Maybe it wouldn't be so many fukkboys if dudes could actually be themselves.

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you SHOULD be yourself. improvement doesn't mean to pretend to be someone else, it means improve your understanding of the way women view men so that you can stop doing shyt that is turning women off

attraction between men and women is natural. it shouldn't need to be forced.

I can dig it. now are we going to act like 80% of interactions aren't dudes playing a trope?
 

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Didn't read the other posts, but I think what most people don't admit is that in most cases, any dude can capture a woman.

Problem?

At his current attributes...be they the physical, financial, whatever...he may only be able to reliably capture bottom-of-the-barrel chicks, or just the types he simply does not like.

Not to mention his options, or should I say "likelyhood to spur interest in a desired woman", may not be optimal, making his numbers game a bit more...numeric than another man's

may be. Long story short, yea, I have noticed most times when men do a buncha goofy shyt to get women, it is cause not much else worked:mjlol:as long as men have to chase,

how they get the job done is 100% relative to how women respond to it. If being a disrespectful jackass gets you action 2-3 times a month, is the dry-dikk gent doing better?

He may "meet his match" down the line, but not all relationships are meant to last:yeshrug:stands to reason that the men getting the most results are more likely to run into

his #1 draft pick, unless we just talmbout fukking in abundance, in which case being an even-keel dude only works if you a 6-foot model type. Every guy needs a gimmick of some

sort, and fukkboys(hate how the term has been warped) have theirs. As long as women respond, it encourages the behavior. Don't be mad at the cheetah for chasing, be mad at

the gazelle for running:ufdup:
 

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A lot of dudes front.....and women too....why can't people be themselves???? Why people gotta front and fake??? Then when a few months go by your tired of pretending and u don't wanna keep the act up anymore....When it all could have been avoided if you just be who the fukk you really are...Everyone has flaws....nobody is perfect....Let someone love u for who u really are tho...Flaws and all....If they don't like it they can fukkin step....this is me take it or leave it....
 

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Yep, and dry dikkk breeds conformity. That's why I blame black women, not completely, but maybe 50%, for the violent culture, and more importantly, the glorification of it, that permeates through the lower class black society. They are attracted to it, especially when they are in their prime looks wise, when they have the most social power. If black women would stop chasing the bad boy stereotype, and started giving p*ssy to Jaleel from science class, murders in Chicago would drop to 0 overnight, suddenly you would see hood nikkas with straight A's signing up for college on full scholarship and shyt.

So you blaming women for not fukking dudes they aren't attracted to instead of blaming the actual gang banging men?

If black men decided to start focusing and supporting single moms, and being a good step-father figure to these young men, maybe you'd see a drop in murders but you wouldn't suggest men do that when their social power is in the highest and they're in their prime.
 

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So you blaming women for not fukking dudes they aren't attracted to instead of blaming the actual gang banging men?

If black men decided to start focusing and supporting single moms, and being a good step-father figure to these young men, maybe you'd see a drop in murders but you wouldn't suggest men do that when their social power is in the highest and they're in their prime.
Not completely, but there has to be more accountability. It's not that women aren't attracted to these dudes either, evident when they p*ssy dries up and they magicallys start looking for guys like that, but before that they specifically seek out and associate themselves with ratchet male behavior. Refuse to look past the little shyt like whether or not dude lives life lowkey, or is a "square" or "cornball" or whatever slang ya'll use but stay making excuses for the guy who has multiple baby mama's, went to juve multiple times, beats on his gfs etc.... Cuz at the end of the day we know as men it's not nearly as hard to find dudes with those masculine qualities who aren't reckless and savage like that. But we see them attracted to the savages, fatherless nikkas and even suburb nikkas take notice and try to emulate. That's part of how you have the perpetuation of negative culture despite all of the positive qualities that black people possess (think 60's) and nobody's going to tell me otherwise cuz I see it with my own two.

btw I'm not saying what you said is wrong. I specifically focus on women because ppl don't seem to realize how much power p*ssy has over the direction of a culture as a whole
 
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A lot of dudes front.....and women too....why can't people be themselves???? Why people gotta front and fake??? Then when a few months go by your tired of pretending and u don't wanna keep the act up anymore....When it all could have been avoided if you just be who the fukk you really are...Everyone has flaws....nobody is perfect....Let someone love u for who u really are tho...Flaws and all....If they don't like it they can fukkin step....this is me take it or leave it....

This was the entire point of the thread breh. In a previous thread it was suggested by men(IKR) that dudes should put on a front while attracting women. Which struck a nerve with me because, how dare someone change who they in hopes of successfully pursuing a member of the opposite sex. The flip side of this, when it turns out this create-a-player character you created because you have to have "game" isn't you, is it really fair to be called a fukkboy for it?
 

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nikkas always police other nikkas behavior, this is the main reason people are afraid to be themselves.

Happened on page 1 of this very thread :heh:

They're calling OP a fakkit for making this thread :dead:
 
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