Men that wait until their late 20's or 30s to be in a serious relationship/settle down

[the bossman]

You're 31.... talk to men in their 50s/60s/70s then get back to us

yea a lot of that comes from men in successful 20+ year marriages

 

[KinksandCoils]

True. But in another thread y'all would be saying how we need to give that type of guy a chance.

I said he needs to build a foundation. not the whole house.

that guy you like is a lot more appealing to you because he's shown he knows wtf he's doing and where the fukk he's going in life. I'm sure that's a lot more attractive than the guy bouncing between temp jobs, while living with his mom and don't know how to talk or flirt with you or fukk you right?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm 27, and still trying to get my life together. I also lived a sheltered life in my teenage years, and haven't had the experiences i wanted in my 20's with women. So settling down in my 30's is not going happen. I also don't want kids anymore or care for marriage, so settling down may not happen at all

 

[Jahmal]

Pickings get slim AS shyt the older you get
Meeting a chick while you in your 30s ?
She either going have kids or baggage. Unless she a doctor where she was in school for 8 yrs getting your career together ain't no excuse for ppl in their 30 so miss me with that
Single chick in her 30s probably have some flaw, trust me. The good ones get wifed up before 30

You gotta at least MEET the chick before 30, y'all don't gotta be serious but at least have her in the wings and know what she doing
I'm in my early 30s and married. I met my wife as a "friend" when she was 18. I lived with my gf then and was just cool with my wife. Fast forward 5 yrs we both single and we start dating. She 23 I'm in my late 20s. I basically knew everything about her at that point despite us just starting to officially date. 5 YEARS AFTR THAT I propose. So I didn't "settle down" until my 30s but I been knew my wife for damn near a decade. My wife was locked up WAY before she was 30. The bytches I was just meeting in they 30s were washed as shyt. No comparison

which is why you date younger. I'm 35 and only deal with women 22-28 yrs old with no baggage.

 

[Jahmal]

I wouldnt do anything with a young 22 but have sex and thats it. They will regret you taking their youth later on and leave your ancient dikk dry when you can on longer pull women. Have fun while it last.

I know brothers here in ATL that are in their late 60s who are pulling badder 21-30 yr old girls then guys in the 21-30 age range. If you keep yourself in shape and have your finances together you can get badd joints.

I went out to a club with my homie lastnight. He is 43 and he pulled a 21 yr old out the club and ran a train on her with some other cats. No money was involved. All my single brehs are living it up and have no desire to settle down.

 

[blackzeus]

What if we all go together

Some things Daddy needs to do alone

 

[NeilCartwright]

I'm 22 and there's plenty of women who *want* to settle down

Assuming you have your finances/career together I'd scoop one if your early 20's.

Only thing is LOTS of people are trying to figure it out till their late 20's. I had a girl I used to talk to up and move to LA

 

[NERO]

Don't plan on getting married until I am closing in on 40. There is absolutely no reason to settle down right now. I might not even be in the US at that point so my wife my be from CR or from Namibia. What's the problem for with waiting until the moment is right for me? Young love is a mess that I don't need but go ahead and do your thing.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you can wait for the "right" moment or realize you can make the moment occur too. either way, you must be aware when it's time to make a good or right choice.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Our development doesn't stop at age 15 like women.
Our fertility doesn't end at 40 like women.
We don't have a 15 year relevance window before .
Therefore, I'm not on a bih schedule.
shyt, science and new lifestyles even got women on their own schedule.
That window of relevance is for middle class cacwomen seeking out security. Oh, and delusional black women from deep in the country who attend church 3x a week. (they'll getcha)

 

[4fossa]

I am 31 and a virgin/never had a girlfriend/been in a relationship

u black?

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

Men if they take care of themselves hardly age, especially black men who age the best. So it is no surprise men holding till their late 20s and mid-30s to get married. Women date and settle with men older than them and this has been occurring for thousands of years. Aristotle thought men should marry in their mid 30s at the peak of their powers.

 

[scorpino]

Dope thread. I'm 35 and dating a 26 year old. I feel like I just matured at 35 but still have a long way to go before I'm ready for kids or marriage

 

[THOT CATALOG]

Dope thread. I'm 35 and dating a 26 year old. I feel like I just matured at 35 but still have a long way to go before I'm ready for kids or marriage

good for u bro.

How i probably want my future to go down so working on making myself a catch for future younger broads.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

which is why you date younger. I'm 35 and only deal with women 22-28 yrs old with no baggage.

This. Who the fukk in their right mind is going after women in their mid-30s (and above) first?