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Yea, some women will use it as ammo if they lack good character. Still, if she does try to use it against you in an argument, just reset the argument by pointing out what the actual argument is about, refusing to argue over her new point she created to deflect from the issue (or from losing the original argument with you). If she stil tries, then just walk away. In that moment, realize you are arguing with a wall and is not worth expending energy.
 

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Yea, some women will use it as ammo if they lack good character. Still, if she does try to use it against you in an argument, just reset the argument by pointing out what the actual argument is about, refusing to argue over her new point she created to deflect from the issue (or from losing the original argument with you). If she stil tries, then just walk away. In that moment, realize you are arguing with a wall and is not worth expending energy.
a girl sees you weak, she will never unsee it

it ain't even about arguments and all that
 

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a girl sees you weak, she will never unsee it

it ain't even about arguments and all that
I am talking about grown women, not girls for one. All women are not the same. Some have actually matured past their teenage years. If a woman with the mentality of a girl does use it against you, then you know she is not someone to take seriously.

Worrying over what women think of you is also showing weakness and makes it a lot harder to find a mentally good and mature woman.
 

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I am talking about grown women, not girls for one. All women are not the same. Some have actually matured past their teenage years. If a woman with the mentality of a girl does use it against you, then you know she is not someone to take seriously.

Worrying over what women think of you is also showing weakness and makes it a lot harder to find a mentally good and mature woman.
split the hair on women/girls/females/etc, entirely beside the point

once she sees you down, that dynamic changes permanently and you aren't ever the one to mend that or rebuild that. its on her. she processes that herself and women do not have any concept on where to start with that.

so you either roll the dice showing them, hoping they can wrap their mind around a relationship fundamentally changing, or you don't and never find out if she can handle it or not. they'll never unsee it.
 

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split the hair on women/girls/females/etc, entirely beside the point

once she sees you down, that dynamic changes permanently and you aren't ever the one to mend that or rebuild that. its on her. she processes that herself and women do not have any concept on where to start with that.

so you either roll the dice showing them, hoping they can wrap their mind around a relationship fundamentally changing, or you don't and never find out if she can handle it or not. they'll never unsee it.
Funny, because I have dealt with women who are not like that at all. I choose for mental and physical qualities though, and one of the mental qualities was actual maturity. Besides, like I said before, it is simple to just walk away and keep looking.

Pretty women are ubiquitous. There is no need to worry over losing one, when there are so many more. Fear of losing her, is a weakness in itself and it is more of a weakness than just accepting her not wanting you anymore, because she has changed her views on you. If you hold on to that fear you will never trully find a good woman, because you fear just dumping her when she exposes her true character.

Last, but not least, all women are not the same. If you think that, you lock yourself into accepting BS based on the ideology that you can't find better.
 

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Nikki Giovanni said “fake it with me” if she wants you to lie to her what do you think these average women want.

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Stop crying to your women, talk shyt to your friends.
 
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