Men: In order to get laid...

[Hungry Rabbit]

Obviously we all know that in reality it IS possible to keep it 100% real with a woman and still get to hit it.

But IN GENERAL do you think that it's necessary to "lie to, misrepresent yourself to, or bullshyt" women in some way, shape, or form in order to do so?

I remember when I was 18 walking out of Hooters (don't ask), seeing this cool dude wit bad chicks, and asking him how to talk to women and him responding, "You just keep it 100% real with them ."

But then of course you have dudes that will tell you, "...Nikka, the fukk is you talkin bout? Lie to da bytches.. LIE to em "

What do you think? Does it depend on how you define these terms? Do women do the same thing? If so why can't men?

 

[semicko82]

The dude I know who got the most lays was a lying POS. One of those scum of the earth fake Christian types, so

 

[PhonZhi]

Yep, be honest. Basically have an "idgaf" attitude meaning that you're not afraid to say no. You're not afraid to speak your mind and disagree with her also. That's what he meant by 100% real.

Just be yourself.

I know that sounds cliche, but so many guys are afraid to simply be themselves around new women. They hide shyt and try to put on this fake "perfect guy" persona. That's a no no. That's why women flock to the bad boys. Bad boys don't give a fukk about revealing their faults. Their shortcomings.

Something I've learned personally over time is that these females themselves aren't "perfect" so why put on the facade that YOU are? They are insecure. They are broke and struggling. They've made mistakes. I actually play off these things. When I'm first getting to know a woman, I like to talk about REAL shyt (the struggles of life). Forget all the cute shyt, tell me about your struggles and ill tell you mine. Just keep it real with em.

What this does is makes them comfortable with you from a mental standpoint. You become somebody that they can relax and let their guard down around.

Now keep in mind I've mainly dealt with older women so idk how these younger women react

But older women, yea they love a dude who keeps it 100 because they've already heard so much BS in their life

 

[Reginald Noble]

More important question to ask is what they are lying about.

 

[iBrowse]

@Matt504

 

[The Burger King]

Lying to get a woman's approval is some beta male shyt.

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

The dude I know who got the most lays was a lying POS. One of those scum of the earth fake Christian types, so

Ol acoustic guitar strumming their way into p*ssy types haha the ultimate finesse for Jesus brehs

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I find lying very difficult

no

I may lie about personal things like how often I jack off, but pretending to be someone I'm not is difficult or calling a girl pretty when she's average is very hard for me.

I don't think I've ever called a chick I was trying to smash "pretty" or "beautiful"

at most... "fine" and that was once

I even find liking girls pictures on facebook hard

 

[intruder]

Just be yourself.

Yep

I pretty much discussed this in my "shut the fukk up" story about this dude trying to fukk my homegirl. She is a freak. All he had to do was show up and be hmself because he is Physically her type. But home wouldnt shut the fukk up and talked himself out of the p*ssy right in front of me and me knowng her she would have fukked him that same night too (their first time meting)

http://www.thecoli.com/posts/21051597/

But dude slowly but surely yapped himself out of some good head and p*ssy. I wanted to kick homie under the table to make him shut up

 

[Matt504]

I think men should remove "well, women do it too" from their vocabularies.

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Tell the truth and be upfront in general. Lie about details.

 

[Taadow]

When it comes to broads,

not only is lying the wrong way, but it's also the long way.


Also, not telling them stuff they don't need to know > lying

 

[InDePickWest]

If you lie you're gonna get chicks that want relationships.

If you keep it real you're gonna get chicks who on that ho shyt with you.

 

[Freedman]

I vote for lie. Tell a fee whatever she want to hear for me to fukk and let fate decide the rest

 

[Larry Lambo]

Yep, be honest. Basically have an "idgaf" attitude meaning that you're not afraid to say no. You're not afraid to speak your mind and disagree with her also. That's what he meant by 100% real.

Just be yourself.

I know that sounds cliche, but so many guys are afraid to simply be themselves around new women. They hide shyt and try to put on this fake "perfect guy" persona. That's a no no. That's why women flock to the bad boys. Bad boys don't give a fukk about revealing their faults. Their shortcomings.

Something I've learned personally over time is that these females themselves aren't "perfect" so why put on the facade that YOU are? They are insecure. They are broke and struggling. They've made mistakes. I actually play off these things. When I'm first getting to know a woman, I like to talk about REAL shyt (the struggles of life). Forget all the cute shyt, tell me about your struggles and ill tell you mine. Just keep it real with em.

What this does is makes them comfortable with you from a mental standpoint. You become somebody that they can relax and let their guard down around.

Now keep in mind I've mainly dealt with older women so idk how these younger women react

But older women, yea they love a dude who keeps it 100 because they've already heard so much BS in their life

These "bad boys" are the biggest liars. I know several grimey dudes (with 100+ bodies) that don't give a f**k and will say whatever it takes to get in a girl's panties.

And you're crazy if you think "bad boys" reveal faults and shortcomings. These are dudes with massive egos that act like they know everything and have never made a mistake in life. Only faults they admit to is shi**ing on women, which is not negative in many women's minds. I've never met a thug nikka that was humble and upfront about his weaknesses. That's not how they move.

You do have to be "perfect" in certain areas, from a confidence and social perspective.

Not having a solid social life - unacceptable
Low self esteem - unacceptable
Failure in school/work (and not being a street dude) - unacceptable
Lack of experience with women - unacceptable

The "flaws" that women look past are like this

Being a "player" - acceptable
Previously cheating on gf's but trying to do "better" - acceptable
Being a criminal/having a record - acceptable to some, unacceptable to others, but will attract the women that these men want
Not being relationship minded - same as above