MARRY THAT GIRL

[Guile]

Many men are like this. Do you know how many of my parents family friends have sidechicks (my dad included), while the woman is taking care of home, the kids and balancing a job.

But the men are like...why don't you do this like you use to, why don't you do that? But they put no effort in alleviating any of the wife's responsibilities while still expecting the same 20 year old that had no husband, kids and home to take care of. I have long expected that men are very selfish, now women are becoming selfish too. It is what it is.

Before women would whine to their girlfriends about their man's extramarital affairs and try to make that woman's life hell (still true today) now many women are carrying on their own extramarital affairs too. I don't condone it, I am not saying it is right but it's the world we live in.

Women can never let go of this stuff (not saying you should).

 

[Guile]

Well that's where the anger comes from with a lot of these dudes. They way more angry than white dudes. They watch TV and say wait how come I don't have the same girl as Kobe? Oh they only want thugs and ballers.

But thanks to their perpetuation of white supremacy that average and below white woman will be better than her black counterpart and will happily sport her with the accolades of his brain dead homies.

I'll say this, most average guys at the end of the day will take whoever will have them without extraneous effort on their part. Black men aren't holing out for instagram dimes in favor of a girl that is ready and willing down the block.

 

[Yup]

Women can never let go of this stuff (not saying you should).

I am showing an example and adding to the fact that it is close to home that's all. I am not my mother, she is more entitled to get mad at this than I am. However, I have witnessed how my dad has attempted to destroy my mother's life and had blocked her from being a lot farther in life.

 

[freetroit]

White guys are hard on fat hoes so theres that little caveat

You black women need to shut it up because we still dating you plumpers out there so it

 

[Yup]

I'll say this, most average guys at the end of the day will take whoever will have them without extraneous effort on their part. Black men aren't holing out for instagram dimes in favor of a girl that is ready and willing down the block.

A lot of black men are very superficial compared to the average wm...you guys may not want to admit it though thats fine.

 

[Action Mike]

A lot of black men are very superficial compared to the average wm...you guys may not want to admit it though thats fine.

Your not competing with IG models day to day...

 

[Yup]

White guys are hard on fat hoes so theres that little caveat

You black women need to shut it up because we still dating you plumpers out there so it

may be so...but they still marry them. In fact...i see more white couples that are equals physically than black couples.
Plus wm marry bm do not nearly as much…a white overweight woman is most likely to be married and a black one more likely to be a baby mama.

 

[Yup]

White guys are hard on fat hoes so theres that little caveat

You black women need to shut it up because we still dating you plumpers out there so it

More like impregnating and leaving.

 

[Yup]

Your not competing with IG models day to day...

Actually bw are competing against women of all races for the attention of a bm in his 20s early 30s
.

 

[LadySimone]

I'll say this, most average guys at the end of the day will take whoever will have them without extraneous effort on their part. Black men aren't holing out for instagram dimes in favor of a girl that is ready and willing down the block.

Babes I know what these means.

 

[LadySimone]

More like impregnating and leaving.

This is why I need black men to QUALIFY statements like "black men are still with black women." Because we know these relationships are transient and sex centered.

 

[Yup]

Women can never let go of this stuff (not saying you should).

If you had to raise a child and found out years down the road that it wasn't yours, you would not be able to let it go either. I would argue that women are more able to let this go than men would ever be. Some things in life are unforgivable.

 

[Guile]

 

[Action Mike]

Actually bw are competing against women of all races for the attention of a bm in his 20s early 30s
.

if thats how the dating market is where you live and you want a bm, adapt and do better than them.

have you tried dating out?

 

[Action Mike]

I'll say this, most average guys at the end of the day will take whoever will have them without extraneous effort on their part. Black men aren't holing out for instagram dimes in favor of a girl that is ready and willing down the block.

this myth seriously needs to die