20's is for finding yourself.
30's is for being the self you found if you ain't already found that self. That self might be married, who knows?
If you ain't married past 40 you either fine with what you have or tragically never found what you thought should have been a clear cut option for you to pick since most assume that by that age they'd already have their shyt together and start attracting their 'fairy tale' mates'n'shyt.
Me? All I want is a woman with a clean, healthy vagina that loves to cuddle, make soup and let me play with her feet after we done had too much to drink.

I'm good and plan to be for a while.