Maybe You’re Single Because You’re Wack

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I'm a fukked up person...

I prefer being by myself most of the time, hell I'm kinda bummed because i'm going back home to visit family for like 2 weeks but I know i'm gonna be tired of it after a week,and wanna be myself. :wow:

I enjoy females of course but after awhile it's like

"fukk leave me alone for like 2 days" :francis:



fukk is wrong with a nikka? :damn:
Breh ain't nothing wrong with you.

If you DON'T enjoy your own company then that's a problem.

Some people love being around folks so much to the point where they can't even find peace being by themselves. They always are worried about what other people are doing, they always need to be up in someone's face.

It's completely understandable if you want to be alone sometimes. I'm the same way. I like women, I like my family but I don't want to be around people all the time.

I enjoy my own company, I can entertain myself. I like being lost in my thoughts and reflecting on life.
 
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I'm a regimented guy and I hardly go out late.
Annnd I don't drink any more.

I'm trying to cut down on drinking. It's tough.

It's very hard to get your health back on track and socialize at the same time.

In America getting in shape is a mostly anti-social activity if you live in a big city. Most people feel vulnerable when showing their flab and don't want to interact with people they know while sweaty etc.

So drinking is one of the few forms of socialization. So if you don't drink then it becomes hard.
 

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I'm trying to cut down on drinking. It's tough.

It's very hard to get your health back on track and socialize at the same time.

In America getting in shape is a mostly anti-social activity if you live in a big city. Most people feel vulnerable when showing their flab and don't want to interact with people they know while sweaty etc.

So drinking is one of the few forms of socialization. So if you don't drink then it becomes hard.
I've never had a problem drinking and I'm actually in shape. I still like training at my pace though so I roll solo.

However the socializing part is a problem. Plus being buzzed obviously has an effect on your ability to socialize better.
 

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Although I know being single sucks, especially today, I judge single men harder as they age for being bachelors. Regardless, >35 yrs single and childless doesn't look good on any gender, and looks worse with age.
 

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but you travel and are cultured. You enjoy the finer things. You're just not as basic and self-gratifying as this generation. that's not boring.
Ye thanks (frfr) but that shyt really doesn't matter to most people.
 
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Although I know being single sucks, especially today, I judge single men harder as they age for being bachelors. Regardless, >35 yrs single and childless doesn't look good on any gender, and looks worse with age.
Not everyone wants children, you do realize? I certainly don't, not in a world where people put more thought into what they're going to post on Instagram then how to actually raise children. People who think popping out a baby is in and of itself an accomplishment, but have no designs on making sure those babies grow up to be decent adults. I wouldn't want my kids to deal with the spawn of the idiots and demons out here today.

Wealthy, single and childless at 35 plus sounds great to me, like a rare flower :banderas:
 
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You know you are shaving directly against the Coli grain here breh...How is your rep still positive?
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I tend to agree with Red Pill stuff although we need our own movement because their content is catered to situations that mostly White boys find themselves in.

I'm guessing you don't post in TLR a lot....I probably need to take a break myself while the going is good. Otherwise you know who shows up with the "Not All" "You Gay" "Yo Momma Black" "Who Hurt You" "Lame Negro" etc.
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Well i dont make threads and im not on here that much ...for my rep to be negative. I post majority of the time in the lil gems dealing with women thread. I try to help as much as i can. Im not worried i do post the HONEST nature of women. I know im not bitter or a mysogonist and i do pretty good with women for whats its worth. I just love honest shyt. I go to other sites in search of just being more knowlegdeable when it comes to women or just bettering youself as a man. I think the redpill philosphy can help any guy on the coli if they willing to APPLY that knowledge. I believe black men can come up with some redpill type stuff but its more men on the coli that will tear each other down instead of helping. There is no togetherness when it comes to some of the guys on the coli. To me patrice was the closet at what I would like to do for men thoe.

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^^^^^more honest shyt ...:wow: my comandments.
 
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Nah I know my problem. I lack the gift of gab and I don't talk but people always tell me I'm a character so...
 
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Here's why you won't find it:

1) Femininity is seen as weakness among Black American Women so you're not gonna find that easily.
2) Considerate - No according to many American BW it's your job to be considerate to them not the other way around.
3) Kind - I have never had a Man treat me kindly or bring me flowers so why should I be kind to a Man?
4) Attractive - No I will wear black lipstick and purple blond hair weave because I need to express myself and no man's opinion matters.
5) Respectful - nikkas don't respect us so why should we respect them. And any Black Man that respects me is probably too soft to protect me.
6) Protective - It's a Black Man's job to protect me.
7) Humble - A Queen bows her head to no one. Not even a King.
8) Good humored - It is your job to entertain me as the Man in the relationship
9) Nurturing - How can I nurture when I've never been loved? (My 1,000 IG followers liking my booty pics posted for attention don't count.)
10) Intelligent - Black Men are intimidated by my intelligence so I will just act snotty and keep my responses brief.
11) African American - Why not just African? Why does she need to be American?


1) This doesn't apply to me because I'm not a man :usure: Also I was raised by women who have all of these traits and I share them, so I disagree with the generalizations. You're projecting:comeon:

I'm African American and I have an affinity for my culture. Let's not act like their aren't differences. Most Africans I've met stick with their own. In college they had an African students union, mostly wealthy international students I didn't have shyt in common with as a poor kid from Harlem/BK. Plus it's pure practicality. I can't say whether American women are more likely to be sgl, but they're more likely to be open and at peace with it.
 

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Not everyone wants children, you do realize? I certainly don't, not in a world where people put more thought into what they're going to post on Instagram then how to actually raise children. People who think popping out a baby is in and of itself an accomplishment, but have no designs on making sure those babies grow up to be decent adults. I wouldn't want my kids to deal with the spawn of the idiots and demons out here today.

Wealthy, single and childless at 35 plus sounds great to me, like a rare flower :banderas:

By choice is fine ( if its sincere :mjpls:), but your reasons are meh. There are plenty of people raising kids who are not caught up in social media stunting, living ratchet and more focused on obtaining a solid future. It comes down to what your exposed to and influenced by.

Eta: you proved my point tho. Your reasons limit you from relationship and children the same way other peoples "wackness" limits them. I just know by 35, people start running out of justifiable excuses.
 
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