If you are confident in your decision, why do you need to try and theorize on other’s situation?
At the end of the day, you only know yourself. So what you are really saying is that YOU don’t like monogamy.
Which is fine. But others do and that’s fine too.
Also let me let you in on a lil secret…potentially EVERY human being that breaths will notice someone attractive regardless of their relationship status. You think women who’ve been getting male attention their entire lives, stop getting attention from handsome men when they get married? Or that work wives stop flirting with men when they get married?
Temptation will always be there. But if you are a man or woman of your word and you are of good character, and you no longer look at p*ssy from a deficit mindset b/c you didn’t get any prior to marriage, AND you don’t need p*ssy to feel validated as a man, and u got more going on for you than p*ssy, and you actually respect and love who you CHOSE…then you’ll do the right thing.
Otherwise, just stay single and save up for retirement and a resort style retirement home and enjoy your life.
