Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
No sympathy.
I left broke women behind in 2016. You're an absolute moron if you marry a woman who isn't making anywhere near as much money as you are. The courts care about the child and the child's inheritance. If you're not about women hustling and making their own money then guess what?
The courts will use YOUR funds to provide for that child since their mother hasn't been working and making anywhere near enough money to keep up the lifestyle you established for them.
Get a prenuptial, commit only to a woman who has her own money and something to lose if the marriage goes south and you won't have these problems.
Alternatively you can avoid marriage altogether and craft a life you're happy with that doesn't NEED a woman in it.
I wouldn't even say it's about money. Does she have goals? Is she financially responsible? For me, those are top priority. I'll marry a $40k woman if she knows how to budget and invest.
