Why do they need to do research on their ex bf ??
Can u elaborate more
Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?
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Why do they need to do research on their ex bf ??
Can u elaborate more
I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.
I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone
It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.
Firstly, I went through that thread on Twitter, and it was EYE-OPENING. Very insightful, sobering stuff.
Secondly RE: the bolded: My older brother said the exact same thing. But his reasoning included being that in love fukks with a man's ability to make consistently logical decisions, especially when it comes to said woman, as he is driven more by emotion/making her happy instead of the smart/right decision.
My brother's advice was to marry the person whose goals, values and so on best match with your life plan, and not necessarily the partner you want most. He believes that love is a choice -- I agree with this, to an extent -- and that you can foster an attachment with someone just by being around them extensively. He's the kind of dude that's like, "Love don't pay bills. But money does. So if we're not getting the bag or you're not helping me to do so, what are we doing?"
I couldn't fault the man's logic. But admittedly, he and I are motivated by and value different things more than others.
NoChillJones
Banned
How does it feel knowing I treat your wife’s vagina as a personal storage unit while ur at ur Pet Grooming job just to pay the bills
I don't feel shyt cause that's not real, its your imaginary go to insult cause you have nothing else to talk about......
........you a butthurt virgin, or damn near virgin whose been holding a grudge cause I boasted on having threesomes. You a fukking bum ass nikka......and now that I know why you been randomly quoting me in the past......I'm over it. Keep it moving lame.......
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
you think that's hard to find?
Bondye Vodou
Proud practitioner of the "High Science"
Rollo Tomassi:
Men are the true romantics whose love is based on altruism, while a woman's "love" is based on pragmatism.
I told these nikkas to pick up the rational male 1 & 2, dey won't hear me tho.
SadimirPutin
Superstar
Plenty of men love their wives....they just are slaves to their libido and constantly lust after women who of they spent a serious amount of time with they would realize they have little in common with or could even tolerate
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
this is a lie too, yall really gotta stop trying to blanket women based on a few you know/deal with or walking reality tv stereotypes.
the type of men people date may change with age, progressions in income/education, life passions/priorities, etc. and some people - such as myself - simeply date men we're attracted to, enjoy being around, and have a connection with no matter what "package" they come in or "mould" they fit (physically, professionally, personality wise, etc)
Nope
Got married for love and wanting to build a family with the woman i loved
Got married for love and wanting to build a family with the woman i loved
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
real shyt, you can refrain from answering my questions. you have a very fukked up outlook on women, relationships, and love from the threads i've read your posts in.
Atleast in America
Or u can get out of ur feelings and stop commenting in my threadsreal shyt, you can refrain from answering my questions. you have a very fukked up outlook on women, relationships, and love from the threads i've read your posts in.
To an extent. But we must remember that a man's "ready to marry" is partly defined as being in a place in life where he feels he has the choice of women that he deserves. Men who know they are headed to great things will many times wait and see what the game has to offer them when they've arrived. Thus, many women who insist on finding someone who wants to settle down early on are left with bums with no ambition or realistic aspirations.
Obviously that's not everybody but it happens much more than it should.
Obviously that's not everybody but it happens much more than it should.
Every woman, from the age of youth, has a type of man that she likes. In most cases, its the man that reminds them most of the favorite man in their life whether it be their father, paw-paw, uncle, brother etc.
From the time that a woman is sexually active, she will be in tune with her nature and sleep with a man that excites her or gives her the tingles whether it be the square, athlete, nerd or the hood.
During the exploratory phase of her sexuality, she will try different types of men, often curving those who don't give her those feels or tingles running back into the arms of the man that does.
For us men, these are the women who we hit, and no matter if she is in a relationship or not, out with a new dude on a date, the minute we call she comes running.
Eventually, they get tired of this and need to find someone to take care of them (emotionally, financially and romantically). At societies urges, she decides to step away from her desires and date "outside of the box" when she is ready to settle down.
When they decide to step outside of the box, it is usually with someone that meets the standards of what society wants for them but not what they want themselves or what "Excites" them.
This is why I believe as a man, you must know who their exes are before you decide to get serious or put a ring on it. If your woman likes athletes and you are a hood, it won't work and she will fukk cats behind your back hence the logic behind rich men, athletes, squares and street dudes getting cheated on when they are with women that they are incompatible with.
It also lends credence to cats like AMS when they say, stay on YOUR purpose and grind and let a woman choose you and not the other way around. There is nothing wrong with sleeping with a woman that isn't your type and vice versa but you are committing financial suicide if you think you can marry a woman and you aren't her type.
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
no one is in their feelings, but conversing with you on these topics is like conversing with a coli militant and expecting them not to call every white person a cac/devil and black person who doesn't agree with them a c00n - pointless. but there are others in your threads who i'd like to continue to conversation withOr u can get out of ur feelings and stop commenting in my threads
