Men list the reasons why you.....

[philmonroe]

It really doesn't matter. You can keep it one thou-yal which a chick from jump street and let her know you're not looking for a relationship and all she's gonna do is see that as a challenge, especially if she's digging you, on some, "I can change that" type shyt.

That being said, I thinks it's idiotic to put it out there as "I want sex" (unless you tryna ya luck with a one nighter ) because a new females will get on a pedestal and take offense to it like, "what kinda chick do you think I am?" It's best to keep your agenda hidden and get what you want out of it.

Plus in this day in age if you're a halfway decent dude a chick's gonna give you a go because the amount of fucc ups out here anyway.

Regarding bold you don't have to say it like that but you don't have to keep your agenda hidden either. I always feel lying ass nikkas do that cause they scarred to putthemselves out there but what do they care stupid chicks falling for it so they like anyway lol

 

[RealAssanova]

It's okay walal, take that L and KIM


Next time you're interested in gabar Somali, take your uncles

And go to her aabo

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Wrong. I know way too many girls that just want sex. More than the ones who want a bf but then again they might be more comfortable telling a woman that than a man. Shame women for having sex n then get mad when its hard to get laid, coli males.

this is the answer to the thread topic right here....yall dont tell men the truth....

you and i both now that if the majority of men could get sex without being in relationships...then the majority of men wouldnt be in relationships...

 

[Rayzah]

this is the answer to the thread topic right here....yall dont tell men the truth....

you and i both now that if the majority of men could get sex without being in relationships...then the majority of men wouldnt be in relationships...

Exactly........ Men do it because they have to, out of 10 women maybe 2 will admit to only wanting sex after a few conversations or dates. none will admit that off the top.. Men have just adapted to the way things are, wheras women seem like they keep doing and expecting the same things even tho they should know how we are by now... So basically if there are so many women out here that are ok with it, then they need to say this upfront

 

[Makaveli]

brehs yall gotta live tht life. parties nd raves. If u not fukkin a bytch u still get action every night nd its them thotties so they aint gon be hittin u up on the daily

 

[theGoldmangod]

I'm guessing you cats never went to college because there a plethora of broads there that only want to fukk. Yes they want you to keep it on the low because they don't want to be known as sluts on campus, but its very, VERY easy to come by no strings attached p*ssy in college. Matter fact, its easy to come by it when women are in that 35-40 year range too cause thats when many are just getting divorced and don't care about proving themselves worthy of being a wife anymore since they been there done that.

 

[Turbulent]

It's such a fukking disgusting mindset. I swear if I discover that one more godforsaken motherfukker is trying to crack me like a safe, I might flip the fukk out
and make a scene in public, then walk right off and leave everyone staring at him wondering if he assaulted me or what Like, I get that those guys are not worth it and that getting mad won't fix anything and I don't even like to make a spectacle of anything, but the urge to scream at them is so fukking great. Because I'd been telling them ALL ALONG that I was not going anywhere with them and I was not going to do anything that made me uncomfortable and they'd been nodding along to every damn thing I said, but still those motherfukkers never really fukking listen, NEVER, you could tell them exactly what you want and they'll think they bloody know better, and I just want to scream until they fukking acknowledge my goddamn free will and if they don't like it, get the fukk out of my face.

how is a man trying to fukk (without forcing you) lacking respect for your free will?

 

[Turbulent]

If the woman just wants a relationship then why is she giving it up before that?

underrated post.

 

[Turbulent]

Well, here's the rub.....you see women are fluid when it comes to what they want especially when it comes to something casual vs something serious. Women tend to want something chill when the dude aint on top of game....but she wants to lock down the dude who she feels would be a good look.

A chick will say "I'm not looking for anything serious.....I just want to have some fun." She meets Tyrone....he works at Target and has no real prospects but he's funny and cute. She's just looking for some sex and conversation every once in awhile, so she starts messing with dude. She's content with the casual thing and keeps her distance for the most part. They hang out here and there.....no big deal.

The same chick comes across Xavier via a friend hooking them up. He's a handsome, educated brotha with a well-paying job, financially secure and has a bright future. She wants to lock him down badly because she knows he's a catch. She stops answering Tyrone's "come thru" texts and starts blowing Xavier's phone up on some "good morning" sh#t. Xavier starts hitting and she catches feelings, especially after finding out that he's dating other women. She hits him with the "well, where are things going between us.....I think we would make a great couple."

Xavier either makes her his chick or plays the sh#t out of her.

Look at it like this, if Barack Obama were single, most of the women he came across would be breaking their neck trying to lock him down. Why? Because's he's of extreme value and they know how stiff the competition is. Yes, many would do the "casual thing" with him but only as a tactic to get their foot in the door in hopes of snatching him off the market. And those same women would sleep with some dude of less value on some "I was just horny" sh#t.

So, the "why don't does just smash the chicks looking for casual sex" is kinda myopic since women will change that based how she perceives the benefit associated with the man.

Peace

there it is.

 

[daboywonder2002]

fellas, a woman 9 times out of 10 is gonna follow your lead. if you say, im looking for a relationship, a woman is gonna say me too. if you say, i just got out of a relationship or just im not looking for anything serious right now. she'll say yea im not looking for anything either. you dont even have to say im looking for sex or any type of sexual talk. if your game is on point and she attracted to you, its gonna happen.

 

[swimmingpools]

A lot of guys are in denial about it. Theres no way a woman can only be interested in sex because we're too emotional and adda yadda.

If a woman wants to sleep with you she will and thats already set early on. You can tell some women that you only want sex and they are still going to sleep with you regardless, and there are some women who men can tell that to and they are completely turned off. You dont have to play games to get sex.

 

[BruhMayne]

A lot of guys are in denial about it. Theres no way a woman can only be interested in sex because we're too emotional and adda yadda.

If a woman wants to sleep with you she will and thats already set early on. You can tell some women that you only want sex and they are still going to sleep with you regardless, and there are some women who men can tell that to and they are completely turned off. You dont have to play games to get sex.

You kinda missing what they talking about though, I think

You're right you dont have to play games to get sex

But if yall keep fukking and fukking and fukking and IF you're bf material by HER standards, eventually down the line you get hit with the relationship pressure even though she may have only been looking for sex at first

Most dudes can attest to this thats why they generalize women as emotional cause they miss the days in the beginning when you didnt have to worry about her feelings

Im in this situation right now

 

[swimmingpools]

You kinda missing what they talking about though, I think

You're right you dont have to play games to get sex

But if yall keep fukking and fukking and fukking and IF you're bf material by HER standards, eventually down the line you get hit with the relationship pressure even though she may have only been looking for sex at first

Most dudes can attest to this thats why they generalize women as emotional cause they miss the days in the beginning when you didnt have to worry about her feelings

Im in this situation right now

The thing is, men will see this and keep fukking. I feel like if it was established that what is going on is strictly sex, then there shouldnt be an inner struggle or feelings of guilt when you realize one of you has caught feelings. Confront it and cut them off.

Also I know what I said in the second half of my post wasnt about the topic, I was just branching off...

 

[no.]

how is a man trying to fukk (without forcing you) lacking respect for your free will?

The initial request is not disrespect. It's a guy pressing on when I already said no that creeps me out. It wasn't even a jokey no between giggles and shyt. It was a hard-faced, cold-voiced, strong no. Like, he asked, I refused, what else there needed to be said? Instead he carried on like I had no voice. And he wasn't deaf or stupid, he just seriously did not believe me when I said I was not going to do that.

And then he had the nerve to be like, "if you're gonna be difficult, I'll just leave "

And when I was like, "YES! Finally! " he was actually confused, like he was expecting me to miss him or something.

 

[Turbulent]

The initial request is not disrespect. It's a guy pressing on when I already said no that creeps me out. It wasn't even a jokey no between giggles and shyt. It was a hard-faced, cold-voiced, strong no. Like, he asked, I refused, what else there needed to be said? Instead he carried on like I had no voice. And he wasn't deaf or stupid, he just seriously did not believe me when I said I was not going to do that.

And then he had the nerve to be like, "if you're gonna be difficult, I'll just leave "

And when I was like, "YES! Finally! " he was actually confused, like he was expecting me to miss him or something.

my bad, i thought you meant like a guy who says he wants to fukk and you tell him that's not what you're looking for and then he says cool but still tries to help you change your mind.