Men in relationships are just lying to themselves

[BigMan]

I certainly have. 3 year and 2 year ltr. How the hell do you think I know of this? 3 year girl I lived with. Quit playing dumb

How did it end

sounds like a lot of projection from you because I don’t need to expend resources to get sex from my girl

 

[Prevail]

We're not talking about the importance factor, the family or the white picket fence. The desire to fukk other women is still there, yes or no?

Yes. it's a desire not a NEED.

You fear losing their body, ignoring their personality / role as a friend
other people fear losing a good best friend that looks out for them by violating promises you made to them.

Some accept the boyfriend title, because they think they've found a best friend they can grow with.
Others do it out of desperation because they lack boundaries and they'll lose access to her body fearing they can't find a similar body to use. Even taking it as far as doing disgraceful shyt like parading her around his actual loved ones with titles despite the lack of love.

 

[The_Sheff]

I was fukking around with the razor the other day and cut my ear something fierce. My wife didnt hesitate to help me out, blood all on her hand, shirt, etc.... nikka new p*ssy aint doing that.

 

[Man On Fire]

Answer this, yes or no. Once you're in a relationship, do you stop having the desire for other p*ssy?

Everyone knows the answer is no. You walk outside you find a girl you'd be down to fukk within 5 minutes. So doesn't this mean you're living a life not true to yourself? Being faithful to your girl, is what you really want to do? So why do it? Why are you in a monogamous relationship?

Let's speak on it. The older I get the less I see the point of being in a monogamous relationship because I'll always have a taste for some new p*ssy.

Speak on it.

Most of the time we choose monogamy for spiritual, financial, and, or physical stability. Bumping around from woman to woman can be thrilling but also extremely dangerous. A RANDOM nut with a RANDOM woman isn’t worth an unexpected pregnancy, an STD, being stalked by a crazy bytch or a jealous ex.

 

[SadimirPutin]

The more i think of this...it is extreme thirstbucket behavior

 

[DaddyFresh]

Op is right. Nobody saying you got to fukk very girl you find attractive. But being with one women forever is not practical for men. Monogamy is a pretty recent social construct. The testosterone of men drops significantly after being married and goes up again after divorce. Your basically cutting your own balls off. Men weren’t created to be monogamous. I’ve seen older men saying they wear sunglasses on beach vacations so they can peek at other women. Talk about cucking yourself

 

[Diyhai]

Op is right. Nobody saying you got to fukk very girl you find attractive. But being with one women forever is not practical for men. Monogamy is a pretty recent social construct. The testosterone of men drops significantly after being married and goes up again after divorce. Your basically cutting your own balls off. Men weren’t created to be monogamous. I’ve seen older men saying they wear sunglasses on beach vacations so they can peek at other women. Talk about cucking yourself

So women are meant to be monogamous?

 

[DaddyFresh]

So women are meant to be monogamous?

This thread is about men. Why are you changing the subject?

 

[Diyhai]

This thread is about men. Why are you changing the subject?

Because you saying men are not supposed to be monogamous kind of implies women should be.
It’s a difference in saying monogamy in general is not natural and making it sex specific.

 

[humminbird]

Somehow Someway
This is related to the stripper thread

 

[DaddyFresh]

Because you saying men are not supposed to be monogamous kind of implies women should be.
It’s a difference in saying monogamy in general is not natural and making it sex specific.

To your question then I don’t think it’s “natural” for them either. But they benefit from it much more given how human anatomy works.

 

[85 East]

Yes, but it gets expensive and boring. That's what beating off and porn is for. Find a partner you can see growing old with. Someone you have fun with and keep it moving. Or not. To each his own

 

[Sterling Archer]

The only women I cuff are the ones who I’ve determined is the baddest chick in almost every room she’s in. Spending enough time dating the woman and seeing this day in and day out only makes me even more attracted to her and less attracted to the rest. So when you decide “Yeah, I’ve seen enough. Let me go ahead and lock this down. Make it official.” I’m very comfortable and not tempted at all.

That’s what having options, discipline and standards gets you. If every time you turn your head, there’s a colder bytch than yours making you want to chase hoes then you ain’t never have it in you to pull the baddest chick in the room in the first place. If I can’t get the best woman in my orbit, I’m not trying to cuff any of them because I know there’s someone badder. Just stay single if that’s an issue.

When you are with a very attractive woman, other attractive women seem even less attractive. Your girl is a 8 or 9, other 8s and 9s seem like 7s. That’s how it is for me at least.

 

[Wise]

The difference is the dudes in relationships aren't constantly making threads claiming the single dudes are "lying to themselves." I have no problem with dudes who wanna live the single life forever. Shyt, I have more respect for them than the dudes in relationships who constantly cheat. But it seems like single men have this weird chip on their shoulders where they constantly try to justify their lifestyle by acting like every man in a relationship is miserable.

thread.

never been in a relationship and this how I feel