Men should be allowed to legally opt out of being a parent

[Sharp]

Virginia isnt this way

A coworker of mine took care of a child for years all to have the parent druge, dealer grandma, drug addict mother and prescription drug addict father come back and get the child

Was the child adopted or placed in foster care? That's a huge difference?

In NY, once a child is adopted you lose all rights to your child, unless if you're Native American (they have a special loophole)

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[Dirk Diggler]

Was the child adopted or placed in foster care? That's a huge difference?

In NY, once a child is adopted you lose all rights to your child, unless if you're Native American (they have a special loophole)

Foster. But still if the bytch is trying to put the child up for adoption and the dude is there willingly wanting to take care of the child I cant see the courts letting that ride

 

[Sharp]

Foster. But still if the bytch is trying to put the child up for adoption and the dude is there willingly wanting to take care of the child I cant see the courts letting that ride

As long as it is established that he is the father, then yes, he will get custody.

If there is a father on the birth certificate then the father has to also agree on the adoption.

The problem is when paternity isn't established. It takes time for a baby to be put up for adoption. As soon as the dude knows that she's planning to do that, he needs to go to family court asap. Petition for paternity. Most judges will delay the adoption until paternity is established.

But it's an uphill and often impossible battle once the child is already adopted. It will appear as if you are coming out of nowhere saying this is your child.

 

[CrimsonTider]

If paternity has not been established you are not the father. Paternity can be established by DNA or signing of the birth certificate.

So if she puts the child up for adoption and you have not established paternity, you will have to go thru the system to get your child.

And even if you do establish paternity, there is still no guarantee you will get your child back if the child has been placed in that home for quite some time.

Each state is different, but ultimately follow the same theme, so you'd have to do some research.

Im assuming the OP is talking about paternity being established.

 

[CrimsonTider]

if women faced the same legal consequences as men a lot of these children wouldn't be born. they'd be forced to be more responsible or face a penalty. as the game is now if a broke chick has a baby that child becomes a source of income for her and a way to a better life.

she can collect a monthly check from a guy and have the government subsidize her parenthood. now if the man could just walk away and not have to pay and the government raised the standards for aid then all of a sudden she faces a dilemma where if she produces a child she can't afford she could be assed out.

our legal system shouldn't be encouraging irresponsible behavior from anyone but yet it is. i also feel paternity test should be legally mandatory.

What legal consequences do men face for having a child?

 

[Ohene]

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Who gonna pay for it when 90% of TheColi is fukking raw knowing damn well they to broke to afford the child EVEN IF IT WERE theirs????

Wait, you're against mandatory paternity tests because you don't think they can afford it?


They're already paying for pre-natal care compete with doctor and hospital visits yet tacking on a paternity test would be some insurmountable task?

(I agree with the rest of your first post, btw, and this thread is shytty)

 

[Sharp]

Interesting and relevant

Lawyer defends Native American adoption law in toddler case | Reuters

 

[Sharp]

Im assuming the OP is talking about paternity being established.

This question wasn't from OP's original statement. It was a response to somebody else who posted.

 

[winb83]

What legal consequences do men face for having a child?

right now a woman can produce a child and she can get WIC, she can get welfare, she can get on section 8. she can literally manufacture income sources and resources from thin air without suffering loss and in most cases incurring gain from nothing put in from her standpoint other than producing a child.

if a man has a child the legal system will force him to provide something for that child and he will suffer loss for it. if he doesn't pay child support he faces jail. he can get his checks garnished.

so do you see how a woman from a legal standpoint faces no real loss while a man legally faces loss from producing a child? this sort of system encourages women to be irresponsible because in the back of their mind the safety net will save them.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

Wait, you're against mandatory paternity tests because you don't think they can afford it?

Im against it if they (child bearer and/or father) cant afford to pay for it out of their own pockets. Dont push that burden my way pay for that shyt yourself and absolve yourself of the blame. But if everyone birthing a child has to take a paternity test I am NOT for it

right now a woman can produce a child and she can get WIC, she can get welfare, she can get on section 8. she can literally manufacture income sources and resources from thin air without suffering loss and in most cases incurring gain from nothing put in from her standpoint other than producing a child.

if a man has a child the legal system will force him to provide something for that child and he will suffer loss for it. if he doesn't pay child support he faces jail. he can get his checks garnished.

so do you see how a woman from a legal standpoint faces no real loss while a man legally faces loss from producing a child? this sort of system encourages women to be irresponsible because in the back of their mind the safety net will save them.

You gotta pay to play my nikka. If nikkas wasnt sticking their dikks into each and every chick that looked fukkable shyt like that would be minimized. If the nikka is the father he should be held responsible THERE IS NO WALKING AWAY. nikkas want to be the bread winners/HNIC in a realationshyt and then complain when someone forces them to do so

 

[CrimsonTider]

right now a woman can produce a child and she can get WIC, she can get welfare, she can get on section 8. she can literally manufacture income sources and resources from thin air without suffering loss and in most cases incurring gain from nothing put in from her standpoint other than producing a child.

if a man has a child the legal system will force him to provide something for that child and he will suffer loss for it. if he doesn't pay child support he faces jail. he can get his checks garnished.

so do you see how a woman from a legal standpoint faces no real loss while a man legally faces loss from producing a child?

At you thinking a women is coming out ahead getting those benefits as the result of having a child.

at you acting like CS payment is more than actually raising a child.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Get a vasectomy, if you have the inability to be accountable for your actions.

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[Dirk Diggler]

Get a vasectomy, if you have the inability to be accountable for your actions.

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Pretty much then these nikkas can buss raw all they want on some shyt and then hit the bytch with the paperwork when she trying to hit them with the im late shyt