Men in relationships are just lying to themselves

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I know what’s behind that data nevertheless men in relationships live a little longer.

I know for a fact my father lived longer because of my mother as well.
If you know whats behind the data why say it like being married makes that the case is my point? No big deal but being married by itself isn't the reason you live longer. Guess we will have to agree to disagree.
 

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Being in a relationship really doesn’t have anything to do with sex as much as it does a partnership that is more beneficial to paying bills, raising children, and having companionship as you begin to get older.

You can fukk a different woman every night as a young man, but as you get older and that testosterone and libido lowers you’ll prioritize someone having your back and the companionship aspect more and more. It’s even scientific data out there that supports married men and men in relationships live longer than single men.

You’ll deal with all kinds of stuff in life such as financial problems, illnesses, death of loved ones, and other life altering events and it’s easier with a companion. All this is not to mention a two parent household is more favorable for raising children.

Most men are still going to find the other women attractive and maybe even still occasionally fukk them, but there is a distinct difference in someone you know you can count on and confide in versus someone you just want to fukk for lustful reasons don’t confuse the two.
Spelling it out for the young bulls :ehh:
 
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Curiosity killed the cat I have a desire to experience different body types and ethnicities it’s hardwired into me as a man, that’s why you sow your royal oats. But if you know your appetite is insatiable then you should probably not enter a monogamous relationship.
 

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I mean I have the "desire" to fukk other bytches in like an animal sense but other p*ssy doesn't seem worth my relationship. Plus not only does my wife have good puss, she is also a good person. Risking all of that for some other puss makes no sense to me, most randoms I've fukked I left right after fukking so why also risk it for some chick I don't even like.

Its ok if you don't want to be in a relationship OP. But it sounds like you are trying to justify it by acting like you are doing what everyone wants to be doing.
 

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I mean, if we're gonna make sweeping generalizations, brehs who think like the OP are brehs who are still putting p*ssy on a pedestal, but just don't know it yet just because it isn't the stereotypical version of it. :yeshrug:

But to throw some thought into it, it really just depends on what kind of relationship you have with your woman. My lady is completely aware that I find other women attractive, but it's not an issue because I'm happy with what I have with her, and she's completely fine with having a conversation about if either of us are slipping on keeping each other happy.

Now, brehs who are staying committed and faithful in a situation where they aren't getting what they need for their own happiness......:francis:
 

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“Show Discipline” *** Jada voice*

honestly, people need to understand the concept of family. While folks do step out, there’s nothing like having that counterpart...

shyt, I know companies who won’t promote men to positions of power if they aren’t married; they can’t legally say it. It shows discipline to some of the higher ups, even if folks step out, it shows commitment to one and stability.
 

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The desire for other pussc never goes away. Ever. You're always going to want to smash other bitcches. But eventually you realize that other pussc is just an emotional high that pales in comparison to having a happy family. I always found juggling women annoying, personally. One woman is draining enough.

I'd much rather have my one chick and focus the rest of the time chillin or gettin the bag. :yeshrug:
 

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If you are confident in your decision, why do you need to try and theorize on other’s situation?

At the end of the day, you only know yourself. So what you are really saying is that YOU don’t like monogamy.

Which is fine. But others do and that’s fine too.

Also let me let you in on a lil secret…potentially EVERY human being that breaths will notice someone attractive regardless of their relationship status. You think women who’ve been getting male attention their entire lives, stop getting attention from handsome men when they get married? Or that work wives stop flirting with men when they get married?

Temptation will always be there. But if you are a man or woman of your word and you are of good character, and you no longer look at p*ssy from a deficit mindset b/c you didn’t get any prior to marriage, AND you don’t need p*ssy to feel validated as a man, and u got more going on for you than p*ssy, and you actually respect and love who you CHOSE…then you’ll do the right thing.

Otherwise, just stay single and save up for retirement and a resort style retirement home and enjoy your life. :yeshrug:
 

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These :old: ass posts

for all these brehs saying they enjoy their old life and relaxing with someone they can trust because sex isn’t that important to them anymore

there’s a bunch of dudes around the world the same age as these guys with the same mindset as op and believe it’s their best life.


It’s all about perspective and where you’re at in life
 

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Answer this, yes or no. Once you're in a relationship, do you stop having the desire for other p*ssy?

Everyone knows the answer is no. You walk outside you find a girl you'd be down to fukk within 5 minutes. So doesn't this mean you're living a life not true to yourself? Being faithful to your girl, is what you really want to do? So why do it? Why are you in a monogamous relationship?

Let's speak on it. The older I get the less I see the point of being in a monogamous relationship because I'll always have a taste for some new p*ssy.

Speak on it.
You seem conflicted, so I will provide some thoughts I've had over the years. Maybe it helps I don't know.

-Every living thing is programmed to reproduce. It's biologically installed in us to want to have partners, both men and women.

-Monogamy has always been a lie. Even back when you had model white families, the Husband/Father had mistresses or hookers he'd see on the side.

-But as humans, we have advance thought that can go beyond biological urges. When looked at rationally, monogamy makes sense.

-Society is too advanced and I think it is destroying our minds in ways we never thought.
 
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