Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

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how long have you been married

Me over 10 years now

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

God you’re an idiot

Quit with your useless ass diatribe about nothing.

You brought ZERO facts to discussion. Hell, your one dimensional respectability ass can only think on a REMEDIAL LEVEL.

The SURFACE level. You ignore and downplay the actual SYSTEMIC. KEY WORD - SYSTEMIC factors that lead this occurring in the first place.

So black people are LAZY AND ENTITLED because systemic racism and income inequality purposely keeps them from entering the workforce and being paid a fair wage that allows them to actually live as human beings? You really expect people to have faith in a broken economic system where MOST people can’t even afford housing and are a PAYCHECK away from poverty???

You aren’t saying SHYT NEW. You are WRONG. You don’t have shyt “figured out” - you are spreading bullshyt lazy ass “black people lazy” “millennials entitled” rhetoric.

These actual statistics aren’t because young men are lazier than they have ever been and it all falls on their INDIVIDUAL ACTIONS and PERSONAL accountability.

Anyone with HALF A BRAIN would KNOW that you cannot equate individual outcomes to SYSTEMIC problems. This is a SYSTEMIC issue. The fact that young people aren’t all home owning 6 figure, 6 cert mfers in stable marriages is BECAUSE OF A FLAWED SYSTEM. The system is the ROOT cause.

But you’re too fukking IGNORANT to understand BASIC FACTS.

But it’s easy to call black people and millennials lazy, huh? We just don’t “work hard” enough, huh? Dumbass c00n.

How about you pick up a fukking book and shut the fukk up?

You are one of the most full of shyt users on this site.

You talk about what you did as thought your life should be used as a measurement for what others should endure and accomplish.

You look at a black man receiving support from his mother, and you stick your greasy nose in the middle of it to try and put a stop to his mum having his back.

In following posts you go on to admit the support you received from the government and the initiatives that don't exist today.

Your post was dumb. On the outside, you don't know what people are going through but you're an arrogant, judgemental piece of shyt who doesn't skip a beat when it comes to throwing shade on black men.

Yup

 

[Apollo Creed]

Me over 10 years now

I honestly dont think you can give any valid input to the dating market of today. It changes every 5 yrs or so. The market before i got in my last relationship was VERY different than what i entered getting out of it.

i say this respectfully

 

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I wish you nikkas would stop this. It's disingenuous as fukk.

How is disingenuous? Which way do you want me to retort? I can use the numbers that show statistics that married men out-earn single men all over the world.

It's a simple noted truth. Unless you are the special breed that is excellent at your craft where you earn everyone money by your skillset then certain doors are just not open to single men.

Try sitting down with millionaires and explain why they should entrust you with money if you can't find one single person to put up with you. I have heard this in Texas 15 years ago and have seen this In Asia. A sleuth of doors are just not open to single, men for business period!

So if you are a rare breed then disregard what I said. But if not I have seen. this is in Singapore, Japan, China, Vietnam, Canada, South Korea and a fairly large number of States.

 

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I honestly dont think you can give any valid input to the dating market of today. It changes every 5 yrs or so. The market before i got in my last relationship was VERY different than what i entered getting out of it.

i say this respectfully

That's your opinion, don't agree with it but your entitled to your opinion breh.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's your opinion, don't agree with it but your entitled to your opinion breh.

nah its fact breh lol. You arent out in the market so you arent coming to the convo with relevant data or experience. The dating market when you were in it was not the same as that of 5 to 10 yrs prior to that (which would be the pre facebook days, no smartphones)

 

[pez]

You have no self control breh? This isn’t a good look.

Yea, i have perfect control now but I also know the monster I am if I don't have some sort of guardrails. Without a girl, I would be a damn prowler on Tinder and all those shytty networks. I mean maybe in reality I would be different but I definitely see in the multiverse out there, there's a variant of me that is fukking up big time. I truly think I am overachieving. I'm not anyone special and had low esteem when I was young so to be older now, I'm happy how it all turned out. I think a lot of it had to do with my wife and it giving me a path and specific goals.

 

[HARLEM AL]

How is disingenuous? Which way do you want me to retort? I can use the numbers that show statistics that married men out-earn single men all over the world.

It's a simple noted truth. Unless you are the special breed that is excellent at your craft where you earn everyone money by your skillset then certain doors are just not open to single men.

Try sitting down with millionaires and explain why they should entrust you with money if you can't find one single person to put up with you. I have heard this in Texas 15 years ago and have seen this In Asia. A sleuth of doors is just not open to single, men for the business period!

So if you are a rare breed then disregard what I said. But if not I have seen. this is in Singapore, Japan, China, Vietnam, Canada, South Korea and a fairly large number of States.

The average income for Black men is around 41,000 and I think white men its around 51,000. Show me the the numbers where married black men out earn single black men more significantly.

 

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nah it's fact breh lol. You aren't out in the market so you aren't coming to the convo with relevant data or experience. The dating market when you were in it was not the same as that of 5 to 10 yrs before that (which would be the pre facebook days, no smartphones)

See this where we aren't going to agree, and that's okay.

No matter if it's the past or the future men's and women's problems will always remain the same. Will have people that are excellent with women and some that can't get it right.

Yes, we have some new fancy gadgets and toys for interacting and communicating but that gap will always remain the same. Some things simply won't change and neither will this to get to the next stage in life you need one person to believe who isn't your parents.

Also, breh 10 years ago, OkCupid was popping. 10 years ago wasn't that long ago. That's beside my point though.

 

[Astroslik]

You simply won't get to the next stage of the game of life if this remains your outlook in life. A good women is worth her weight in gold! Should always have an eye for them. My wife propelled to me new heights.

And to be honest some doors are just not open to single men in business, period!

I agree with you on this. There’s definitely a glass ceiling if you’re trying to move up in the corporate world and you’re a bachelor. A lot of people see you as a maverick and unstable.

 

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The average income for Black men is around 41,000 and I think white men its around 51,000. Show me the the numbers where married black men out earn single black men more significantly.

 

[4-Rin]

BNB

Broke nikka Babble

We got a new one, Coli BnB

Hold this rep

 

[Depreciating Asset]

Folks having trouble finding women out here and my problem is I got too many. smh

Its amazing how stuff works sometimes.

Obligatory

 

[Commish]

Kevin was way off with his take. I remember there was a thread on his bullshyt that was debunked by @Booksnrain and a few male posters posted statistics and articles that proven that majority of men starting having children until their late 20s and early 30s. The rate of men having biological children are very high in the male demographic with ages between 30-40. Furthermore, the average male in America aren't hoarding females like Lions in a pride and barring other male competitors from getting p*ssy.

I think KS get his stats from a source and the people you mentioned get their stats from another source. You say that one source is more accurate than the other which is fine.

I believe KS more because of personal experience. Women reject A LOT of men! You can believe it or not! I also believe that a lot of men don't get action for a host of reasons.

I am not going to conduct my own research analysis on this because I don't need to. Life experience and observation is enough proof for me.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Im looking at this chart and by this chart men are not even cracking the 1000k mark which would make it more significant. But ill let you have that just to have a decent convo in good faith.

A single man making 50k with no kids or wife to support
A married man who makes 80-85K has to provide for him and his wife. if they have kids, even worst(not that having a child is bad. kids just add more debt to the household) along with her debt.

I'm not seeing the significant advantage that would make it beneficial for these young dudes.

If you told me a married man was making a 100k more then it would be more attractive to these young dudes.