Men should be allowed to legally opt out of being a parent

killacal

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Bruh. Are u serious. That's one of the main resons the black community is fucced up is bcuz too many nyggaz opted out from bein a father.Most nyggaz that join gangs or start hustlin or start livin street life don't have fathers in their lives. U have to know that is a fact.. and u are wrong that men are lined up ready to be a father to the next nyggaz kid. So many of the dudes here won't seriously date a chick that has kids, and 4sure won't sign up to rasie the nxt nyggaz kids. And ur right, no woman should have to force a guy to be a father of his kids. That nygga should automaticly raise and take care of his flesh & blood. Its his fuccin kid.. do u thin that nyggaz are lined up in droves to marry a single mother with 4 kids? Hell no. Nygga u sound lost:ufdup::ufdup:

:what: how do they not get this?
 

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There isn't much to think about outside of common sense.

You can paint as many scenarios you deem fit, it doesn't negate the fact that as man/woman whenever you have sex there's a possibility of creating life.

You can't argue about "choice" after the fact, especially if society shows you time and time again it's not in your hands to choose.

Men set themselves up for failure and want everyone to attend their pity party :smh:

So now your argument is that because it is a societal norm that man is not afforded that decision once the women is pregnant, that he just needs to deal with the consequence. That's not an argument. That is what is happening presently.

You have failed to explain sufficiently why this shouldn't be challenged.

In addition I am curious to your thoughts on scenario 2.
 

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:snoop: it's your child too. Do you not get that? Regardless if you knock up a model or a nasty hood booger it's still your child. :smh:
The argument is about choice and power. Giving a woman 100% of both while a man has none is creating a toxic situation. It creates scenarios where women intentionally try and get pregnant to trap men. I'm not arguing that a man should abandon his kid I'm not arguing that a man doesn't know sex carries the potential for farterhood I am saying that once a pregnancy is discovered the women gets a second choice on whether or not she'll keep that child. The man doesn't. She gets the ability to force him to be a father.

some of yall are basically arguing that as a man if you fukk a woman you should surrender all control to her in the event of an accident.
 

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So now your argument is that because it is a societal norm that man is not afforded that decision once the women is pregnant, that he just needs to deal with the consequence. That's not an argument. That is what is happening presently.

You have failed to explain sufficiently why this shouldn't be challenged.

In addition I am curious to your thoughts on scenario 2.

How can one argue about societal prevalence?

If both parties know there are consequences to their actions why is it that the man refuses to accept he has no control after conception? He should exercise his 'rights' before coming to the point of no return. The same applies to a woman who decides to have a child knowing a man can opt out of helping her raise it.
 

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Nobody should have a problem with men opting out of fatherhood. There is no shortage of men that is willing to step up to be the father of a broad's baby. The world isn't going to end just cuz a nikka says no to being a daddy. All that will happen is that another nikka will take his place. Besides, why try to force a nikka to be a father if he don't want to be a father? :what:



Women have NO problems...NONE...with finding a nikka to support her and her kids. nikkas trying to dismiss that fact is :mindblown:
this might be one of the dumbest posts I have seen in my time on SOHH/The Coli.

You HAVE to be trolling.
 

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To Liquid, pissy nikka...

Did your mother troll you? Huh? :bryan:

She couldn't find a daddy for your pasty ass? Damn, your mother is fukked up kid. :huhldup:

I'm a grown man, I understand these broads and you sound like you were pushed out of a shady bytch.

Sorry your mother's well dried up kid, I feel for you. I'm only talking about the other 99.9 percent of deadbeat mothers out there. No offense kid.
 

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How can one argue about societal prevalence?

If both parties know there are consequences to their actions why is it that the man refuses to accept he has no control after conception? He should exercise his 'rights' before coming to the point of no return. The same applies to a woman who decides to have a child knowing a man can opt out of helping her raise it.

So, you don't believe in abortion?
 
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You sound just as stupid as the chick at my job who says every pregnancy should be accompanied by a paternity test. Who the fukk is going to pay for those b*stard children. There is a whole bunch of fail with this premise

1. Why are fukking with a chick RAW that if you got her pregnant you would leave your seed.
2. What man WILLINGLY walks away from his NEXT generation which begs the question was your father present in your life
3. Why would you want another man raising your child
4. Being able to opt out is talking the easy bytch made way out.
5. When the bytch on welfare its a nikka like me paying taxes that is gonna feel the crunch for you bringing in another air breather dead to society little b*stard ass child

Yall nikkas need to grow the fukk up but I doubt a beta ass male as yourself gets p*ssy anyway so carry on with your bitter repertoire, nikka like you are destined to stay swagless and p*ssyless


1. Pregnancies SHOULD be accompanied by paternity tests :sitdown:.
2. You can get a chick pregnant even while using contraceptives :sadbron:
3. What woman would WILLINGLY give birth to her NEXT GENERATION without taking into account how her man feels about the situation? :childplease:
4. See above point.
5. And what's so bad about having an easy way out? We have no say over whether a woman carries a child to full term or not; there should be a way out. We're talking about equal rights - women want them so why not us? :shaq:
6. How are "we" bringing b*stard children into the world? The men have no deciding power once they fukk a girl and get her pregnant, whether by accident or not.

Judging from how :umad: you sound, you're the only one here p*ssyless. I guess that's why you can't relate to the dudes who are actually at risk of getting a broad getting pregnant by accident, either.

Sit your delirious ass down somewhere and shut the fukk up.

TL;DR - women have the right to opt out of having a child, and we want that right too. What, people are mad when men ask for equal rights?





For the record, I would never walk away from my seed, accident or no accident. But having the right to opt out would actually give me some leverage in a situation where I knock up the wrong girl or it's at the wrong time.

if you want to opt out dont have sex or stay strapped :rudy:

How old are the people making this point? Condoms don't work 100% of the time.


Women have the option to opt out of parenting by going to a clinic but we as men shouldn't desire to stoop down to that level, men are supposed to be leaders.

Some of these women are trife and we should have the right to be trife back. If they want equal rights, they can have equal rights - but not more rights than us! Now, whether we choose to exercise those rights is a matter of personal choice.


So now your argument is that because it is a societal norm that man is not afforded that decision once the women is pregnant, that he just needs to deal with the consequence. That's not an argument. That is what is happening presently.

You have failed to explain sufficiently why this shouldn't be challenged.

In addition I am curious to your thoughts on scenario 2.

:whew: they can't handle the real breh


:what: how do they not get this?

And how many of those kids were birthed by women trying to keep their men by having kids? If women knew that men could opt out, they would have to make more responsible choices. Right now, it's like - I can give birth to this baby and then the man has to support me :youngsabo:. fukk outta here with that bullshyt.

Nobody's saying men shouldn't pay alimony, take care of the kid, etc if they choose to OPT IN before the birth. It's very simple, friend.
 

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Did women NOT fight for the right to have a choice to not be a mother and opt out of parenthood and anyone who told her she didn't have the right to opt out of parenthood was an archaic a$$hole and it was her choice???




ok then. /thread.
 
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