Married co-worker: "Once you acknowledge that she controls everything, you'll be set"

[UpAndComing]

One married breh at work legit told me this. And not even in a sad way, more like a way
Dude was like, "My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime"

Then another married dude joined in the convo like "Ask how much money I have on me right now . None, cause my wife controls my money"


Then another joins in saying "She controls everything, and knows my bank info"
Dude said how her wife wants an exercise machine called Peloton Bike. shyt cost like $4000. He's like "This is what she wants, I gotta give it to her"



I'm legit standing there like

 

[Luke Cage]

Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.

 

[Bossino]

One married breh at work legit told me this. And not even in a sad way, more like a way. Dude was like, "My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime"
Then another married dude joined in the convo like "Ask how much money I have on me right now . None, cause my wife controls my money"
Then another joins in saying "She controls everything, and knows my bank info"
Dude said how her wife wants an exercise machine called Peloton Bike. shyt cost like $4000. He's like "This is what she wants, I gotta give it to her"
I'm legit standing there like

Yeah it's tough outchea, once guys realize the girl isn't what he thought, he realizes it's cheaper to keep her, and he sees in essence he's stuck and he can either accept his fate like the men above, or just take the financial L in divorce. It's bleek for those who want the traditional get up society is too far gone

 

[Tryna Makit]

Thats often the advice i get from married vets(10+yrs) and it seems thats the way it is...That Happy Wife, Happy Life shyt is real talk!

 

[Cynic]

#GMB

 

[Jparker]

Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.

I’ll be divorced eventually then because that’s not how shyt fly this way ​

 

[Barlow]

Men are such emasculated fakkits

 

[Cynic]

Honestly, if you want to maintain a marriage. He's right. Reason why i'm divorced.
Just realize that every man that has stayed married, has only done so because he bends over backwards for his wife. on everything.
If you go into it thinking you can have her be subservient or even just compromise and make it work. You lost.

You can. Just not anywhere near the Western world.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I challenge you to name a worse contract a man can sign

 

[Chrishaune]

Not with these women today. Nah breh. I'm good. I can't serve 2 masters.

Have some woman thinking she's my god? Nope

Have we not learned from Adam?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Y’all gotta stop taking advice from miserable people.

 

[Reece]

My godfather always telling me to never get married and that you’ll have to do whatever your wife wants to keep her happy and to keep the household peaceful then the very next month he’ll be like when you getting married

 

[Wildhundreds]

What generation of people you work with breh?

 

[Wildhundreds]

I’ll be divorced eventually then because that’s not how shyt fly this way ​

Are you the old poster benefited?

 

[LurkMoar]

Cheaper to keep her, Maybe cheat on the side