MEN, if we're going to FIX the Black Community we're going to have to RESCUE a lot of these STRAY Single Mothers.

[010101]

the truth is you can only account for yourself & your family*

 

[Unfiltered]

Most people won't like what I have to say but fukk it. You can't save anyone without being in control. If you want men to save the black community, then they will have to control the black community. Call it patriarchy, call it misogyny, but if you want them to save it, they'll have to operate and move like the more "successful" races do. The problems may change but surely they are better than some of the ones the black community is facing now.

true, not gonna happen until men take charge and honestly the democrats kinda make sure that never happens. We'll realistically have to kill the gender war nonsense and charge the narrative, once liberals stop advertising solely to black women it will be a good start.

But that will take people coming together which was OP's point, like it or not the sisters with kids outta wedlock regardless how messed up it was with them and the BD you're not fixing no community with less than 35% of us married.

Marriage will also drasitcally reduce crime in the communities it's a win, win but it will take people putting their pride aside and wifing a Single mom and being happy with that and telling that to a young breh with options is gonna take alot of work.

I got brehs over 40 who won't wife a single mom, imagine the younger brehs...

OP is 100% on point though, realistically nothing will change unless people come together and marriage is a huge indicator of that.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Wouldn’t that encourage them to keep doing what they are doing?(that is choosing the wrong dude to have. A seed by)

 

[Piff Perkins]

How about we instead, you know, only nut in women you're married to or in a serious relationship with. And if you have a child, commit to taking care of your child instead of bouncing. No one is obligated to save single mothers. I would never date one, personally. But if our men were taking care of their children and in a financial position TO take care of their children, we wouldn't be having this convo.

 

[puckkhead]

i know i'm gonna be negged for saying this...

if you want to stop out of wedlock births and single motherhood, black men need to stop thinking with their d*cks...

 

[moorfeus]

If you care about the Black Community at all, you know we have way too many stray single mothers struggling they azz off. Raising these kids to be mostly degenerates and ratchets for most part. Stats show that the most fukked up of us come from single mother homes. We have to acknowledge it and stop acting like it is a epidemic.

We've done enough pointing the fingers and blaming, its time for solutions. There are 2 key actions with have to take:
1. Preventing Single Motherhood
2. Rescuing Current Single Mothers.


How we start is the only discussion.

There is already a plan for people caught up in this cycle. Its called Rex 84 and the King Alfred Plan. Ain't no stopping that no matter how shiny your cape is or how many single moms you try to save out here. Its an army of people that are lost mentally who think it is cool to be savage. They are basically cannon fodder. You can't save them!

 

[num123]

I am not rescuing shyt, wtf?

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Don’t save her she don’t wanna be saved
- project pat

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[Lonj]

Interesting in theory and at least it's some sort of solution but the problem is while you're saving some other man's baby mama and his kids, new single moms are are being made. It's like trying to plug a leak with your fingers while more leaks are sprouting up; you gotta stop it at the source.

 

[Panther]

They should go back to their child's father

 

[Buck Seventy]

How about we instead, you know, only nut in women you're married to or in a serious relationship with. And if you have a child, commit to taking care of your child instead of bouncing. No one is obligated to save single mothers. I would never date one, personally. But if our men were taking care of their children and in a financial position TO take care of their children, we wouldn't be having this convo.

The extreme solution to this would be to ban divorces and tying the tubes of single women and performing vasectomies on single men that can be reversed when they get married. That way every thing is on the up and up and black men won't be victims of black women and white men.

 

[Treblemaka]

How about this instead:

Some of these fukboys can decide to be grown men, take stock and control of their lives and be fully present in raising their children.

 

[Wiseborn]

If you care about the Black Community at all, you know we have way too many stray single mothers struggling they azz off. Raising these kids to be mostly degenerates and ratchets for most part. Stats show that the most fukked up of us come from single mother homes. We have to acknowledge it and stop acting like it is a epidemic.

We've done enough pointing the fingers and blaming, its time for solutions. There are 2 key actions with have to take:
1. Preventing Single Motherhood
2. Rescuing Current Single Mothers.


How we start is the only discussion.

That's a 180 degrees away from the correct course of Action

 

[Weaver31]

It makes more sense to shame deadbeats instead of saying "I understand it." Men are way too comfortable abandoning the kids they created.

What I don't understand is that these men don't understand that that's their legacy and bloodline....instead of abandoning their kids they need to work with the baby mama and respect her becauseshe giving them a gift thats priceless...it would be beneficial if they only have kids with women they would see as wifey material and women have kids with men who have HVM traits or potential and not have kids with men who u know are either no good or just shaky, inconsistent or simply men who just ain't ready to be a father and step up. I say that because I do believe some women know some men ain't no good but wanna have their baby anyway when there are more viable hard working men outthere with good values.

 

[Weaver31]

Can we tell the FATHERS of these kids to step up, and marry these women?

That's what the community needs but when young males and females engage in grown up activities like having unprotected sex....consequences can happen like pregnancy and unfavorable consequences can occur like STDs. A good portion outchea are having unprotected sex but not ready or able to deal with the consequences.

Plus when talking about marriage and who is hubby or wifey material...some don't understand how to make sound judgment when choosing. Then some of us men (women too) need to simply be better or try to improve each other. Don't forget a lot of us come from disfunction so we have a lot of unresolved trauma so that impacts our readiness to man and woman up to be a good stable parent. Hell u got folks having kids and not having their basics together...it's best to have our basics together or have a strong support system like good family.