MARRY THAT GIRL

[Action Mike]

I disagree a lot of guys want the unattainable...they want the wife to take care of them while they continue to play field until they are too old to do it anymore.

No we don't

 

[Yup]

That's not good. This is especially true for black folks. We ain't in a position to be playing when we got shyt to build but what do i know I'm 5'2 220lbs.

Aren't you on a weight loss journey?

 

[PeridotPuss]

If character and values is too deep then you losing. It's the only thing that matters.

which is why I have and adhere to my own, women need to focus on THEIR choices, perceptions about them wanting food or whatever "men want" ain't got nothing to do with the price of tea in China

 

[Yup]

No we don't

Many men are like this. Do you know how many of my parents family friends have sidechicks (my dad included), while the woman is taking care of home, the kids and balancing a job.

But the men are like...why don't you do this like you use to, why don't you do that? But they put no effort in alleviating any of the wife's responsibilities while still expecting the same 20 year old that had no husband, kids and home to take care of. I have long expected that men are very selfish, now women are becoming selfish too. It is what it is.

Before women would whine to their girlfriends about their man's extramarital affairs and try to make that woman's life hell (still true today) now many women are carrying on their own extramarital affairs too. I don't condone it, I am not saying it is right but it's the world we live in.

 

[PeridotPuss]

I disagree a lot of guys want the unattainable...they want the wife to take care of them while they continue to play field until they are too old to do it anymore.

No boo, most just want to feel they have made the best choices and have the highest value among other men.

Insert - smart beautiful wife. You think them fukking around is deliberate? nikkas not out plotting to cheatand fukk up, it's just socially accepted if it happens AND they get caught, it's a "mistake" that's it that's all

Point is, the bad wife, the occasional fukk up with something bad, the good job, some smart/athletic kids, those ideas have nikkas like

Nowhere in there is he worrying about home girls deep feelings or anything extra like that women are the ultimate life accessory just play your role

Women need to figure out what their goals and objectives are with these dudes because most of yall reading the wrong playbook

 

[Yup]

No boo, most just want to feel they have made the best choices and have the highest value among other men.

Insert - smart beautiful wife. You think them fukking around is deliberate? nikkas not out plotting to cheatand fukk up, it's just socially accepted if it happens AND they get caught, it's a "mistake" that's it that's all

Point is, the bad wife, the occasional fukk up with something bad, the good job, some smart/athletic kids, those ideas have nikkas like

Nowhere in there is he worrying about home girls deep feelings or anything extra like that women are the ultimate life accessory just play your role

Women need to figure out what their goals and objectives are with these dudes because most of yall reading the wrong playbook

To add to the bold; that's my point, what if you dont have the hottest wife or the best home cook among your brehs, you start to look elsewhere for it. I always laugh when dudes lie that they don't try to impress their boys with their women...yes they do. That's why the concept of trophy wife exist.

The occasional F-up, is a complete betrayal for the woman. Also creates more stress for the wife when the wife has to deal without of wedlock kids, mistresses, etc... sorry it aint just an oops, it's life changing and can be even destroying.

 

[LadySimone]

Aren't you on a weight loss journey?

Girl... Ain't never been 220 In My life. I just told these nikkas that so they could eat. I'm actually 5'6.

 

[LadySimone]

Many men are like this. Do you know how many of my parents family friends have sidechicks (my dad included), while the woman is taking care of home, the kids and balancing a job.

But the men are why don't you this like you use to, why don't you do that? But they put no effort in alleviating any of the wife's responsibilities while still expecting the same 20 year old that had no husband, kids and home to take care of. I have long expected that men are very selfish, now women are becoming selfish too. It is what it is.

Before women would whine to their girlfriends about their man;s extramarital affairs and try to make that woman's life hell (still true today) now many women are carrying on their own extramarital affairs too. I don't condone it, I am not saying it is right but it's the world we live in.

Men are very selfish.

 

[Yup]

Girl... Ain't never been 220 In My life. I just told these nikkas that so they could eat. I'm actually 5'6.

lol, I suspected that was not true. Ha Ha Ha

 

[LadySimone]

No boo, most just want to feel they have made the best choices and have the highest value among other men.

Insert - smart beautiful wife. You think them fukking around is deliberate? nikkas not out plotting to cheatand fukk up, it's just socially accepted if it happens AND they get caught, it's a "mistake" that's it that's all

Point is, the bad wife, the occasional fukk up with something bad, the good job, some smart/athletic kids, those ideas have nikkas like

Nowhere in there is he worrying about home girls deep feelings or anything extra like that women are the ultimate life accessory just play your role

Women need to figure out what their goals and objectives are with these dudes because most of yall reading the wrong playbook

No offense but I didn't get any of this

 

[LadySimone]

To add to the bold; that's my point, what if you dont have the hottest wife or the best home cook among your brehs, you start to look elsewhere for it. I always laugh when dudes lie that they don't try to impress their boys with their women...yes they do. That's why the concept of trophy wife exist.

The occasional F-up, is a complete betrayal for the woman. Also creates more stress for the wife when the wife has to deal without of wedlock kids, mistresses, etc... sorry it aint just an oops, it's life changing and can be even destroying.

I think this is more true with black men because the media is probably the predominant socialiser of black people. How could it not be in a broken family?

 

[Yup]

I think this is more true with black men because the media is probably the predominant socialiser of black people. How could it not be in a broken family?

I actually have to agree with you on this one. I see more young white guys who find average women attractive than black men do to be honest. Ya, they will salivate over the hot chicks but they appreciate the average women too.

 

[iBrowse]

That's not good. This is especially true for black folks. We ain't in a position to be playing when we got shyt to build but what do i know I'm 5'2 220lbs.

 

[LadySimone]

I actually have to agree with you on this one. I see more young white guys who find average women attractive than black men do to be honest. Ya, they will salivate over the hot chicks but they appreciate the
average women too.

Well that's where the anger comes from with a lot of these dudes. They way more angry than white dudes. They watch TV and say wait how come I don't have the same girl as Kobe? Oh they only want thugs and ballers.

But thanks to their perpetuation of white supremacy that average and below white woman will be better than her black counterpart and will happily sport her with the accolades of his brain dead homies.

 

[Vic Damone. Jr]

That first rule tho