southern.girl
Superstar
Nothing.
We would do nothing.
No child support. No government assistance. No snap. Just nothing.
Maybe reduced kid lunch at school and hospital visits.
Besides that zero. Make the situation so untenable that other people
when seeing it.
If you got a bunch of kids there's some dude working like a Mexican to support them. Voluntary child support only. None of the court mandated shyt.
These circumstances are already untenable. Ain’t nobody living high off of child support except baby mamas with rich fathers...and that’s a very small percentage. The issue is that some people were conditioned to desire less & their kids may or may not follow suit.
I see what you saying.
But... We skipping steps
From the jump
Is it not a womans job to choose a stable responsible man to be the father of her children.
Yes, it’s the woman’s responsibility to find a suitable father for her child. But it’s also a father’s responsibility to demonstrate a healthy relationship with his wife so that the girl/grown woman has a frame of reference to refer to when deciding what traits make a good man & future father of her kids. We can only break this broken family cycle if both sexes play their part.