Meeting the right girl at the wrong time unappreciation thread

[SheriffOG]

You 2 years younger than me breh and trust me that young life ain't all bytches sunglasses and ciroc. yeah you'll have freedom of youth but as previous coli brehs have said you got a dime piece good womn are hard to find. A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush.
That being said though you only get one dice roll ouchea, path A to unknown potential p*ssy or path B to one woman for a long while

Good luck

 

[Malta]

say it ain't so brehs

Depends on where you live breh, you can get away with waiting longer if you're in a big city. I know in NYC there's a lot of single women without children, mainly because they've focused on their careers.

 

[Mr. Negative]

It was the wrong time because I made it wrong.

Then I went on to date a girl who I knew wasn't shyt wrapped in pretty present paper with a christian bow in the top.... but did it anyway because it was what I was "supposed" to do.

Waste of time and finances and a whole lot of heartache just so I could tell myself "you was right, nikka"

Here's to the one that got away.

 

[Poitier]

nikka u not even old enough to know right

 

[Turk]

Running through women is overrated breh and it's nothing but drama fam

Trust when I say you gonna mess up a good thing for some ain't shyt women

This is that "is the grass really greener on the other side?" question

LOL that's not culture, that's natural for people who value relationships. Why spend time with someone just for the sake of? Just getting to know them just because and shyt.

I wish I knew how to explain this better to you but we're really not talking about the same kind of "dating" here.

 

[Prynce]

This is that "is the grass really greener on the other side?" question



I wish I knew how to explain this better to you but we're really not talking about the same kind of "dating" here.

I'm giving a view from my perspective. Id rather have a down chick all the time than a whole bunch women for the moment

 

[Rawtid]

This is that "is the grass really greener on the other side?" question



I wish I knew how to explain this better to you but we're really not talking about the same kind of "dating" here.

No, I understand what you're saying but I don't agree with your definition of "dating". To me it seems your definition is just spending time "nothing serious" and doesn't have a real purpose but just to fill time. The way I define dating is you're actually trying to get to know someone to build something for the future. Not knocking you at all, I just don't agree with what you're saying. If you're not focused on your future then continue running through these hoes.

 

[Pier7]

These lil 21 year old nikkas man

When I was 21 I liked mixed chicks with pretty faces n playing video games.

By the time I was 25 I liked darkskin joints with phat asses n reading books.

You dont even know who you are or what you really like yet man.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Love alone just ain't strong enough if the finances ain't on point.

People want to say it don't matter, but it always sooner or later causes conflict. Someone is only gonna tolerate someone not pulling their weight for so long.

 

[Turk]

No, I understand what you're saying but I don't agree with your definition of "dating". To me it seems your definition is just spending time "nothing serious" and doesn't have a real purpose but just to fill time. The way I define dating is you're actually trying to get to know someone to build something for the future. Not knocking you at all, I just don't agree with what you're saying. If you're not focused on your future then continue running through these hoes.

To me dating is getting to know someone on a more personal level. Whether it's serious or not depends on the people involved.

It's not like I don't wanna build....but I either have to let my intentions be known or a take hike

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Agree to disagree.

I'm not disagreein though, I'm just saying it's an inconvenience for both

 

[InDePickWest]

I'm 21 now. This girl is an archetypal woman to the T. Cooks, cleans, wants kids etc. As an added bonus she doesn't even use social media which is rare for women my age



I can't even think about next week much less that many years ahead

I'm lowkey scared I'll never meet a woman this good again



Well when you put it like that

I just wanna have my young and dumb phase for lil bit



huh?



I haven't missed out yet. I'm just debating on whether or not I want to fully pursue this at this current stage of my life

So you wanna hoe then meet a good girl? Eh doesn't always work out for the better.

What she look like?

 

[Easy-E]

Both times; in college and they were too mature for me.

It depends on your age and where you live, generally there's a point between 25-28 where damn near every single female either has kids, or is just fukked up.

Dont have a nice job...all the nice looking (decent shape) women are married

 

[Numpsay]

Story of my life

 

[Turk]

So you wanna hoe then meet a good girl? Eh doesn't always work out for the better.

What she look like?

It's not even necessarily hoeing it's the idea of full commitment to someone. She's like 5'4, beautiful, she has a nice body from what I can see (she doesn't dress revealing at all)