

 

[NoChillJones]

Why are u so mad breh? Is it cuz I smoked all ur black n milds last time me and ur wife had a slumber party

Back to this shyt again huh..................you sad sad loser ass nikka, continue on with your bytch fest with your loser friends....... You "real nikka" you...........and yes that was a jab cause there is nothing real about your bytch ass scorned behavior day in and day out.

 

[semicko82]

You don't have to marry the prettiest woman in the room but make sure she's attractive to YOU.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

You won then. Is she the love of your life?

Alotta sim...I mean men I know consider women who did them the dirtiest the “love of their lives”...

U sound like u came out of a bad situation and actually dont miss it...

God bless your marriage.

Yes sir! She is the love of my life!!!
She loves me like no one ever has!!
Yes indeed, I got shyt on by a foreigner (my ex) who cheated on me, hid me from her family like a dirty secret, then got married off to some rag head her family ordained who abused her and did all the shyt to her that she did to me.
(Serves her right...karma, bytch!)

Then I met my wife and she blew away every concept of women that I had. Showed me what it REALLY was to be loved and appreciated and treated well! She makes me feel like a king and shows me that she loves me every day. What I thought in the past was love...was just garbage and lies.

She is the truth!
Thank you breh!

 

[MaxPain]

Back to this shyt again huh..................you sad sad loser ass nikka, continue on with your bytch fest with your loser friends....... You "real nikka" you...........and yes that was a jab cause there is nothing real about your bytch ass scorned behavior day in and day out.

How does it feel knowing I treat your wife’s vagina as a personal storage unit while ur at ur Pet Grooming job just to pay the bills

 

[bucks3115]

nikkas talking about "I want the girl that puts butterflies in my tummy"

Wife the woman thats loyal, wont cheat, gets along with moms, cooks, is a good mother and holds you down. Call it a day

STRAIGHT UP (travis scott voice)

 

[DPresidential]

I married the woman I loved the most.

And I was fortunate that she was also the woman who made me feel complete.

I know I got lucky.

And regarding "convenience" - The most convenient thing for a young, black attorney in NY would have been to live the life of a bachelor and be a big kid until my 40s.

That shyt just started feeling felt hollow as fukk.