Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Was with you up until here. Nothing you stated there makes sense....What I find in alot of these threads is you cats lack confidence. You lack confidence to be a strong man for your woman, your lack confidence in your dikk game, you lack confidence in the ability to please your women. You all spend the thread's existence given women all this power over you and give scared warning of what to look out for in efforts to avoid being hurt or played. The amount of hurdles you all believe you have to go through just to find the right woman to avoid something your obviously petrified of is giving your heart to someone who leaves you high and dry are ridiculous.

Like anything else in life you go have to step out there on faith. Not faith in her(well to some degree) but faith in your self and your ability to keep your damn women. Its like a new expensive purchase or having another kid , or changing jobs. You don't know how these situations play out but you step out on faith in yourself and your abilities to handle it.

If you go through life trying to find the perfect opportunity, or time to have kids, or to buy that car you want, then you end up losing out most times because no time is perfect. Settling down with a woman is no different. Either get over your insecurities (MAN UP) or be alone in your 40's coming home to nothing but a bottle of jergens and bitter late night internet rants about how women ain't shyt......

LOL. Damn man, im answering a question not writing a book. It's all good though. I can respect your thoughts as well because I possessed at one point a little too much confidence myself.

 

[MaxPain]

then you had absolutely no reason to reply to/read replies from me...remember that and move forward with that in mind

So ur an old unmarried women throwing nonsensical emotional comments in a thread unwarranted for you. Got it

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Meh, I actually love my wife so, no, I didn't marry her just because she was there.

Your experience may differ.​

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

How can you compare yourself and your friends vs a broad ass spectrum?

I ain't trying to get into a debate with you but you aren't making much sense right now. Your 20 friends is a much smaller sample size than the women I have encountered. And, for the record,

I haven't slept with all the women that I have encountered that have shown interest either. I am just saying that most women, that choose, have a type. Doesn't matter the age, race or religion.

you realize you have a sample size too...i highly doubt your sample of women is larger than mine. we're likely dealing with similar sample sizes, and to say all women have a type has not been my experience/observation at all.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

So ur an old unmarried women throwing nonsensical emotional comments in a thread unwarranted for you. Got it

absolutely, so again, feel free to ignore that five letter option under my posts

 

[Super TD Jakes]

like i said i fully disagree, i can look at myself and friends and see enough women who don't have a type.

subconsciously women do have a type...and that type will be based on the most influential man in that woman’s life growing up...like bro said...this is a scientific fact...get to know your subconscious minds brehettes...

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

you realize you have a sample size too...i highly doubt your sample of women is larger than mine. we're likely dealing with similar sample sizes, and to say all women have a type has not been my experience/observation at all.

Trust me, no disrespect but we are not dealing with the same sample size.

 

[Blankthawtz]

convenience?.....after runnin around fukkin random chicks and jumpoffs throughout my 20's i knew i didn't want to do that for the rest of my life.......i was never lookin to fall in love or get married but i wasn't runnin away from the possibility either....so best believe when my wife came into my life i locked that down and seeded her up....i had a good thing and wasn't gonna fukk that up for nobody.....

 

[BrehWyatt]

the only thing they have in common is outgoing personalities....if something that broad is considered a type, then i guess. even within that, their outgoingness had manifested differently within the construct of their individual traits, backgrounds, and interests.

It could be considered a type, I think. It's not limited to physical qualities or certain appearances. I also believe they had more in common than just an outgoing personalities, if you really delve into it and examine your time with them and how they landed you.

That said, it's none of my business so I'll fall back because I'm not trying to attack you or anything like that

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Im 38 years old. Born in NYC, played Basketball at a D1 PWI in the south, lived in New Orleans and Los Angeles and currently reside in Brooklyn and am black man with a real 6 coli cert career that I have been in since I wasn't able to go pro.


Trust me, no disrespect but we are not dealing with the same sample size.

Breh, I meet those requirements too. I have lived all over, worked all over, had different circles of friends/women in my life from different backgrounds (not just the women i have current lifelong friendships with) from high school, college, grad school, work, sorority, and other activities and associations. I don't care how many women you were casually coming into contact with, the sample of women you know in depth to observe dating history is likely the same.

As I said, every woman having a type is not my observation/experience.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

I thought the same but apparently alotta men feel the same. My own dad said to never marry the women u love the most. Said love makes men weak and women dont respect weak man.

I mean every dude I know who was deep in so called love lost his backbone and took too much shyt from a woman that I woulda been gone


It seems like being deep in love with someone is lacking self respect.

@ bolded. So damn true.

 

[Henri Christophe]

LOL @ getting married just to get married....


Thats why I feel no sympathy when those suckers get brutalized by the court system LOL


With all the information available to young men about the pros and cons of marriage... why would you get married just to do it ???

Convenience???

Sucka shyt ...

I think dudes get married for Reliable sex but after a while... The sex aint even reliable anymore so its really no point.

You should only get married if you meet someone who you feel is the greatest woman you ever met

If you get married for convenience or becuase she gave you an ultimatum... Youre a sucker.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

@dora_da_destroyer

Below is a quote from the Lil Mo' Fabolous thread. Still disagree? Totally unrelated topic but the same logic/rules apply.

She got some nice DSL though and decent tittes too. I believe her husband actually is a gospel singer/preacher too.

Edit - Nevermind according to google she divocred the gospel singer for a boxer.

 

[NoChillJones]

Breh, I meet those requirements too. I have lived all over, worked all over, had different circles of friends/women in my life from different backgrounds (not just the women i have current lifelong friendships with) from high school, college, grad school, work, sorority, and other activities and associations. I don't care how many women you were casually coming into contact with, the sample of women ounknow in depth to observe dating history is likely the same.

As I said, every woman having a type is not my observation/experience.

Hey are you a man, or a woman who likes chicks?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

It could be considered a type, I think. It's not limited to physical qualities or certain appearances. I also believe they had more in common than just an outgoing personalities, if you really delve into it and examine your time with them and how they landed you.

That said, it's none of my business so I'll fall back because I'm not trying to attack you or anything like that

All good...and no, the guys I've dated seriously have varied. Even thinking hard on them, like I said, the only factor is being outgoing - I have a personality (and family) that doesn't mesh well with reserved, uptight, serious people.