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and your “boyfriend” doesnt want a family and kids? Lol its hard to have these convos because
You arent him those your perception is what he presents and most men who do the “relationship” thing arent upfront with their intentions (unless they are finally at the marriage minded stage) in order to keep sex consistent. So lotta brehs just go with the flow as long as there is sex
@CarmelBarbie this poster is correct. This is the exact mindset.
 

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@CarmelBarbie this poster is correct. This is the exact mindset.
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Women follow what men do. No matter what their education status, income, or looks. Men who are on their game healthwise, have decent jobs, and understand masculinity (important) dont have problems with women who aren't birds.

There are exceptions to every rule, but generally Women don't date down, don't want to be leaders, will follow successful men that at least somewhat fit their physical preferences, and practice hyperglycemia. None of that has changed or ever will change since the stone age.

Instead of complaining, men who spend more time whining and focusing on women need to look at what the top men in their social circle are doing and take notes. Guarantee most of it is simple shyt that alot of brehs aren't doing.
Women obviously no longer follow what men do or else the state of dating would not be how it is. And the bolded is bullshyt, you cannot say that while calling all men to be 100% on point (which is already unlikely).

The fact that they "won't date down" and follow "successful" men while needing much more than "somewhat" fitting physical preferences is the point. As women socioeconomically elevate as concession will have to be made or else the feast or famine on both sides (subpar sex lives for men, lack of marriage for women) will continue and intensify.
 

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my thing is, it doesnt matter what the women want, the men they desire do not want to marry them lol. The men they dont want have either found peace in not having marriage due to stats or become incels, but it doesnt matter because the women arent seeking them. And when women do start looking for them those men would have moved on.

the desired men, at some point used to settle down eventually with a young chick but now brehs are saying it aint even worth that.

Men got copious amount a porn to not have the urge to chase women and women get the attention and validation by some simp because the
my thing is, it doesnt matter what the women want, the men they desire do not want to marry them lol. The men they dont want have either found peace in not having marriage due to stats or become incels, but it doesnt matter because the women arent seeking them. And when women do start looking for them those men would have moved on.

the desired men, at some point used to settle down eventually with a young chick but now brehs are saying it aint even worth that.

Well it comes down to what you would rather deal with if you with a young chick chances are she's on social media heavy showing them cakes and getting validation from all types of men and developing bodies. Dealing with older chicks it's alot of baggage to unvail and but at the same time they are more serious in wanting relationships moreso then younger chicks.
 

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Men got copious amount a porn to not have the urge to chase women and women get the attention and validation by some simp because the


Well it comes down to what you would rather deal with if you with a young chick chances are she's on social media heavy showing them cakes and getting validation from all types of men and developing bodies. Dealing with older chicks it's alot of baggage to unvail and but at the same time they are more serious in wanting relationships moreso then younger chicks.

destirsble men dont care what women want breh. An older chick can want a serious relationship all she wants but what does it mean to me if she doesnt have the tools to provide me what i seek in a relationship? Without those tools she just provides me sex and maybe some high level friendship. Neither are incentives for me to want to marry her. “Older women” who are wife material are married breh lol. They dont make it to being older and unmarried.
 

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No this is too simplistic, its many factors that are adding to this all discussed in this thread besides this is the simpest era ever so your assertion doesn't wash.

besides this is the simpest era ever

No its not
Really? I saw different.
 

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destirsble men dont care what women want breh. An older chick can want a serious relationship all she wants but what does it mean to me if she doesnt have the tools to provide me what i seek in a relationship? Without those tools she just provides me sex and maybe some high level friendship. Neither are incentives for me to want to marry her. “Older women” who are wife material are married breh lol. They dont make it to being older and unmarried.

By older women my range starts 27 - 35 range and younger is 20 - 25. Women and 27 - 35 get married out of that range.
 

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:huhldup: Them numbers are horrendous for blacks, but nikkas want to be players and pimps and the sisters want to live that hot girl summer..

62% of sisters single which was half compared to Asians, whites and Hispanics

I remember a thread where posters were roasting Ice Cube for being a married man in his 40s (back then). It's like black folk gotta be chasing clout and stunting on IG until we 65 years old and 100% grey hair.
 

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I remember a thread where posters were roasting Ice Cube for being a married man in his 40s (back then). It's like black folk gotta be chasing clout and stunting on IG until we 65 years old and 100% grey hair.

The fukked up thing as a race we fight age the most but at the same time we age gracefully out of all the races if we take care of ourselves. That goes for both black men and women.
 
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