Men: do y'all get complimented frequently?

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Every now and then I’ll get compliments on my smile, haircut, or my voice. Sometimes it’s directly, and other times it’s me overhearing people talking about me.

Just one of the perks of being a pretty bytch :wow:
 

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Not on a daily basis, but I’ve gotten compliments frequently enough that I’ve taken notice. It’s usually about my shoes, my looks, or my hair.

As for the second question, I don’t assume she wants all that, but depending on who the compliment is coming from, it’ll at least make me wonder whether she might be feeling me :patrice:
 

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Yes

Most times it's about my hair tho. Which is pretty long. I don't rock dreads so when it's not braided up, its usually in a ponytail.

other times its either for cologne or some random shyt (eyes, complexion, etc..)

I don't assume a chick wants to smash if she compliment me tho. There's nothing wrong with voicing your admiration.
Sometimes you just wanna pass on positive vibes :manny:
 

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real question. As a woman, it's nothing to be complimented daily/multiple times a day by men and women. Sometimes it's about looks, other times an outfit or jewelry or hairstyle...but I'm wondering how often men get complimented? Y'all gonna assume I wanna fukk if I start complimenting y'all? :jbhmm:
THis is one of the major things women hate about me. I rarely almost never compliment people, period.

At least you know the few times i do i mean it 100% :yeshrug:
But quite honestly I dont know how to accept compliments either. Every time someone compliments me on something i ALWAYS think there is an ulterior motive behind it.
So in my mind im thinking "ok.. now tell me what you really want". :dry:
I always feel like people , for the most part, dont really mean their compliments and are just using them to get on your good side before they harm you in some other way or just to pamper you. So in my head i fee like if i make someone a compliment they are gonna think about it the same way i think about compliments
 
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Yes, for my work, not typically for looks. But I get at least one compliment daily. It feels great but I don't take it as a signal to move in

Unless I feel like making a move :mjgrin:
 

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"nice shoes"

"You look fresh"

"You smell good"

"You are very clean"

"You are looking sharp today"
 

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real question. As a woman, it's nothing to be complimented daily/multiple times a day by men and women. Sometimes it's about looks, other times an outfit or jewelry or hairstyle...but I'm wondering how often men get complimented? Y'all gonna assume I wanna fukk if I start complimenting y'all? :jbhmm:

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