Men should be allowed to legally opt out of being a parent

[winb83]

Tom Leykis offers an interesting solution. if a woman tries to force you to be a father against your will tell her i will legally pay what the court requires but if you go through with this you're out of my life and i never wanna see you again and i will not ever meet your child.

you're still fulfilling your legal responsibility as a father by supporting your child. he's actually said that saying this to women convinced them to have abortions and he had callers that said the same thing.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

You sound just as stupid as the chick at my job who says every pregnancy should be accompanied by a paternity test. Who the fukk is going to pay for those b*stard children. There is a whole bunch of fail with this premise

1. Why are fukking with a chick RAW that if you got her pregnant you would leave your seed.
2. What man WILLINGLY walks away from his NEXT generation which begs the question was your father present in your life
3. Why would you want another man raising your child
4. Being able to opt out is talking the easy bytch made way out.
5. When the bytch on welfare its a nikka like me paying taxes that is gonna feel the crunch for you bringing in another air breather dead to society little b*stard ass child


Yall nikkas need to grow the fukk up but I doubt a beta ass male as yourself gets p*ssy anyway so carry on with your bitter repertoire, nikka like you are destined to stay swagless and p*ssyless

your tax dollars would get spent regardless pimp...

you do know that condoms dont always work to right?

but that neither here nor there...unwanted children shouldnt be born...period.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

As a father you can give up all of your rights. However, the mother has to consent to it.

The OP is saying that the father should be allowed to give up all parental rights without the mother consenting to it, meaning that he is not legally the father and therefore cannot be pursued for any type of support.

I actually like the idea of that because it neutralizes the leverage that the mother has. The mother still has choices. She can abort, adopt, or keep the baby. She is also aware that if she decides to go full term that she will be a single parent.

The main argument against this is that the father should be responsible for a child he helped create. If this is the case, then a father should also have equal rights. In a system where two parents who are not together, one parent will become the custodial guardian, and the other will become the non-custodial guardian. It is very rare that they will give the parents joint custodial custody. With that being said, there is no equality.

This argument is not to omit any person from responsibility. Having a baby with a woman that you don't want to pursue a relationship with at best will result in a man being a sponsor with visitation, denying him the complete experience of being a dad. Some men just don't want to go through that and want to relinquish their rights. I'm confident that men who have children with women they love and want to be with will never have these conversations or dilemmas.

This man just wrapped it up

No need to continue beyond this post....it's

Close this shyt up now

 

[winb83]

This man just wrapped it up

No need to continue beyond this post....it's

Close this shyt up now

let's be real here condoms fail
Table of Contraceptive Efficacy
the pullout method with perfect use has a 4% failure rate
condoms have a 2% failure rate with perfect use

with imperfect use the pullout failure rate is 27% and condom failure is 15%

meaning if you pullout correctly and never nut in a woman vs a condom you have a 2% difference in failure rate.

in other words condoms fail.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

let's be real here condoms fail
Table of Contraceptive Efficacy
the pullout method with perfect use has a 4% failure rate
condoms have a 2% failure rate with perfect use

with imperfect use the pullout failure rate is 27% and condom failure is 15%

meaning if you pullout correctly and never nut in a woman vs a condom you have a 2% difference in failure rate.

in other words condoms fail.

Okay so help me understand. Condoms fails (check), birth control fails (check), reversible vasectomy its out of the question because its permanent (check), and apparently abstinence is out of the question.

So what, as a man, can you do to protect yourself from having these unwanted babies without the government interfering and policing these irresponsible procreators?

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Exactly!

@ complaining about 12% out of 100% (financially).

Paying child support will never compare to physically, mentally & emotionally raising a child 24/7/365

Threads such as this one make absolutely no sense & usually made by an individual who has never endured what they feel the need to complain about.

Yet, it goes to show the quickest way to hurt a man is via his pockets.

But a lot of females out here are just physically there and collecting a pay check.There's no mental or emotional raising going on.The ones who're doing it, more power to them, but I've seen a lot of cases where children get physically taken care of (clothes...shoes...nice hair cuts) but get neglected in every other area of child development.It's a lot of "on the surface" moms out here.


Buying their kids all types of snacks and microwave dinners and letting them have free reign......kids always walking around with a weak immune system and whooping cough, but hey, she's doing a "good job"......"look at her kids decked out in the new rocawear and jordans!!"


Shallow people, mayne



It's harsh, but it's a reality.It's real subtle, but if you're paying attention, you'll notice there's no substance behind it.It's a front.

 

[theGoldmangod]

Too bad this wasn't around when you nikkas were conceived. I'm 100% sure half you fa99ots wouldn't have been birthed. That's the real shame here

 

[marcuz]

Tom Leykis offers an interesting solution. if a woman tries to force you to be a father against your will tell her i will legally pay what the court requires but if you go through with this you're out of my life and i never wanna see you again and i will not ever meet your child.

you're still fulfilling your legal responsibility as a father by supporting your child. he's actually said that saying this to women convinced them to have abortions and he had callers that said the same thing.

you think that shyt works on black women


nikkas could be like "i make 0 dollars, i have no education, i have no job or car. plus i have 2 other baby mommas" and black women would still pull the trigger

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[kevm3]

Women have the legal advantage in this situation, but bottom line, the kid is YOUR flesh and blood. If you and the woman aren't getting along, so what? Will you really let some woman come from you protecting that which came from you? A woman can't force you to become a father against your will unless she rapes you. When you go inside her, you take that chance of being a father... and when the child is born, either you man up and become a good father or you let circumstances come in front of you taking care of your child. As a man, one thing you DO do is take care of your child, whether you like the mother or not.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

Some of you nikkas just need to go ahead and commit that and get a vasectomy and not worry about anything posted in this thread. The world would be a better place without your unwanted seeds

 

[winb83]

[ame=http://youtu.be/dJM39i7QoEw]Her body, her choice - YouTube[/ame]

 

[Born2BKing]

your tax dollars would get spent regardless pimp...

you do know that condoms dont always work to right?

but that neither here nor there...unwanted children shouldnt be born...period.

Wow, 2% for education and 21% on the military. This is truly fukking sad.

 

[marcuz]

Wow, 2% for education and 21% on the military. This is truly fukking sad.

it's definitely fukked up

meanwhile, you're the type to label kids privileged enough to go to private school corny.

 

[Born2BKing]

it's definitely fukked up

meanwhile, you're the type to label kids privileged enough to go to private school corny.

Breh, I ain't bout to argue wit you today. Agree to disagree dude.