Men that only approach after getting choosing signals is a p*ssy

BaldingSoHard

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It’s possible. It’s purely environmental. Have you heard of the anthropic principle? I think it applies here.

This is actually a physics concept that is intertwined with statistics. I have a more common day-to-day example outside of this spoiler if it clarifies the concept better.




It’s kinda like how if I spun you around in a library of millions of books, with your eyes closed and then I asked you to randomly pick a book off a shelf; the odds of that one book being a romance novel or a cook book are low. However; if you were already standing in the cooking or romance section before I blindfolded and spun you around; you can “beat the odds” and pick a romance or cook book every single time. Your prior location predisposed you to improbable odds.


If I were to apply this to your base ball player, his odds of home running ever single time go up exponentially if he happened to be batting at a little league match when you first observed him.


In game terms, that handsomeGang member can only operate like that in a narrow environment/range of conditions. Without failure, he will be approached by women(and never have to do work himself) if he was already stationed in Tempe,Az or Chattanooga, TN or KansasCity , MS when he started. Now, if you moved this same handsomeGang member to Miami, SanDiego, or SoHo his existence would be improbable. He’d have to put work in.:patrice:



Of course, I apologize for the lengthy response. I hope it added value to the thread.:mjcry:



9.5 / 10 post.

The only thing you got wrong is that Tempe, AZ is absolutely overflowing with beautiful / friendly women.
 

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I actually agree with OP about not waiting for a signal all the time.:francis:

If im interested in someone im gonna approach signals or not. All 80% of my gf's I approached with no signals.:yeshrug: Yea I get rejected sometimes or they have someone already but it doesnt faze me anymore. Atleast I took a chance.



Also I hear women say they dont approach men all the time. So their choices are only of the men who approach them. So if they see a dude they like and he doesnt come up to her she is shyt outta luck. I dont wanna be in that position.
 

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I mean if cold approaching is your thing cool. I actually feel it is cornier running after women in the streets, or grocery stores trying to get a number. I just don't feel it is a productive use of your time. I much prefer waiting for choosing signals. After a while you become so accustomed to recognizing them, you catch even the subtle hints. I can tell if a woman is interested no matter how hard she tries to hide it. Then I choose if it is worth taking it further or not.
 
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Being scared and not wanting to waste your time are two different things.

You ain't wasting your time by throwing two sentences at a woman. It won't take you more than 10 seconds. It's almost the same amount of time you will spend looking at those signals.
 

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We got nikkas talkin bout “I never had to approach a woman:win:”. Only seen on thecoli.com. I might revert back to waiting for choosing signals cuz my cold approach game is dustier than Jermaine Jackson tryna make a comeback.
 

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If cold approach is your thing thats cool. As for me I put in the extra work in the gym, buying the right fitting clothes, and staying groomed before I step out so I get enough choosing signals to work with. At this point in my 30's I can't be like a homeless person approaching women who didn't even make eye contact with me:gag: Odds are already in black mens favor who are at least halfway put together.
 
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