“Men Need To Be Emotionially Vulnerable w/ Women Even If Women Use It To Attack Them Later! Men ARE PUSSIE & Weak, You’re Not Owed Kindness!”

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Whenever I hear the word patriarchy and especially when it’s being used to discuss relationship dynamics I scoff and think that woman is batshyt

A man is supposed to be a patriarch in the house hold
 

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The black woman from the first tiktok has a garbage delivery but she's mostly right. That's something I've been learning for the past couple of years.
 

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The black woman from the first tiktok has a garbage delivery but she's mostly right. That's something I've been learning for the past couple of years.

So you're saying that men should open up and take the abuse for a "healthy relationship"?
 

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Whenever I hear the word patriarchy and especially when it’s being used to discuss relationship dynamics I scoff and think that woman is batshyt

A man is supposed to be a patriarch in the house hold
Ain’t no patriarchy in the black community anyway.
 

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A masculine expression looks like "yeah my dog died. I'm sad about it cause he's been with me for years and through my struggles. Life won't be the same without him but it is what it is. I'm heading out later to bury him and say goodbye so I'm going to bed early. Gonna be a long drive to get there"


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I am going to laugh 10 years from now when people's understanding of domestic abuse develops to the point of understanding how abusive some women are.

Nagging incessantly, using information disclosed in confidence against someone is highly abusive behaviour. No one calls them out on it so they just regard it as shyt that is acceptable.
 

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Problem is on both sides imo, us and women,
is that these tests people have… not everyone operating off different quality of “knowledge” I.e the right way of communication, emotional,financial . Many people have never seen good examples, so the answer key is fukked up.! They are giving tests just to give them, it’s no real answer to satisfy them.
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Elephant in the room for them is…lot of these tests if they were self given,people would fail.
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People giving tests to people who got no busniess taking the course too
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I am going to laugh 10 years from now when people's understanding of domestic abuse develops to the point of understanding how abusive some women are.

Nagging incessantly, using information disclosed in confidence against someone is highly abusive behaviour. No one calls them out on it so they just regard it as shyt that is acceptable.

The women that do shyt like that ain't built for a man with emotional intelligence. A man with emotional intelligence will tell them "You've used things I've told you in confidence against me when I've never done that to you. Why do you think I should trust you when you've given me reasons not to? Why do you think it's acceptable to behave that way to someone you say you value?"

I've been in that situation and called them out. Other women don't check them, but their parents do and their man(if he has emotional intelligence) will. I think it's part of the reason why some women purposefully choose men who aren't eloquent enough to express how fukked up their behavior is. They can sense when a man isn't food and they'll either keep their distance or be more drawn to him because he gives her the boundaries that other men in her life didn't. He values himself and gives her the sense that if he's walking away, it's because of indefensible behavior on her part.
 
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