Married co-worker: "Once you acknowledge that she controls everything, you'll be set"

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

they're not trying to hear you

these goofies think that relative experiences and perspective are universal

it's like if you want to go a restaraunt and you only get info on it from those weird foodie/yelp people

nikkas is just clueless

Y’all gotta stop taking advice from miserable people.

 

[Crude]

I don't know what kinda marriage those guys are in, but that is not the nature of mine.

Like the brotha above me said pick your battles yes, but she isn't going to be putting a bunch of arbitrary demands on me.

I love my wife to the moon and back, but there are some things that I won't tolerate.

For some brothas they get in situations and quickly figure out its not what they thought it was going to be then also figure out it's cheaper to keep her especially when kids and stuff get involved. That usually when cats go get them a side piece and that kinda ish.

 

[Ashley Banks]

What kind of suckas y’all be hanging around

I know plenty married men who don’t let they wives punk them.

These “men” are bragging about their women controlling them

Right, i dont control anything my husband does, he’s a grown man. He can do what he wants, if I have a problem I’ll tell him if he refuses to change/stop and I can’t deal with it then I’ll leave. The LAST thing I ever want to do is stop someone from living their life.

 

[Mr. Negative]

 

[Ashley Banks]

they're not trying to hear you

these goofies think that relative experiences and perspective are universal

it's like if you want to go a restaraunt and you only get info on it from those weird foodie/yelp people

nikkas is just clueless

Right, if you don’t marry a controlling woman, you won’t have a woman trying to control you.

 

[Tryna Makit]

That means they got a side bytch breh..

Bingo! After a while....they all start cheating..also hoes love married nikkas....found out that lil tidbit of info from hanging around married dudes and seeing women not give af

 

[Dave7]

Lol my marriage is nothing like that, it’s not perfect but that shyt they are doing isn’t healthy. It sounds to me like these dudes accepted whatever situation was given or handed to them at the moment, like they are the types that probably don’t even play an active role in any of the decisions made in the household and have no problem with it. It takes two people to make a marriage work, a lot of understanding, and a whole lot of patience and communication. These dudes were probably the types that didn’t even have a say in getting married to the woman and just went with it because she wanted to....what y’all call em again?!?!?




















Oh yeah....SIMPS

 

[Strapped]

One married breh at work legit told me this. And not even in a sad way, more like a way
Dude was like, "My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime"

Then another married dude joined in the convo like "Ask how much money I have on me right now . None, cause my wife controls my money"


Then another joins in saying "She controls everything, and knows my bank info"
Dude said how her wife wants an exercise machine called Peloton Bike. shyt cost like $4000. He's like "This is what she wants, I gotta give it to her"



I'm legit standing there like

Dude can buy an exercising bike for about $150 without the monthly fees

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

OP you just need to remember this about whoever told you that bruh: Water always finds it's own level bruh.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Bingo! After a while....they all start cheating..also hoes love married nikkas....found out that lil tidbit of info from hanging around married dudes and seeing women not give af

And!!!!!!

The wife knows about all of this..


Thats why they're so happy..

 

[WesCrook]

Y’all gotta stop taking advice from miserable people.

I can picture these guys because I see them often.

Perhaps at one time they had some spunk or maybe not ever. But they allow their wives to suck all of the "umphh" out of them like a vacuum.

They own 1 pair of jeans....in fact, their whole wardrobe is shot.
Gets a haircut once per month at the most.
Never eats out for lunch at work
Drives an ordinary ass 4 cylinder car.

All of the money "goes towards the house"

It's sad to see so many men deteriorate...

 

[DragonKnight]

"My wife doesn't want to work anymore. She worked for 9 years, and she's tired of it. I guess that's what she wants. That's why I'm working overtime"

I don’t think it’s a problem if you can afford it. But working ot for something means you can’t afford it. She’s selfish

 

[Ziggiy]

I’d burn the house down before I allow ANY woman, wife or no wife, to dictate what happens with the money that I earn...

 

[Canon]

Bunch of betas

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Listen to low self esteem..
Sitcom husbands brehs

 

[The Fade]

Even white boys have girlfriends for 15 years now like brehs


Now I see why it makes them behave for that ring they won’t get