Men that only approach after getting choosing signals is a p*ssy

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Imagine actually caring about this lmao.

Exactly its weird the way breh overthink this shyt, approach women cause you want to and feel like it not cause you have to.....

shaming brehs cause they don't follow your way of doing something thats has no right or wrong way is foolish....
 

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This nikka might have accidentally stumbled on this truth trying to troll, but it does happen to be true. If I see a woman I like, and wanna go approach her, that’s what the kid gonna do. I really don’t give a fukk if she showing a signal or not. I don’t be stalking these hoes or staring them down from across the room like that to even catch a signal. If I see a bytch and I think she bad, and I’m in getting at bytches mode, then I instinctively just go do my thing. Ain’t even no time for no signal. That’s for nikkas who be trying to lock eyes with hoes as cross the room and shyt. I don’t have time for that soft ass shyt.

But in general, I see her, I like her, I get at her. No time for that signal shyt. bytch I’m the signal. I’m me. So I assume you like me
This. If you well put together (and not a member of ugly gang) most women will go for you. This choosing thing has always seemed like time wasting to me.


I do however, differentiate between pre-opening and “looking for choosing signals” because eye contact can often function like a tap on the shoulder ( or elbow tap) when you are about to approach. This is more so to ensure you ain’t just popping onto her field of vision. But for me, it’s one directional. I’m not searching for her response . I’m going in either way.:manny:
 

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Impossible.




That's like saying a baseball batter hits a home run on the first swing every time.
It’s possible. It’s purely environmental. Have you heard of the anthropic principle? I think it applies here.

This is actually a physics concept that is intertwined with statistics. I have a more common day-to-day example outside of this spoiler if it clarifies the concept better.




It’s kinda like how if I spun you around in a library of millions of books, with your eyes closed and then I asked you to randomly pick a book off a shelf; the odds of that one book being a romance novel or a cook book are low. However; if you were already standing in the cooking or romance section before I blindfolded and spun you around; you can “beat the odds” and pick a romance or cook book every single time. Your prior location predisposed you to improbable odds.


If I were to apply this to your base ball player, his odds of home running ever single time go up exponentially if he happened to be batting at a little league match when you first observed him.


In game terms, that handsomeGang member can only operate like that in a narrow environment/range of conditions. Without failure, he will be approached by women(and never have to do work himself) if he was already stationed in Tempe,Az or Chattanooga, TN or KansasCity , MS when he started. Now, if you moved this same handsomeGang member to Miami, SanDiego, or SoHo his existence would be improbable. He’d have to put work in.:patrice:



Of course, I apologize for the lengthy response. I hope it added value to the thread.:mjcry:
 

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I think it’s a smarter more efficient way of going about things so I dont fault dudes for doing it but the kicker is unless ur really good looking ur not gonna get all these choosing signals back to back. Sometimes I wait for signals and sometimes I dont. Really depends on how I feel.

Me personally tho idgaf about choosing signals if I see something I like I go for it. But Im not the average dude

I prolly holla @ like 2-3 girls every other day while Im running errands. I don’t plan it, think about it or contemplate it. I just be out getting money & running errands & then say wats up:manny: if she rejects me that’s fine bc I was already doing something productive anyways.

I’ll wake up early, work out take a shower get dressed then work on my business & drive around doing my side hustle & in between grocery shopping or pulling up to my boys house. In between that time Im walking downtown or the 7 Eleven or the grocery store & boom see something I like and go for it. Or I get off my 9-5 or during work lunch see a chick while im out boom holla at her.

Or I walk out the barberhshop after a crispy cut feeling myself then see a dame walk by & hit shorty with that Spanish Inquisition.

I had days where I got rejected 2 times during the day time then at night go to a party & leave with something. Most dudes get discouraged after the first 2 rejections on some:mjcry: shyt but I was already making moves. So I could really give a shyt bc bytch im gettin money
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Oddly enough the best time to approach a girl is during the day time on a weekend. Esp in a grocery store.

I don’t fault guys for not cold approaching bc this gangster life aint for everybody:jawalrus:
What's your career?
 

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If you want a woman, go and talk to her. Fukk that choosing shyt.

A lot of you are just scared to death of rejection, which is lame. This is why some men are afraid to talk to a woman if she has a strict face, even when she's sittin right next to them. SMH.

Create your chance.

Being scared and not wanting to waste your time are two different things.
 
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