MEN, if we're going to FIX the Black Community we're going to have to RESCUE a lot of these STRAY Single Mothers.

[skyrunner1]

If you care about the Black Community at all, you know we have way too many stray single mothers struggling they azz off. Raising these kids to be mostly degenerates and ratchets for most part. Stats show that the most fukked up of us come from single mother homes. We have to acknowledge it and stop acting like it is a epidemic.

We've done enough pointing the fingers and blaming, its time for solutions. There are 2 key actions with have to take:
1. Preventing Single Motherhood
2. Rescuing Current Single Mothers.


How we start is the only discussion.

Two problems with your plan, this generation grew up seeing how previous generations of single fathers were shown absolutely no respect. The disrespect I saw my friends give their step fathers looking back with eyes wide open is crazy. I remember it being soo bad even the biological child of step father and mother was learning from half siblings and disrespecting. Its a thankless job, I will say it til end. Its literally setting yourself on fire to keep others warm. Alot of dudes have done cost analysis and said Im good.

The next is doing this is absolutely rewarding bad behavior which will have the opposite affect of what you want. You cant prevent single motherhood by rewarding it, every study into human nature tells you this is like ice skating uphill. No one will pay attention to what you have to say because there will be guarentee that regardless of bad choice there is no consequence. You cant en mass have that, at that point just leave it as is. Some women regardless of child will still get wifed up, some wont. Most nowadays dont even care to be in relationships they rather pass dudes around, just watch first 20 sec of this lol

 

[number21]

Saving single mothers? Nah. Being on your shyt to prevent it, yeah, sure.

Letting them deal with the bs they got themselves into and struggle. Helps display and encourage cats with sense to move properly.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Two problems with your plan, this generation grew up seeing how previous generations of single fathers were shown absolutely no respect. The disrespect I saw my friends give their step fathers looking back with eyes wide open is crazy. I remember it being soo bad even the biological child of step father and mother was learning from half siblings and disrespecting. Its a thankless job, I will say it til end. Its literally setting yourself on fire to keep others warm. Alot of dudes have done cost analysis and said Im good.

The next is doing this is absolutely rewarding bad behavior which will have the opposite affect of what you want. You cant prevent single motherhood by rewarding it, every study into human nature tells you this is like ice skating uphill. No one will pay attention to what you have to say because there will be guarentee that regardless of bad choice there is no consequence. You cant en mass have that, at that point just leave it as is. Some women regardless of child will still get wifed up, some wont. Most nowadays dont even care to be in relationships they rather pass dudes around, just watch first 20 sec of this lol

Bro, I wouldn't date them dumb bytches in that video even if they was looking for a relationship. Y'all view of women come from extreme bottom feeders.

 

[skyrunner1]

Bro, I wouldn't date them dumb bytches in that video even if they was looking for a relationship. Y'all view of women come from extreme bottom feeders.

The thing is with social media or whatever the masses are getting their cues from the bottom feeders. We just had a senator popping p*ssy on a headstand, we got dudes telling other dudes to accept this nonsense, but out of all that this what you see. Jesus.

 

[Wildhundreds]

The thing is with social media or whatever the masses are getting their cues from the bottom feeders. We just had a senator popping p*ssy on a headstand, we got dudes telling other dudes to accept this nonsense, but out of all that this what you see. Jesus.

Its all by design too. In a attention starved society, what ever behavior gets the most attention will be mimicked.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I wish people understood how critical the time is between birth and the age of ten years old. Putting your kid in front of a t.v or slapping a iPad in their hands to occupy their time is adding to this problem people hate. It's going to take a couple generations to fix this, and we're failing in the critical years of childhood development.

 

[Peachstate]

It makes more sense to shame deadbeats instead of saying "I understand it." Men are way too comfortable abandoning the kids they created.

 

[BrothaZay]

OP on point as always

 

[Unfiltered]

FACTS but it's probably going to be me

Unfortunately

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Can we tell the FATHERS of these kids to step up, and marry these women?

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I wasn't logged in but...

Is this OP's first or second thread of the day or is it the third ?

Knowing him he's gonna drop at least a few more before the day is over

 

[Henri Christophe]

Rescue??? Fuc outta here

They need to go back to the clown nikka they elected to be the father of their child, and maintain their family.

We already have women in our families depending on us.

 

[Don'tCallMeLuckyB]

Don’t forget to shop the complete look

 

[Amo Husserl]

You're not wrong.
If you care about your people you gotta fix the fundamental parts, and the most crucial is the family structure.
Whether single mothers in the black community wanna submit to a man in order to stabilize and rebuild the black community is the question.
Whether single men in the black community wanna attempt to lead a single mother and children to steer them all the right way is the question.
Will both sides do equal amounts of work to make the situation work in not only their interests but of the children's and the community?
You're not wrong.
Are black men and women willing to agree to those terms or something like them for the betterment of the community?
Because there aren't enough single fathers in the black community to pair up with their counterparts.
So somebody would have to take up the slack.
Whether children under a single mother will respect that black man's authority and allow themselves to be guided with minimal resistance, another story.
You're not wrong.
Very few are willing.
And for good reason.
You're not wrong, but you're not necessarily right either because black women should be far more careful about who they reproduce with.

 

[Kenny West]

You need a hobby my dude. Go build model trainsets or some shyt, let that dead horse rest