Men that wait until their late 20's or 30s to be in a serious relationship/settle down

[Hope]

I'm officially a youth until I'm 40, refuse to settle before 45.

Don't let society fool you, if you a int having fun being single, you aint doing it right. I don't want kids though, so maybe that's why I'm good.

 

[blackzeus]

Some nikkaz don't have that many options. They have to end up settling for what they can get. They usually knock up a bytch and it's curtains from there

Done seen too many real one fall because of this To me wifing is serious sh*t, you have to plant roots. You can't have kids and wake up in Italy one morning and Brazil the next. Can't have kids and be gone for weeks on end on a business deal. I've probably had about 4-5 chances to wife a chick up but the thought of being stuck in sh*t forever always scared me away. Doesn't help that I got 3 cousins who are divorced along with hella friends in loveless marriages

 

[Gimini00]

Things started to move pretty fast for me when i met my girl. My girl and I met during my first of master (3 years ago), i was 23 and were living with my mom, she was 31 and already independent and established financially, our lifestyles were completely different, i had to make some adjustements. We started dating and months after, she want to settle down with me, i said why not, my decision was pretty rush but i didn't regret that because it's a great experience and fulfillment, i matured so much since i moved with my girl. Secondly, I finally left my momma basement to buy a home with my name on it, this was an other factor for me wanting to settle. Next year, we've plan to married and baby should be soon. From experience, there's some many benefits to be in a serious relationship with someone vs chasing hoes, mentally and physically you'll be more healthy and way more happy, you need balance in your personal life if you want to be successful.

 

[blackzeus]

Things started to move pretty fast for me when i met my girl. My girl and I met during my first of master (3 years ago), i was 23 and were living with my mom, she was 31 and already independent and established financially, our lifestyles were completely different, i had to make some adjustements. We started dating and months after, she want to settle down with me, i said why not, my decision was pretty rush but i didn't regret that because it's a great experience and fulfillment, i matured so much since i moved with my girl. Secondly, I finally left my momma basement to buy a home with my name on it, this was an other factor for me wanting to settle. Next year, we've plan to married and baby should be soon. From experience, there's some many benefits to be in a serious relationship with someone vs chasing hoes, mentally and physically you'll be more healthy and way more happy, you need balance in your personal life if you want to be successful.

As twisted as it sounds, with that age gap you got a girl and a mom at the same time. A little weird but a smart play. You guys are both at your peaks and you got someone in the cut who's been down the road before you and can point out what to do what not to do. This situation couldn't be me though but congrats breh

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I'll be that soon and it's working quite well. Most people that I know who did get married in their early 20s are now in unhealthy relationships or want to get out or paying child support now.

That ain't me. I take it as a W in my column. Plus, I don't know if it's the stress of marriage or kids but I look a lot younger than them too

 

[Gimini00]

As twisted as it sounds, with that age gap you got a girl and a mom at the same time. A little weird but a smart play. You guys are both at your peaks and you got someone in the cut who's been down the road before you and can point out what to do what not to do. This situation couldn't be me though but congrats breh

It was a good pick for me because she was ready to settle and i was craving to leave and go far away from my home. I want to start new and i couldn't do it because i was tight financially, it was a good timing, i couldn't say no. Now, i'm in better position to plan my future, i owe her that.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

To me wifing is serious sh*t, you have to plant roots. You can't have kids and wake up in Italy one morning and Brazil the next.

What if we all go together

 

[Pazzy]

Everyone has their own story. as long as it works out for you then all is good.

Just think that you have to open yourself up and see where it goes.

 

[re'up]

31, nowhere close to getting married....Never had a traditional serious relationship, for a variety of reasons, but I never had a problem attracting women, which doesn't mean I always knew it, or knew what I wanted to do with their, or my own attraction but, I am surprised and humbled now, on how effortless it can be for me. I like dating, I like meeting new women every week, or every month, getting to know people, a relationship would be really limiting. Everyday, I see/meet a girl I'd like to know better....I'd only be interested in a 'committed' relationship with a true love sort of situation, not just to check off that box.

 

[Mr Rager]

If you're late 20s early 30s you should be dating early to mid 20 women. I met my GF when I was 28 and she was 23

Ding ding ding^^^







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[Crayola Coyote]

I call em "life overs" cause these hoes were not checking for you in their 20s but since they are loosing looks and been ran through they want to settle down. No thanks

 

[Paradise50]

If you're late 20s early 30s you should be dating early to mid 20 women. I met my GF when I was 28 and she was 23

my INTJ personality makes me hesitant to talk to a chick that much younger than me (29). See, I'm judging before I even try it

 

[Paradise50]

Dead ass I got sprung on my ex when I was 21. shyt been off and on until I was 28...Now, I'm just at the thought of a relationship. Ima hit 30 on Christmas and I'm just focused on my kid/school/work .....I need to get out the energy I couldn't use in my early 20s

 

[Astroslik]

30+ female single with or without kids?

red flags everywhere

 

[Londilon]

OK...just asking

you knew what these nikkas would say.

These broke nikkas think as long as they stay in the gym they can run thought 21 year old dimes at the age of 45-60.