Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign
- Thread starter Low End Derrick
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Y'all are weird when you say this, I've simply changed my priorities and moved away from chasing/convincing/looking for women. I make more money than most and I haven't even finished school yet, I drive a luxury car, I'm in good shape, etc. but I know better than to waste my time in a low chance of success endeavor, so I switch my focus and use what I can access to fill voids of what I can't. It's not defeat, it's awareness and realism.
Since we're giving takes on how people's opinions come off a lot of older dudes in this thread are naive as fukk to how things are now, and other dudes are plain oblivious because their attractive/in the top 20% and have been winning so they can't understand how one could ever lose.
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
If this shyt ends up like Japan or worse then I don't want to hear no whining. Men been expressing their problems, but keep getting ignored or told its their fault.
Technology is a legit game changer.
Up until 15 years ago - relationships were driven by proximity. School, neighbourhood, college, work, gym etc. You had to meet the person physically. Even as a gyallis - you were limited to the women you met or were introduced too.
Now the game has had the globalisation effect. Local players in the top 30% are eating better than ever. Their field is much wider and they are getting the biggest share of the pot than they ever had.
And it's way tougher for the bottom 70%.
Again - a legit game changer. For dating, it's bigger than the car.
Telephones wasn't the same. It didn't change the players that much.
You earn more money than most people across your location? And drive a luxury car? And you can't nab any babes? ... any babes or just the babes you want?
Cos that's his main girl and he values the long-term relationship.I dont get it . My cousin paid $10K for his bytch breast reduction , paid $10K down on her a new Benz , Balenciagas, Louboutins , etc ....
but cheat on the bytch EVERY NIGHT
Why didnt you just keep all that $ and fucc on bytches ?
He's just pressing the rest.
Not trying to speak for him, but you can't be analytical when it comes to dealing with women...
Most of these women not even worth the time spent trying to fukk them...but you gotta turn your brain off from feeling like that...it's a hard thing to do...
Role players want to be treated like superstars
It's like having a bidding war on Danny Green..
You throw a Lil something and if they not feeling it, you simply move on...
Africa is damn near done too. They have a outside shot but the mentality in Africa is the same here. The difference is, BW in Africa still need BM for survival
You speak from personal experience how?
I'm 31, single, and childless. If I get judged it is what it is.Should I have kids just because people say so?
Funny enough we aren't the ones doing damage to society, having a bunch of kids shooting up the neighborhood.
Breh, when I was around your age, maybe a lil older, I was CUSSED out by a woman I was briefly talking to because I was childless and never married. I HAVE been judged (curved) because of my marital status by women as recent as this year.
As for you, I am sure you have enough self esteem and self worth to not GAF what others think of your situation which is your choice.
Yes and the game has gone global (or at least less physical barriers than before).So in a nutshell, we are in a form of dog eat dog capitalism in the dating game
Disagree a bit. If you drive a 2020 C-Class... birds will most definitely flock.
"Up to date" clothes, nice car, nice haircut whatever. Decent socially with some friends. You gonna catch something breh. SOMETHING. 5'7 at least though.
Yeah it’s a hard sell when your needs are taken care of otherwise.As I said in another post, it’s mutual, we both are getting what we want out of the relationship. I’m not sure why it’s wrong if his mindset is consistent sex if that is also mine, because it means we both are on the same page.
Arguably the very fact that I am a single mom shows how I’ve always felt about marriage—I didn’t value it then and still don’t now. I only wanted a child. My son’s father did want to get married—by the time the baby came I was over him(for a variety of reasons) and I left.
Also I have a friend who just got engaged, she has two children—she’s 38 and she desperately wanted marriage, and that is why she is happily engaged. She made that clear to her boyfriend and 1 year later he popped the question. Some woman want more than companionship, even if they have children. They want that commitment and that wedding.
I will probably have another child, (like 90% likely). So me having a child already isn’t why I don’t care about it. I also don’t see what’s wrong with a relationship lol. Y’all are acting like it’s weird to be okay with being in a relationship.
I told my boyfriend I’m open to a marriage where we don’t live together—like maybe living next door or even getting a duplex.
He has 1 child—a 5 year old daughter, not multiple kids lol. He also would love to get married. Many previously married men are more likely to marry again because I think they get used to that arrangement and want it again just with someone else lol.
Also the bolded seems ideal. I thought I was the only one who felt that way.
And I have several friends like this. They are divorcees whose children are grown. They have BFs who would have expressed desire for marriage, but they just like their space and freedom.
the bossman
Superstar
Women are still women. Men are still men. The moment you start thinking porn is better than smashing a real woman you in a fukked up state