Married Brehs Is This True? U Get Married For Convenience?

[bucks3115]

Every woman, from the age of youth, has a type of man that she likes. In most cases, its the man that reminds them most of the favorite man in their life whether it be their father, paw-paw, uncle, brother etc.

From the time that a woman is sexually active, she will be in tune with her nature and sleep with a man that excites her or gives her the tingles whether it be the square, athlete, nerd or the hood.

During the exploratory phase of her sexuality, she will try different types of men, often curving those who don't give her those feels or tingles running back into the arms of the man that does.

For us men, these are the women who we hit, and no matter if she is in a relationship or not, out with a new dude on a date, the minute we call she comes running.

Eventually, they get tired of this and need to find someone to take care of them (emotionally, financially and romantically). At societies urges, she decides to step away from her desires and date "outside of the box" when she is ready to settle down.

When they decide to step outside of the box, it is usually with someone that meets the standards of what society wants for them but not what they want themselves or what "Excites" them.

This is why I believe as a man, you must know who their exes are before you decide to get serious or put a ring on it. If your woman likes athletes and you are a hood, it won't work and she will fukk cats behind your back hence the logic behind rich men, athletes, squares and street dudes getting cheated on when they are with women that they are incompatible with.

It also lends credence to cats like AMS when they say, stay on YOUR purpose and grind and let a woman choose you and not the other way around. There is nothing wrong with sleeping with a woman that isn't your type and vice versa but you are committing financial suicide if you think you can marry a woman and you aren't her type.

real shyt

salute

 

[ba'al]

@dora_da_destroyer

Below is a quote from the Lil Mo' Fabolous thread. Still disagree? Totally unrelated topic but the same logic/rules apply.

What did my quote allegedly help you to prove?

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

What did my quote allegedly help you to prove?

LOL. Most women have a type. Lil Mo is a hoodrat who has a type. She tried to marry the gospel singer but eventually went back to a guy that is closely aligned with her type.

 

[NoChillJones]

LOL @ getting married just to get married....

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.........dumbest shyt i've read all day.........well that and that Men are romantic shyt..........that was just borderline...........I honestly think alot of these dudes don't have a clue......there is just no way they have these views based off experience.....I refuse to believe they are that lost when it comes to the opposite sex........but if they aren't, it makes sense why they are alone.......also makes sense why they hate women......its a catch 22 on their ends.

 

[Lamar Givens]

1. Everyone’s definition of love is different.

2. Only a simp would allow a woman to treat him like a puppy dog that obeys orders.

3. Some men settle just like some women settle out of convenience.

4. Marrying for love is a fairly new concept in the West.

5. Usually people < 30 yap about finding their soul mate etc...

6. Those of us who have been married for quite some time realize that the person you claim to be madly in love with has at one time or another frustrated you to the point of contemplating leaving. We all get on each others nerves. If your spouse does not at some point I would question some things.

For example these couples always talking about their love on twitter and instagram got people fooled. When you have to do that much “flaunting” about your love for one another it’s usually because it’s not there.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

@dora_da_destroyer

Below is a quote from the Lil Mo' Fabolous thread. Still disagree? Totally unrelated topic but the same logic/rules apply.

I don't understand the context of this quote...not sure what's being shown here.


And yes, I disagree as I have concrete evidence to the contrary. Im not saying that some women don't have a type, simply that not every woman does. Unless you're like the other poster who I've been replying to and consider something as broad and generic as "outgoing personality" a type - even then, there are thousands of different ways to manifest "outgoing".


Edit: and you've now changed your language from "every" to "most"...I wouldn't even have quoted you had your stance been an unquantifiable "most"

 

[MaxPain]

LOL @ getting married just to get married....


Thats why I feel no sympathy when those suckers get brutalized by the court system LOL


With all the information available to young men about the pros and cons of marriage... why would you get married just to do it ???

Convenience???

Sucka shyt ...

I think dudes get married for Reliable sex but after a while... The sex aint even reliable anymore so its really no point.

You should only get married if you meet someone who you feel is the greatest woman you ever met

If you get married for convenience or becuase she gave you an ultimatum... Youre a sucker.

Well when I said convenient I meant the women who were the most loyal, made the best wives and mothers not neccessarily the women u had the strongest feelings for

And lets be real alotta simps still have it bad for broads who shytted on them & would go back in a heartbeat. Even if they have a good woman.

 

[NoChillJones]

1. Everyone’s definition of love is different.

2. Only a simp would allow a woman to treat him like a puppy dog that obeys orders.

3. Some men settle just like some women settle out of convenience.

4. Marrying for love is a fairly new concept in the West.

5. Usually people < 30 yap about finding their soul mate etc...

6. Those of us who have been married for quite some time realize that the person you claim to be madly in love with has at one time or another frustrated you to the point of contemplating leaving. We all get on each others nerves. If your spouse does not at some point I would question some things.

For example these couples always talking about their love on twitter and instagram got people fooled. When you have to do that much “flaunting” about your love for one another it’s usually because it’s not there.

After a while you do things to make her happy, and she does the same thing......no person should ever have the permanent upper hand in a relationship, Its give and take. Some times you have give up your pride and take some shyt........but she does too.....regardless of gender if your let your partner walk over you, they will treat you like shyt cause they can..........as a man I can't respect a woman who will let me cuss her out, beat on her, or treat like shyt without speaking up for herself........that shyt is a major turn off........

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

I honestly have no interest in getting married in he immediate future unless @dora_da_destroyer wants stop playing games and create some Black Excellence

On a separate note, this thread is depressing as fukk

 

[Henri Christophe]

Well when I said convenient I meant the women who were the most loyal, made the best wives and mothers not neccessarily the women u had the strongest feelings for

Ahh I see... I agree.

I believe thats what most men do... Its so much trash out here so once you find a good woman... You better hold onto that shyt LOL


Marriage is a business at the end of the day..... If u got a decent woman... Hold onto her.

Especially if u want a family one day.

But even a loyal woman can switch up on you.

U cant really measure or see a female's true nature until after she gets what she wants (committment/ring)

Womem switch up after they get comfortable..... So marrying for convenience doesnt seem smart

But hey, if you got a good woman... Why not?

 

[MillionMills]

To an extent. But we must remember that a man's "ready to marry" is partly defined as being in a place in life where he feels he has the choice of women that he deserves. Men who know they are headed to great things will many times wait and see what the game has to offer them when they've arrived.

Damn this is some real shyt

 

[You Win Perfect]

men don't want to get married its not in our nature. so i believe it.

 

[tuckgod]

Not true for me at all.

I had plenty of great women that would've gladly married me, but I knew most of them weren't fit for the type of family I wanted to have.

I knew that I wanted a large family, with my children bought up in a traditional, stable household, so when choosing my spouse, I knew that in order for our union to remain stable, she had to be a Southern, family oriented woman, raised in a preferably Christian, stable family.

I'm not necessarily a Christian myself, but I'm well aware of the benefits of having a woman already set in her spiritual beliefs, versus dealing with a woman still searching for her spiritual self and her role in this world, while she's trying to grow with you.

 

[AlainLocke]

Right these dudes really sound like bytches. U use ur logic and wife up the women that makes the most sense instead of the one that looks the best or the one that gives u butterflies. I didnt know this many men wanted to fall in love like a chick flick but im starting to think men are the more romantic sex while alotta women are using logic (marrying the highest status men they can get). Its like these dudes want a real life Hitch movie. I could be wrong but its starting to appear like that.

Men are the more romantic sex

Think about the history of women in the Western world...

They didn't really do shyt

To be with a woman...you actually had to like them...

Women on the other hand, just had to enjoy the lifestyle that a man can provide.

Women from well off families were taught the art of seduction and how to please men while men were taught how to conquer the world and give it to a woman.

Women are more pragmatic about relationships, they have to be.

They understand they ain't gonna get the best dikk, have the best looking man. They understand a man might not be the smartest or a social butterfly. But can this man give her the lifestyle?

Let's put it this way, Napoleon was a man that came from virtually nothing and conquered France. His 1st wife cheated on him and abandoned him. Only reason she came back was because he was a mess without her and of course he is Napoleon.

If a woman can cheat on one of the most powerful and greatest men in modern history...then you know as a man 8 times out of ten you are just a soft place to land.

 

[ultraflexed]

it's all bullsh#t


this is true for guys that have to settle, plain in simple.

most guys don't have the ability or means to get the women they really want so yes, those men will have to settle.

the guys like myself always get top shelf, and if we can't marry the women we want, we don't get married until we do...

but real niccaz out there that got there sh#t together. and are looking to get married have option regarding the women they want to marry and they pick from that roster..

if your one of those that can't get it, take what the defense gives you