Men list the reasons why you.....

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

fellas, a woman 9 times out of 10 is gonna follow your lead. if you say, im looking for a relationship, a woman is gonna say me too. if you say, i just got out of a relationship or just im not looking for anything serious right now. she'll say yea im not looking for anything either. you dont even have to say im looking for sex or any type of sexual talk. if your game is on point and she attracted to you, its gonna happen.

this really is besides the point...what we're saying is: even if women say their cool with casual sex...9 times outta 10 its not the truth

 

[BruhMayne]

The thing is, men will see this and keep fukking. I feel like if it was established that what is going on is strictly sex, then there shouldnt be an inner struggle or feelings of guilt when you realize one of you has caught feelings. Confront it and cut them off.

Also I know what I said in the second half of my post wasnt about the topic, I was just branching off...

You're right men see that and do keep fukking, and this indirectly proves the point guys were making. Cause the MAIN reason the man keeps on fukking is cause most females out here will claim they arent about that casual sex life so the avg dude wont easily find a replacement. But the female posters in here were acting like these "Im cool with casual sex" girls are just so easy to find in abundance in the real world. If that were the case dudes would have no problem cutting the old chick off but thats not the case. Not saying its right but the game aint changing no time soon

 

[RAX 010]

 

[Rayzah]

You're right men see that and do keep fukking, and this indirectly proves the point guys were making. Cause the MAIN reason the man keeps on fukking is cause most females out here will claim they arent about that casual sex life so the avg dude wont easily find a replacement. But the female posters in here were acting like these "Im cool with casual sex" girls are just so easy to find in abundance in the real world. If that were the case dudes would have no problem cutting the old chick off but thats not the case. Not saying its right but the game aint changing no time soon

Right, if we agree to just casual sex in the beginning then I'm not expecting her to catch feelings down the line, I want to continue the way I was going..

The thing is, men will see this and keep fukking. I feel like if it was established that what is going on is strictly sex, then there shouldnt be an inner struggle or feelings of guilt when you realize one of you has caught feelings. Confront it and cut them off.

Also I know what I said in the second half of my post wasnt about the topic, I was just branching off...

I'm not gonna cut it off because you can't expect me to change my mind cuz we had sex a few times, just like I don't expect you to change your mind.. It's not easy to just stop And move on to the next because we don't run into many that will agree to those terms..

 

[Jesus]

I always tell the bytch whatever happens, happens. I'm down for whatever with the right person. They give up puss and I didn't lie.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Go for the woman that wants the relationship knowing you only want sex. (If that's the case)
Why not go for the woman that's not looking for sex so therefore no drama or hurt feelings are involved?

What is it about a woman who wants a relationship that you feel like you have to go for her knowing you only want sex?

Is it more respectful that she want more?
Is it the challenge?

I don't understand why y'all would put yourself through the drama when it's 2014 and a lot of women only want sex too.

If you want more than sex this thread doesn't apply to u.

cause you shorting yourself a gang of women... mostly high quality ones

lets say there's 100 women, all dimes (this never happens)

you say "i just want to fukk" and already 70% are turned off and you just lost out


try again

100 women.... you say "i want to settle down"

well even the ones who just want dikk will still try and fukk.. and the ones who wanted a relationship are still there




now lets be reality


if 100 women are there, ratio would say 10 are dimes, 20 are 9's and up...... so on and so forth

you say "i just want to fukk" and most the 7's and above are the ones leaving.. they got too many dudes after them, who will give them the world, for them to fukk around and just hand you the p*ssy cause you asked for it

so now you left with the smuts, the cute ones, average ones, and ugly ones. you cutting yourself off from the prime women.. the dimes with good brains who ain't out here just fukking, who want a good man to love and treat right.... and those the women we'd most like to be fukking

 

[Turbulent]

honesty is the best policy. the problem is that some people's brand of honesty is just a tactic. they're not even honest with themselves (both males and females). kinda like guys who claim to be "nice guys" but their niceness is not based on righteousness. or wholesome girls who claim they aren't hoes and while they may not be promiscuous, their act is not based on righteousness either. it's all based on projecting an image, not on conviction or principle. people can smell the phoniness.

if a girl tells a guy she doesn't want to just be fwb. the guy says cool but after a while they end up being fwb, most girls would conclude that the dude gamed her. sold her a dream. lied to her. but she was in the market for buying dreams then. who really lied to who at this point? she was trying to sell the "good girl" image but then she ended up being down to fukk. but of course, the woman is never responsible for anything. this can't be her fault so the evil man has to be the one who corrupted her