Meeting the right girl at the wrong time unappreciation thread

[Turk]

Send her to me since you ain't ready to be a man

 

[unit321]

I'm 21 now.

I haven't missed out yet. I'm just debating on whether or not I want to fully pursue this at this current stage of my life

Oh. Well, there's good and bad things about meeting the one early on in life.
She's not damaged goods yet. Chemistry is important. Do you click with her. That's a big factor.
Really, older women with baggage and past hurt can cause all kinds of "out of left field" stuff that make you do things like join a Tuesday bowling league with a bunch of white folks.

 

[Human Torch]

My shyt happened reverse. Was with my girl from 16-25. Broke up a few times and I got it in. She never did.

She finally couldn't fight the urge no more. She's a good girl at the end of the day but I think time fukked us over.

Life cruel.

 

[Silkk]

My shyt happened reverse. Was with my girl from 16-25. Broke up a few times and I got it in. She never did.

She finally couldn't fight the urge no more. She's a good girl at the end of the day but I think time fukked us over.

Life cruel.

She caught that train?

 

[Rawtid]

There is no such thing as "the wrong time", if you value relationships. If you're just out here looking to have fun, don't waste either of your time.

 

[Prynce]

If you feel like she is the one breh go after her

Regrets and what if are gonna eat you apart if you don't

 

[Human Torch]

She caught that train?

Nah we broke up cuz we knew we needed space. Hit that point where we were more friends than lovers. Kinda grew comfortable

Plus I was really focused on my career. Moved from DC to jersey to Texas in 3 years. Then I went to Germany for 6 months last year. She started to feel like she was just along for the ride. I mean I understood

Spoiler

her method of transportation ain't none of my business no more

 

[Prynce]

I'm 21 now. This girl is an archetypal woman to the T. Cooks, cleans, wants kids etc. As an added bonus she doesn't even use social media which is rare for women my age



I can't even think about next week much less that many years ahead

I'm lowkey scared I'll never meet a woman this good again



Well when you put it like that

I just wanna have my young and dumb phase for lil bit



huh?



I haven't missed out yet. I'm just debating on whether or not I want to fully pursue this at this current stage of my life

Running through women is overrated breh and it's nothing but drama fam

Trust when I say you gonna mess up a good thing for some ain't shyt women

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

There is no such thing as "the wrong time", if you value relationships. If you're just out here looking to have fun, don't waste either of your time.

Wrong because it's an inconvenience for you both

 

[Malta]

I'm 21 now. This girl is an archetypal woman to the T. Cooks, cleans, wants kids etc. As an added bonus she doesn't even use social media which is rare for women my age

21 is too young to be honest, I don't believe in the "one" or nothing like that, do you and you'll meet someone else at some point.

 

[Turk]

Oh. Well, there's good and bad things about meeting the one early on in life.
She's not damaged goods yet. Chemistry is important. Do you click with her. That's a big factor.
Really, older women with baggage and past hurt can cause all kinds of "out of left field" stuff that make you do things like join a Tuesday bowling league with a bunch of white folks.

We click....great chemistry an all that

There is no such thing as "the wrong time", if you value relationships. If you're just out here looking to have fun, don't waste either of your time.

Oh but there are in this case. I do wanna have fun, I mean I am in my early 20's...but I can always just fap instead

Culturally for her if you're gonna talk to her that means you're gonna have to put a ring on it sometime in the foreseeable future

 

[cdc]

i'd make the commitment, and do my best to honor the commitment. But let her know that kids will be further down the line in a few years when you all get more established and can provide the proper foundation. That way you can get to know each other in an everyday sense, see if you or her are going to be loyal and honor the commitment, and if not, then break it off before kids enter the picture. You'll still be young enough if you break up to sow the oats. You may find that the contentment of having a true partner is more satisfying that chasing ho's and going out.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

Women come and go, good women are rare though, the older you get the less and less women you meet that you'd want to start something with.

It depends on your age and where you live, generally there's a point between 25-28 where damn near every single female either has kids, or is just fukked up.

say it ain't so brehs

 

[Rawtid]

We click....great chemistry an all that



Oh but there are in this case. I do wanna have fun, I mean I am in my early 20's...but I can always just fap instead

Culturally for her if you're gonna talk to her that means you're gonna have to put a ring on it sometime in the foreseeable future

LOL that's not culture, that's natural for people who value relationships. Why spend time with someone just for the sake of? Just getting to know them just because and shyt.

 

[Rawtid]

Wrong because it's an inconvenience for you both

Agree to disagree.