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Definitely didn't mean you. I just noticed "hyperglycemia". I'm going to leave that in:jbhmm::lolbron:

Imma branch off your point real quick too: A lot of dudes would take your post to mean that women only go for men about their business when they hit a certain age, but something brehs on here need to understand is that the young brehs who get the most girls at younger ages still have one of the traits I've mentioned in earlier posts. These dudes are at the top of their social circle relative to the women, or at least give the perception that they are. Usually they are in shape or not sloppy looking, confident, and have some type of paper/status.

The rules are altered but the game stays the same. Even 5 year old girls develop the ability to separate boys in their circle by the clothes they wear and how they act/popularity.

Female nature will never change, so you gotta adapt to society's pressures just like some of yalls male ancestors did.
Real shyt
 

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the stats for now wont come out until the next few years. “The traditional” lanes are dying. Men are declining going to college, men arent in church, men who are in HS and college cant compete because chicks have men nation wide in their DMs flying them out on 50 dollar spirt flights. I think you are in over
Your head, and just want to dismiss the observations of men im the dating market because you still hold hope for whatever reason.

What you mean I'm over my head?
Kinda laugh at this.

The very nature of human relationships hasn't changed and won't change.

The bottom half of men are having a harder time in life while the upper half simply aren't.

Sure I can go to any region on the planet and at any particular period time and this will be valid. The premise holds true that some men have figured out and some men haven't.

Now the technology aspect of it I am sure the same conversion was had when telephones came along and we're adopted. That and a man didn't have to ride to town to talk to women.

It's honestly arrogant as humans to think this problem wasn't around before.
 

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What you mean I'm over my head?
Kinda laugh at this.

The very nature of human relationships hasn't changed and won't change.

The bottom half of men are having a harder time in life while the upper half simply aren't.

Sure I can go to any region on the planet and at any particular period time and this will be valid. The premise holds true that some men have figured out and some men haven't.

Now the technology aspect of it I am sure the same conversion was had when telephones came along and we're adopted. That and a man didn't have to ride to town to talk to women.

It's honestly arrogant as humans to think this problem wasn't around before.

yeah you don't know what you're talking about.
:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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So just FWB status eternally. so you plan to do this until death, assuming after a certain point men will find you as a suitable option opposed to a woman younger than you?
She is a single mom. She already has a kid. So at this point all she really wants is the romantic companionship aspect of things.

If she didn't have a kid guarantee you she would not be down for that type of arrangement of just bf gf with no potential for anything more
 

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Im convinced alot of yall on here are trolling for the thread or just don't have life experience to debate things properly.

If you think all women don't follow men who are on their squares, you don't know women as well as you think you do.

For the majority of them, the bullshyt stops when you are masculine and taking care of business.

Obviously there are outliers.
Nobody's trolling you. You're double speaking in an attempt to assure that you're right no matter what I say. Is it "be on your square" or is it "they follow men regardless of income, education, or status"?

Once again, pick one.

Edit: If you're trying to say the woman's traits don't matter, this is also false.

The excess porn and IG women fried these dudes brain.. I wish they would just STFU about relationships and fck bytches.. Because thats all that they're good for..
You're like 50 and been married however long. You can't speak on what's out here.
 
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She is a single mom. She already has a kid. So at this point all she really wants is the romantic companionship aspect of things.

If she didn't have a kid guarantee you she would not be down for that type of arrangement of just bf gf with no potential for anything more
i clarified my post once she told me she had a kid and the dude has kids + been divorced.
 

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You mean the ones with their shyt together?

It could be that. But, there are men with their shyt together who struggle to get women as well.

Spark & chemistry reigns supreme!

Also, someone here posted a thread about a dude who was allegedly a hobosexual, but still got play. That dude is doing better than some men who got their shyt together.
 
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Nobody's trolling you. You're double speaking in an attempt to assure that you're right no matter what I say. Is it "be on your square" or is it "they follow men regardless of income, education, or status"?

Once again, pick one.


You're like 50 and been married however long. You can't speak on what's on here.

These coli old heads are out of touch.:mjlol:
 

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@CarmelBarbie this poster is correct. This is the exact mindset.
As I said in another post, it’s mutual, we both are getting what we want out of the relationship. I’m not sure why it’s wrong if his mindset is consistent sex if that is also mine, because it means we both are on the same page.
She is a single mom. She already has a kid. So at this point all she really wants is the romantic companionship aspect of things.

If she didn't have a kid guarantee you she would not be down for that type of arrangement of just bf gf with no potential for anything more
Arguably the very fact that I am a single mom shows how I’ve always felt about marriage—I didn’t value it then and still don’t now. I only wanted a child. My son’s father did want to get married—by the time the baby came I was over him(for a variety of reasons) and I left.

Also I have a friend who just got engaged, she has two children—she’s 38 and she desperately wanted marriage, and that is why she is happily engaged. She made that clear to her boyfriend and 1 year later he popped the question. Some woman want more than companionship, even if they have children. They want that commitment and that wedding.


I will probably have another child, (like 90% likely). So me having a child already isn’t why I don’t care about it. I also don’t see what’s wrong with a relationship lol. Y’all are acting like it’s weird to be okay with being in a relationship.

I told my boyfriend I’m open to a marriage where we don’t live together—like maybe living next door or even getting a duplex.:ld:

i clarified my post once she told me she had a kid and the dude has kids + been divorced.
He has 1 child—a 5 year old daughter, not multiple kids lol. He also would love to get married. Many previously married men are more likely to marry again because I think they get used to that arrangement and want it again just with someone else lol.
 
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Relationships have no real purpose these days. Everyone is out for self.. Stop seeking after relationships when all you're trying to do is fck and have a good time..

I dont get it . My cousin paid $10K for his bytch breast reduction , paid $10K down on her a new Benz , Balenciagas, Louboutins , etc ....

but cheat on the bytch EVERY NIGHT

Why didnt you just keep all that $ and fucc on bytches ? :dwillhuh:
 

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relationships still have a purpose.

- stunting on people who don't have a relationship or got an ugly s/o
- doing the power couple thing and posting pics of your fancy vacations on IG
- emotional / financial co-dependency

most men have to trade companionship / support for sex. most men aren't built to be players
 

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As I said in another post, it’s mutual, we both are getting what we want out of the relationship. I’m not sure why it’s wrong if his mindset is consistent sex if that is also mine, because it means we both are on the same page.

Arguably the very fact that I am a single mom shows how I’ve always felt about marriage—I didn’t value it then and still don’t now. I only wanted a child. My son’s father did want to get married—by the time the baby came I was over him(for a variety of reasons) and I left.

Also I have a friend who just got engaged, she has two children—she’s 38 and she desperately wanted marriage, and that is why she is happily engaged. She made that clear to her boyfriend and 1 year later he popped the question. Some woman want more than companionship, even if they have children. They want that commitment and that wedding.


I will probably have another child, (like 90% likely). So me having a child already isn’t why I don’t care about it. I also don’t see what’s wrong with a relationship lol. Y’all are acting like it’s weird to be okay with being in a relationship.

I told my boyfriend I’m open to a marriage where we don’t live together—like maybe living next door or even getting a duplex.:ld:


He has 1 child—a 5 year old daughter, not multiple kids lol. He also would love to get married. Many previously married men are more likely to marry again because I think they get used to that arrangement and want it again just with someone else lol.

Don’t give up Carmel :( . Get right with God to :smile:.
 

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relationships still have a purpose.

- stunting on people who don't have a relationship or got an ugly s/o
- doing the power couple thing and posting pics of your fancy vacations on IG
- emotional / financial co-dependency

most men have to trade companionship / support for sex. most men aren't built to be players

Yep, know alot of dudes who cant get laid or get attention like I do, yet ironically get into more long term relationships than I do.

Relationship doesnt really mean "attractive". Its a different...thing.
 
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