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A certain ilk of men are fed up with the bs. I’m talking nikkas who actually get bytches. Dudes are starting to see that this shyt is bs 98% of the time
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Everybody in here writing essays when the truth is much more simple. Maybe just maybe men aren't as simpish as we were before. Things were bound to change once men stopped settling for just any kind of woman.
No this is too simplistic, its many factors that are adding to this all discussed in this thread besides this is the simpest era ever so your assertion doesn't wash.

besides this is the simpest era ever
Word up nikkas complain about wenching over here, It's on another level in the UK
No its not
 

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I know...

It is no different in the lower animal kingdom. Not too many male mammals share their females. They run their fades and the winner takes all!

Humans are really not that much different. KS spoke on this and shared a statistic where the majority of kids born are from a small percentage of men which means that a lot of women share men whether they know about it or not.

Truth is that a lot of women want the same type of men, so some men get a lot of play and the rest of men catch "desert dikk".
In AIT they were literally all fighting over two dudes … like this nikka is living the dream and the rest us aren’t bad looking dudes but they all wanted mr number 1 and were literally fighting each other.

even recently with my ex girlfriend she told me why she broke up with her ex and it’s because all her friends either fukked or were trying to fukk him and he went along with it. And she tried to make it work with him through all of it.

its women
 

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See this where we aren't going to agree, and that's okay.

No matter if it's the past or the future men's and women's problems will always remain the same. Will have people that are excellent with women and some that can't get it right.

Yes, we have some new fancy gadgets and toys for interacting and communicating but that gap will always remain the same. Some things simply won't change and neither will this to get to the next stage in life you need one person to believe who isn't your parents.

Also, breh 10 years ago, OkCupid was popping. 10 years ago wasn't that long ago. That's beside my point though.

the reason your argument is flawed is because the internet was still niche during those times. People still considered the internet a different reality from the real
World thus it was a niche group of folks partaking in this stuff thus it being “popping”. 10 yrs ago Tinder had way less users yet was more “popping” because everyone was there on the same page (to hookup) now its a cesspool
 

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In AIT they were literally all fighting over two dudes … like this nikka is living the dream and the rest us aren’t bad looking dudes but they all wanted mr number 1 and were literally fighting each other.

even recently with my ex girlfriend she told me why she broke up with her ex and it’s because all her friends either fukked or were trying to fukk him and he went along with it. And she tried to make it work with him through all of it.

its women

Doesn't surprise me. Not to mention, the #MeToo movement and women going the alphabet route doesn't help things.

I think it may just be hard for some people to grasp that there are men, especially ones with their shyt together, who struggle connecting with women.

I believe it because I lived it.....
 

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Im looking at this chart and by this chart men are not even cracking the 1000k mark which would make it more significant. But ill let you have that just to have a decent convo in good faith.

A single man making 50k with no kids or wife to support
A married man who makes 80-85K has to provide for him and his wife. if they have kids, even worst(not that having a child is bad. kids just add more debt to the household) along with her debt.

I'm not seeing the significant advantage that would make it beneficial for these young dudes.

If you told me a married man was making a 100k more then it would be more attractive to these young dudes.

I can't tell a man what is best for them.

But I can tell a man that there is nothing wrong with exploring the option of finding a good woman, and not to shut that door permanently.


There are tangible and intangible aspects as well pros and cons of marriage. Tangibles are more money and intangible pro is there is someone in your corner and the business world sees you as a person they can bet on.

Con Tangibles less freedom physical; intangibles con high levels of stress trying to make it work out, everyone was raised differently.

Whatever your doing is working for you. I am just telling cats to not close that door even if it's at risk of ruin.
 

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Ok they acting as if marriage is this big uniter when its not alot of women filing for divorce and i think alot of men not falling for this marriage bullshyt anymore so fukk it...:manny: it is what it is.. forever dont mean shyt anymore if she just gonna walk away with half

I've never understood why a man would get married.
Like even from the time I was a kid, it never made logical sense.

  1. So I have to buy a $10k ring, just for the honor of...
  2. ...asking if I can take care of her indefinitely...
  3. ...then pay an additional $40k for some pictures of her in a dress so that I can...
  4. ...never have any bonds or experiences with any other woman ever...
  5. ...and spend the rest of my days listening to her complain.

:jbhmm:

Hard pass.
 
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:huhldup: Them numbers are horrendous for blacks, but nikkas want to be players and pimps and the sisters want to live that hot girl summer..

62% of sisters single which was half compared to Asians, whites and Hispanics
Idk what folks expect though lol. America was never intended for black folks to succeed, black people in this country were literally just purposed as being capital. Even with the immigrant aspect black
Immigrants no matter how much they resist fall
Into the fold of blackness in America thus they inherit the issues that come with being black in America
 

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In AIT they were literally all fighting over two dudes … like this nikka is living the dream and the rest us aren’t bad looking dudes but they all wanted mr number 1 and were literally fighting each other.

even recently with my ex girlfriend she told me why she broke up with her ex and it’s because all her friends either fukked or were trying to fukk him and he went along with it. And she tried to make it work with him through all of it.

its women

I told brehs on here I helped host a speed dating event with 30+ people and all of the women chose the same 3/4 guys for the most part.
:jbhmm:
The Men's choices where much more spread out. And we're supposed to be the shallow ones?
:mjlol:
 

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I told brehs on here I helped host a speed dating event with 30+ people and all of the women chose the same 3/4 guys for the most part.
:jbhmm:
The Men's choices where much more spread out. And we're supposed to be the shallow ones?
:mjlol:
Bro you can tell the dudes detached from reality with literally zero experience with women lol. Smashing a chick on an app is not relationship experience.
 
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