Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[CarmelBarbie]

There is a diff in yout pov lol. Only thing keeping the BF/GF nonsense a float is prostitution being illegal

Huh? Men can still pay sex workers to get sex now—even with prostitution illegal. I mean yes me and my boyfriend do have sex a lot lol but we do other things too. If all he wanted was sex, I’m positive he could get that from an fwb or fukk buddy. He wanted more than just sex. And you never answered my question about being a suitable option—for what?

 

[Ziggiy]

I believe it...

I think a lot of men struggle to get women because a lot of women gravitate to a small group of men.

You mean the ones with their shyt together?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Huh? Men can still pay sex workers to get sex now—even with prostitution illegal. I mean yes me and my boyfriend do have sex a lot lol but we do other things too. If all he wanted was sex, I’m positive he could get that from an fwb or fukk buddy. He wanted more than just sex. And you never answered my question about being a suitable option—for what?

and your “boyfriend” doesnt want a family and kids? Lol its hard to have these convos because
You arent him those your perception is what he presents and most men who do the “relationship” thing arent upfront with their intentions (unless they are finally at the marriage minded stage) in order to keep sex consistent. So lotta brehs just go with the flow as long as there is sex

 

[SNG]

theres plenty of information that explains why things the way they are then just say nikkas are just complaining about bytches.

Top men are getting their pockets dug and some of them getting their hoes fukked by broke nikkas. What we talking about really?

Facts all the chicks that these rappers fukk still fukk other rap nikkas. Western women don’t care about tradition. Look at Will Smith nikka put food on the table did everything for Jada he was the template for Russel Wilson and his lady still outchea having entanglements with a dusty R&B artist she didn’t even cheat up. Steph Curry and Aisha not happy about nikkaz being in her DM’s. Men that are traditional and the providing way above the means still going through bullshyt. It’s only a matter of time before Ciara self destructs on Russell and remember I said it. She will eventually get bored.

 

[semicko82]

You mean the ones with their shyt together?

Ha !
You don't even have to have your shyt together. You have to be above average or good looking

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Caramel, would you be open to an arranged marriage. I know you can easily get a man so that's not my question, my question is would you be open to this?

In another life, I would if it was my dad arranging it—as I know he would pick a man like himself and it would be beneficial. But in this life? I don’t think it would be beneficial unless I was having more kids or wanted to pool assets together with someone else. I like living on my own and having my own space. I’m not a fan of living with other people, I’m pretty selfish, but and I don’t want to have to answer to anyone on the level that is necessary for a marriage to work, right now.

 

[Neuromancer]

Is this another let's shyt on black men thread?

 

[Wiseborn]

You in Medellin?

No I'm in Cali right now

 

[CarmelBarbie]

and your “boyfriend” doesnt want a family and kids? Lol its hard to have these convos because
You arent him those your perception is what he presents and most men who do the “relationship” thing arent upfront with their intentions (unless they are finally at the marriage minded stage) in order to keep sex consistent. So lotta brehs just go with the flow as long as there is sex

I already have a son. my boyfriend has been married before and has a daughter. He filed for divorce from the woman in question and kept all his money and full custody of their daughter. He’s very smart lol. Funny thing is he would love to get married again, especially since I know he wants a good step mother to help with his daughter. He knows how I feel about marriage. We have debates about it all the time, where I def. am the devils advocate and I know it gets under his skin that I’m not a woman who values marriage. I also know that there are men who like to hold marriage over ladies heads but when it can’t be leveraged because she doesn’t care about marriage in the first place, it’s whatever.

if my boyfriend is only with me for consistent sex like you allege that’s fine. That is after all one of the reasons I’m with him. It’s mutual. Considering we do sex a lot, we both getting plenty out of this relationship don’t you think lol?

 

[semicko82]

Is this another let's shyt on black men thread?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Another miserable men thread..

That and Anti Biden threads are the wave here lately. Heavy.

 

[feelosofer]

So are we keeping that same energy when Black women talk about submitting to white men?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I already have a son. my boyfriend has been married before and has a daughter. He filed for divorce from the woman in question and kept all his money and full custody of their daughter. He’s very smart lol. Funny thing is he would love to get married again, especially since I know he wants a good step mother to help with his daughter. He knows how I feel about marriage. We have debates about it all the time, where I def. am the devils advocate and I know it gets under his skin that I’m not a woman who values marriage. I also know that there are men who like to hold marriage over ladies heads but when it can’t be leveraged because she doesn’t care about marriage in the first place, it’s whatever.

if my boyfriend is only with me for consistent sex like you allege that’s fine. That is after all one of the reasons I’m with him. It’s mutual. Considering we do sex a lot, we both getting plenty out of this relationship don’t you think lol?

the kid dynamic is different and clears things up. I thought you were a case of two young adults with no kids.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

the kid dynamic is different and clears things up. I thought you were a case of two young adults with no kids.

The thing is a lot of younger women’s football men are going to forgo marriage based on that article. It doesn’t have the same luster as it used to because it’s become associated with the thing you do when your in a stable financial position or feel like your on the way to such position. And these days many young people are lost, struggling and aren’t dating or getting in relationships as much as they used to, this is especially true for a larger portion of young men.

 

[Apollo Creed]

The thing is a lot of younger women’s football men are going to forgo marriage based on that article. It doesn’t have the same luster as it used to because it’s become associated with the thing you do when your in a stable financial position or feel like your on the way to such position. And these days many young people are lost, struggling and aren’t dating or getting in relationships as much as they used to, this is especially true for a larger portion of young men.

my thing is, it doesnt matter what the women want, the men they desire do not want to marry them lol. The men they dont want have either found peace in not having marriage due to stats or become incels, but it doesnt matter because the women arent seeking them. And when women do start looking for them those men would have moved on.

the desired men, at some point used to settle down eventually with a young chick but now brehs are saying it aint even worth that.