Men that wait until their late 20's or 30s to be in a serious relationship/settle down

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At 32 I'm still growing. I think I don't have faith in relationships at all . I'm just going to do my thing till I don't want to anymore. I'm married to the game if you will. I don't want a kid to grow up and seeing the shyt I see. Racism , no solidarity amongst black people, they don't teach shyt in school but how to pass a test , being an alpha male Isnt coo on a society level. Men act more like women . Women are Manish in demeanor and want to have the respect of both genders but only want the responsibility of a women. The value of men is down due to men and a society level as well. Along with all the other shyt that is going on in society I'm suppose to bring a family threw all the shyt out here...

I'm good folk. GOD really going to have to work on my mindset if he wants that to happen.. a family. Funny thing is I've never had the ....URGE for a family or kids for whatever reason.
 

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If you wait until your 30's, to MEET your woman, you're going to be disappointed because all that's left are bitter women and ran thru bust downs.

I knew my wife before she was in med school and we got married right after she got out.

I've seen the women play the "Ill fukk around until I'm late 20's mid 30's and find a man". They're all either still single unhappy and getting ran through, or cuffed up by simps they don't like and still getting ran through behind the scene.
 

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If you wait until your 30's, to MEET your woman, you're going to be disappointed because all that's left are bitter women and ran thru bust downs.

I knew my wife before she was in med school and we got married right after she got out.

I've seen the women play the "Ill fukk around until I'm late 20's mid 30's and find a man". They're all either still single unhappy and getting ran through, or cuffed up by simps they don't like and still getting ran through behind the scene.
Holla at me if yall still married 20 years from now. I'll PM you my email address.

My wife's Asian. :yeshrug:

nevermind :mjgrin:
 

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I have a nice job, 2 cars, good savings, paid off my college debt, and i'm about to buy a house.
Now is my time to get married.

If I got married anytime before this... knowing how I am, I would have gotten a divorce 100%. (probably still will)

I know everyone is different, but if I would never pursue marriage before I could check off certain things.

all that needed to be said to what the wave said...most good ones get wifed up before 30 breh.....after that you dealing with baby dads still hitting ya chick on da low on some "i got this p*ssy for life" I done seen it :sas2:

bytches will rationalize that shyt in their head as not cheating

Pickings get slim AS shyt the older you get
Meeting a chick while you in your 30s ? :why:
She either going have kids or baggage. Unless she a doctor where she was in school for 8 yrs getting your career together ain't no excuse for ppl in their 30 so miss me with that
Single chick in her 30s probably have some flaw, trust me. The good ones get wifed up before 30

You gotta at least MEET the chick before 30, y'all don't gotta be serious but at least have her in the wings and know what she doing
I'm in my early 30s and married. I met my wife as a "friend" when she was 18. I lived with my gf then and was just cool with my wife. Fast forward 5 yrs we both single and we start dating. She 23 I'm in my late 20s. I basically knew everything about her at that point despite us just starting to officially date. 5 YEARS AFTR THAT I propose. So I didn't "settle down" until my 30s but I been knew my wife for damn near a decade. My wife was locked up WAY before she was 30. The bytches I was just meeting in they 30s were washed as shyt. No comparison
 

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the stupidity throughout this thread has my head hurting :snoop:

Dudes always trying to come up with these shytty formulas for life and be plugging in all types of dumb considerations :deadmanny:

Every person is different, everyone reaches life milestones at different points, everyone has a specific type of partner that is best for them. I don't suggest anyone actively search for a partner and i think turning down a potential life partner til you have some dumb checklist X'ed out is dumb af.
 

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Let's be real...

bytches like money, cars, and houses...

And they'll expect you to have it even if THEY don't have it...

Save yourself the misery and wait until you got all of that...

You lost if your doing anything of this for a woman. You should be doing those things because YOU want them, not is what expected of you by a female.

I'm 31, and I have no intentions of settling down anytime soon. I like my life as it now, with the freedom to do & move how I please.
 
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