Men list the reasons why you.....

[Mr. Negative]

Go for the woman that wants the relationship knowing you only want sex. (If that's the case)
Why not go for the woman that's not looking for sex so therefore no drama or hurt feelings are involved?

What is it about a woman who wants a relationship that you feel like you have to go for her knowing you only want sex?

Is it more respectful that she want more?
Is it the challenge?

I don't understand why y'all would put yourself through the drama when it's 2014 and a lot of women only want sex too.

because for a lot of men....

if you know a girl or barely know her and you can call her over just to have sex, a lot of dudes equate that to her being easy, so everybody else must be doing it too.

easy = undesirable.

if she just wants sex but wants sex from you and only you, then she expects that level of exclusivity... and you may as well just be in a relationship.

relationship =/= "just sex"



whereas a woman who claims she's looking for a relationship, she's not putting out to everybody. she's waiting for Mr. Right.

That makes her more desirable to a lot of men. They don't think she's a whore.

So they want to crack her like a safe.

If you want more than sex this thread doesn't apply to u.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Reason why from a black perspective

because it's 6 black women to 1 Black man

u 6 women are battling each other for that 1 homerun ball into the crowd

while the black man can sit back throw his fishing pole in the lake and grab any fish who grab the hook

simple as that. but don't blame the guy u was the one who didn't do there background check before that nut was all over your face.

it's funny how u women can do research on jobs and everything, but when it comes to dudes u can have that nikka do a application

It's not the 1940s we can be involved with people outside of our race

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

The exception isn't the rule

Your exception justifies my rule

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's a disgusting habit. Honesty >>>>>>

I think it was @malcolmxxx_45 who gave advice to specifically go after girls who want "to be in a relationship" to use and discard them



That said though, I'm kinda old school, if I were a guy as well I wouldn't buy the cow if I was getting the milk for free. But to trick the cow into giving the milk with the promise of a future purchase is just evil. However the cow should also have protected that milk. So come to think of it the only winners are lactose intolerant folks

We would decide to like you or want to be in a relationship after you let us smash

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Women dont usually tell men they just want sex until after u fukked them once, they might tell another women but they won't tell a man

 

[KinksandCoils]

Dont question us bytch

Call a woman a bytch because you are too dumb to have a valid point brehs.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

We would decide to like you or want to be in a relationship after you let us smash

Aren't you Muslim though

Zina ain't a joke waryaa

 

[Malta]

Your exception justifies my rule

No, one person getting struck by lightning doesn't mean everyone will

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Why not go for the woman that's not looking for sex so therefore no drama or hurt feelings are involved?

Damn this is actually a really good question. I honestly wonder why no man has ever thought of this before.

90% of women want relationships even when its just sex...

Oh wait, I remember now...

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I can't speak for all men, but I'm always upfront with my intentions.

 

[charmander]

@Teedot i likes you and i wants you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No, one person getting struck by lightning doesn't mean everyone will

Okay, I'll let you win even though I made the better argument

 

[Malta]

Okay, I'll let you win even though I made the better argument

The Germans let the Allies win as well, the proper term is "surrendering"

 

[Ohene]

some good responses in here. keep it going

at the end of the day @Teedot you must realize that this is the game. Once you are thrown into it its up to you to make the right conscious decisions like any sort of game so that you can win. Everybody in this day and age is out going for theirs. We have women and men who have been hurt and as a result want to be the user instead of the used.

Just this morning I had a girl..perhaps my only friend-girl ask whether or not I would rather cheat or be cheated on...it was a discussion her and some ppl at a barbecue were having last weke. That answer is neither but the dichotomy in itself outlines whats wrong with a lot of people today. On the other hand my mom and I were talking about when my dad lost $250,000 during the dot com bubble the other day and my brother mentioned how that would break up a lot of marriages. My mom refuted that statement saying there was no way anything could ever break them up; especially with their love for their children. Such a difference. Today, everybody is insecure, selfish, scorned and looking to come out on top or remain in power. At the same time these very insecurities are making them susceptible to deceit...especially women. Like @Buckeye Fever said, the nikka trying to fukk is not the one playing games.

 

[Serious]

It's not the 1940s we can be involved with people outside of our race