Wink Beaufield
Superstar
I blame online dating![]()
I still find it crazy that folks got clowned for dating online in the early days and now its the norm.
Times be changing.
I blame online dating![]()
I still find it crazy that folks got clowned for dating online in the early days and now its the norm.
Times be changing.
When I made a thread about this, I caught mad heatPeople still don’t want to admit that marriage doesn’t mean what it once did.
The next couple of generations will put the nail in the coffin.
Edit: And this is coming from a breh who has NO PROBLEM getting women…I like my space and doing what I want to do.
been there, done that with the nagging, jealousy, mood swings, and hypocrisy
Hundreds of applicationsQuit with the motherfukking respectability politics and thinly veiled “black people are lazy” “millennials entitled” rhetoric. This shyt is simply the result of a systemic problem that has shut black people out of the economy and reduced our total wealth to zero.
Coming from an actual black man with a college degree - these jobs aren’t fukking hiring. I put in hundreds of applications. Go fukk your self, this system is rigged.
No one gives a fukk about your “I had a 4.1 gpa and worked two jobs” having ass. You should have the fukking integrity to actually point out how this system is unequal and there are MASSIVE barriers in place for black people to actually succeed and build wealth. Argue with the statistics.
Be happy we’re still alive in this bytch and not going crazy.
Facts. These fukking black neoliberals don’t give a fukk tho. Respectability ass negroes.
They’re one bad medical bill and firing away from the poor house. Mfers think shyt is sweet until they see this system implode on itself.
Income inequality is crazy along with the cost of living literally out of control.
That's not happening. Whites know what's happening and they double down to make sure your plan doesn't happen. Go to LSA. Does it look like they want marriages with BM much less arraigned. The only reason why it happened in the past was America needed the workforce. Now they don't need us unless it's for prison or their entertainment.This is actually really bad news for Black women and Black children. I realize that a lot shyt on the thecoli boils down to some simple minded points of view, but there is a bigger issue in that story and it involves Black women and Black children. A single man can work a bunch of bullshyt jobs and eventually scratch together enough money and economic resources to get into the middle class if he were really motivated to do it. Regular dudes don't really live lavish lifestyles except for fronting purposes to get women. Otherwise a single dude by himself that works a couple of jobs can easily get into the middle class.
The reason this is bad news for Black women and small Black children, is because this is a perpetuation of single family households that continues a trend of perpetual generational poverty. Black women in the lower socioeconomic category that have children out of wedlock and rear the children in a single family home literally have no way out of the lower socioeconomic status. That is horrible and that also means that her children are growing up impoverished.
I concluded years ago that African Americans need to go back to fixed or arranged marriages. I realized that people used to hate that shyt, but in many cases that was the only way that women had husbands and children had fathers which was necessary to lift family units out of poverty. It is sad, but we may have to go backwards in order to go forward.
the reason your argument is flawed is because the internet was still niche during those times. People still considered the internet a different reality from the real
World thus it was a niche group of folks partaking in this stuff thus it being “popping”. 10 yrs ago Tinder had way less users yet was more “popping” because everyone was there on the same page (to hookup) now its a cesspool
Yes, your right internet is not what it was ten years ago. My premise still remains the same which is that men and women dating habits haven't change and won't change.
Pretty sure if I look up the stats, it will indicate that most married couples currently didn't met through the internet. That they met through more traditional means of dating. We have different opinions and most likely won't agree on this aspect.
But what I said about the business world and marriage is an unwritten rule, a lot of door do not open for single men.
This happened to me in grade school exactly once in the 2nd grade.
Lil boy went out of his way to ridicule me and push me b/c I had a soft heart and was touched by the story of Charlotte’s Web. Little b*stard pushed me when the teacher turned her back. Got ME in trouble b/c I got caught nearly retaliating.
Went home crying about it to my mom and dad. My mom was gonna go blank on the parents. But my dad told her to let me handle it first.
My dad turned me into a young initiate of the ways of the petty.
He told me I needed to master the art of fukking people up and never getting caught.
So I started doing shyt to the dude. Stayed behind to lock the door b4 going to lunch just so I could take his permission slip out his Trapper Keeper.
He couldn’t go to the zoo field trip. Laughed in his face as we lined up to let him know I fukked him over.
Pulled his chair out from under him at the activity table and got other people to laugh extra hard at him.
Put milk in his seat and said he peed on himself.
Torn up his Pokemon cards and left the pieces in his desk.
He asked his mom to move to another home room. Never said anything to me again.
Meanwhile I was playing innocent, little honor roll student the whole time.
POE #pettyovereverything
Keep ur hands to urself little fukker.
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Not really lol. There is a reason while american marketing is the way it is, but do your thing
Forgot marriage..under 25 dont even date anymorePeople still don’t want to admit that marriage doesn’t mean what it once did.
The next couple of generations will put the nail in the coffin.
Edit: And this is coming from a breh who has NO PROBLEM getting women…I like my space and doing what I want to do.
been there, done that with the nagging, jealousy, mood swings, and hypocrisy
A lot of Americans are a paycheck away from being broke. A lot of Americans have a lot of debt. Single women do tend to spend a lot more as a demographic though—no argument there. Look at it this way, at least it won’t be just old woman dying alone as cat ladies—men will too, except with maybe dogs(because it’s kind of weird for a man to have a lot of cats).
Not sure what you mean about doing my thing—i am in a relationship. Do I value marriage? Not particularly. But I know this is official evidence that the institution of marriage like many things in this country is now becoming a thing for those with money. The system will crash soon enough when people wake up. In the mean time expect to continue seeing this happen across many areas of our society that used to be attainable for middle and working class folk to achieve. Not much you can do but focus on getting what you want out of life—that and sit back and watch our society morph into another Japan.
No the award for sanctimonious smart/dumb nikka sticking your nose into shyt that you loud and wrong about goes to you. A parent and I were having a very good conversation and your silly ass just couldn’t wait to rudely inject like anything you had to say was worth a damn.You are one of the most full of shyt users on this site.
You talk about what you did as thought your life should be used as a measurement for what others should endure and accomplish.
You look at a black man receiving support from his mother, and you stick your greasy nose in the middle of it to try and put a stop to his mum having his back.
In following posts you go on to admit the support you received from the government and the initiatives that don't exist today.
Your post was dumb. On the outside, you don't know what people are going through but you're an arrogant, judgemental piece of shyt who doesn't skip a beat when it comes to throwing shade on black men.
If you got this nonsense from what I’ve been saying, you slow as hell and not even worth engaging.Useless bytching
Seems like you’ve been an ignorant bytch who ran away from FACTS to try and post irrelevant shyt when I pulled your bytch card.Thought there was something off key about you. Was this boy black or white?
Seems as though you've been a passively aggressive piece of shyt for decades.
I actually edited that post and it explained why I’mlet me ask, why be in a relationship with marriage not being a goal? I assume you want the flexibility to not be held accountable for the duties of a wife, yet still not be lonely and have access to sex?
im not saying this to attack you but more so it seems like you confirm why desired men dont even want to marry modern women. Literally no incentive when we can have sex access without it.