"Men,please vent to women. WE DO CARE"

[Dont@Me]

Better off venting to ChatGPT

 

[Still Benefited]

I learned long time ago women will use it as ammo against u later so no thanks.

it feels good in the moment and may not be intentional from her but it will be used against you later as a narrative to look soft.

ive been through this far enough to know just keep it inside.

if you vent to a woman that's not your mother or therapist you deserve death. it'll be more merciful than the switch up and emotional blackmail that follows.

Im pretty sure yall have just bought into that narrative. That isnt a woman exclusive thing,although it might hurt worse coming from your woman. We see all over social media men airing out each others business when they get into it.


Sure women can and will use it against you. But its very narcisstic and speaks volume that guarding your feelings is all that yall seem to care about in this thread


This actually explains alot about the coldness of alot of our women. Because your not just guarding your feelings by not telling the bad stuff. Your also not telling your women how much you love and cherish them. Because too many of us are afraid of being hurt like little boys.


You dont tell your woman the bad stuff because you should be concerned about burdening her. Not because your afraid she could say something mean later on.

 

[UpThruDere]

The fact they have to ask you to do it and "tell" you they care, tells you how much they really don't

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I got family for all that


Was just co-venting with my sister for hours over family shyt..



have her cracking up with my rants but I be dead serious

 

[Arcavian]

 

[cocoabutter27]

I have been married for decades. I love that my husband shares his dreams and fears with me. It makes me feel special and important. I don't act as his therapist because he has one. Even if he didn't, he is the type to figure out what he's going to do about what ever is challenging his emotional state. I feel trusted, not everyone gets to know that side of him. Sorry that some of you have run into emotionally immature women.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Im pretty sure yall have just bought into that narrative. That isnt a woman exclusive thing,although it might hurt worse coming from your woman. We see all over social media men airing out each others business when they get into it.


Sure women can and will use it against you. But its very narcisstic and speaks volume that guarding your feelings is all that yall seem to care about in this thread


This actually explains alot about the coldness of alot of our women. Because your not just guarding your feelings by not telling the bad stuff. Your also not telling your women how much you love and cherish them. Because too many of us are afraid of being hurt like little boys.


You dont tell your woman the bad stuff because you should be concerned about burdening her. Not because your afraid she could say something mean later on.

GrandMaster Teacher, that's why I learned if I can't say what I want about my feelings to a woman, then I don't need to be with her. I've had women throw shyt back into my face too. And have had them tell folks my business too. Then same women weren't for me. As an artist I emote and sometimes painting my pain, emotions, ideas etc doesn't hit as well as a dialogue or conversation. I already have trust issues with women, because I think a lot of them are conniving, misguided, narcissistic, megalomaniac predators. Which I understand why due to the fact they have to be cerebral due to the lack of physical strength needed for this plane called Earth. But dammit learn to turn it off sometimes. The ones that are like cannot simply turn it off.

 

[Belize King]

I have been married for decades. I love that my husband shares his dreams and fears with me. It makes me feel special and important. I don't act as his therapist because he has one. Even if he didn't, he is the type to figure out what he's going to do about what ever is challenging his emotional state. I feel trusted, not everyone gets to know that side of him. Sorry that some of you have run into emotionally immature women.

@Selena
@Gloxina
@Coco Loco
@dora_da_destroyer
@HarlemHottie
@LadyJ2
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@bourgeoisie tall freak
Can we share our thoughts, hopes and dreams without fear?

 

[King_Kamala61]

@Selena
@Gloxina
@Coco Loco
@dora_da_destroyer
@HarlemHottie
@LadyJ2
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@bourgeoisie tall freak
Can we share our thoughts, hopes and dreams without fear?

I can tell you off top @HarlemHottie is one, based on our discussions we have. She comes off as a wise older sibling to me.

 

[thelonious21]

I vented to my wife about how when she's on her period I still need head; and not no lazy sucks.

she did not care like she was supposed 2

Lmaooooo
Idk why this is hilarious

 

[The Burger King]

What feelings are there to share when we are righteous and unaffected?

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

@bourgeoisie tall freak
Can we share our thoughts, hopes and dreams without fear?

one of my favorite lines is "i couldn't help but notice your pain, it runs deep... share it with me"

 

[Strapped]

I am talking about grown women, not girls for one. All women are not the same. Some have actually matured past their teenage years. If a woman with the mentality of a girl does use it against you, then you know she is not someone to take seriously.

Worrying over what women think of you is also showing weakness and makes it a lot harder to find a mentally good and mature woman.

So you shouldn't worry when she tells all her girls your stroke game is trash & you can't last a minute after you dumped her

 

[Uachet]

So you shouldn't worry when she tells all her girls your stroke game is trash & you can't last a minute after you dumped her

No, you should fix it. Besides, your stroke game being trash is something she would know without you telling her. Do you understand what the thread is about, because this response makes me doubt you do.

 

[LadyJ2]

@Selena
@Gloxina
@Coco Loco
@dora_da_destroyer
@HarlemHottie
@LadyJ2
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@bourgeoisie tall freak
Can we share our thoughts, hopes and dreams without fear?

I agree with the OP. My husband tells me what I need to know. He doesn’t really burden me with his problems unless he knows I may be able to help in some way. But if I can’t or he doesn’t need it he can handle it on his own.

I had to learn to trust him in that way it did take some time to learn how he is and how he likes to be treated. I just pay attention to that and trust he will figure it out.

I need him to help me solve my problems more than the opposite if I’m being truthful.

But as far as hopes and dreams a man doesn’t need to tell you outright you can learn just by listening and observing.