Men who are Millionaires should not be getting married

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

First and foremost if you are rich 99% of women around you or in your circle want you for your shyt. Better have an iron clad pre nup . All that legacy talk is just talk. What you worked hard for and value doesnt your wife and kids will value it. If you want a wife or kids start before you rich.

Broke men get left and cheated on all the time breh.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Once to take out celebs, most of them are average looking so any options to play the field are based on $ which is an empty benefit to being rich for them.

I love how non-rich and non-family oriented men think they can speak for men they can't relate to.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

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[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Take it from someone who's actually dealt with legit millionaires before.

They value marriage more than any other demographic in America. The notion that rich men want to live like perpetual childless bachelors with swarms of IG thots and models is generally a fantasy and more of a "new money" phenomenon(which includes many athletes and musicians.)

But non-celebrity rich men desire marriage and kids big time because it's their way of establishing and building their legacy and maintaining their prestigious image. Married men are more trusted than single men in the corporate world and many rich men desire to keep their bloodlines going. This is precisely how a lot of non-celebrity rich White/Jewish and Asian/Indian men operate here in the East Coast. They might sleep around in their youth to get it out their system but they most definitely desire a wife and kids once they've made it even if they're not "truly in love."

Now, on paper, a rich man avoiding marriage and living the bachelor life sounds very desirable. I wouldn't even fault any man for wanting to live that way because it's very alluring and gives you a lot of freedom. But a lot of rich men irl are very calculated thinkers who think about the long term and care about building generational wealth more than having fun for most of their lives.

Rich people also have the lowest divorce rates in America. A lot of the decline of marriage and rise of divorce rates in America affect the working and middle class more than the wealthy.

I'd also add that rich men (non entertainers/athletes) know how to pick a wife. If the rich guy knows that he's a kinkster and wants to fukk around, he marries a woman that understands that and can work within that lifestyle. He marries a woman that cares about appearances and won't immediately go with the nuclear option.

Athletes/entertainers will go for women that are short term thinkers. Old school broads were willing to put up with some shyt to have full access to the bag and the perks. New school women will settle for relative chump change by divorcing just so they don't have to work. Old school broad would smash the pool boy at the country club and kept it moving.

Modern women have been told they can have it all....so they're uncompromising...which is why rich men have to be more discerning in who they marry.

 

[Vandelay]

Millionaire with fame is a mark. Marriage absent of these ridiculous divorce laws actually makes more sense.

 

[Everythingg]

There is a benefit, especially if you plan on having kids. Marriage is a solid foundation for a thriving community and civilization.

you don’t need a govt stamped contract to do all that though. So to clarify, there is absolutely no benefit for men when it comes to the state sponsored idea of marriage. Not even one lol

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I remember a professor saying that all the most successful researchers he knew were the ones who married early. Don't know if there's proof behind it, but he was basically saying that men with the support of a wife and a stable family life accomplished more than the guys who were running around.

I definitely know that study after study shows married people happier than non-married people. Hard to say exactly what cause and effect is though, correlation ain't causation. I think if you're unhappy without marriage then you'll be unhappy in marriage too, but if you're doing okay without marriage you'll probably do even better with marriage.

 

[badboys11]

I don't understand the point.....u got access to all these girls and u want to throw away this gift in your prime as a man to claim one of them. Please breh, u ain't need that bytch to become famous, and she won't be there when your fame is gone

 

[tremonthustler1]

I don't understand why these pro athletes, rappers, etc don't get full custody of the child(ren). You can avoid the child support issue it you have full custody or primary custody.

Also a lot of these athletes are dummies who fall victim to these groupies who give them a little attention. Be like Jeter and wait until you're retired and older before settling down.

the idea that being like Jeter is based on practicality is false.

Jeter had a lot of shyt go right for him and the fact of the matter it wasn't like he decided to stop playing and then settle down. He happened to find the one person he wanted later in his career. If he had met Hannah earlier, he might have settled down earlier for all we know.

Even now, Jeter would tell you in this age of social media, he couldn't have done everything he did over again.

 

[tremonthustler1]

I don't understand the point.....u got access to all these girls and u want to throw away this gift in your prime as a man to claim one of them. Please breh, u ain't need that bytch to become famous, and she won't be there when your fame is gone

because like many things, it gets tiring. Sometimes, you wanna go home knowing someone will be there to greet you, talk to you about your day, even feed you. Also, when you're finally ready to settle down, everyone you smashed that you woulda liked to have settled with woulda been snatched up by someone else, Like Phonte said once, "once you've had the best, better ain't as good." Sometimes you know when the fun has peaked.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

No sympathy.

I left broke women behind in 2016. You're an absolute moron if you marry a woman who isn't making anywhere near as much money as you are. The courts care about the child and the child's inheritance. If you're not about women hustling and making their own money then guess what?

The courts will use YOUR funds to provide for that child since their mother hasn't been working and making anywhere near enough money to keep up the lifestyle you established for them.

Get a prenuptial, commit only to a woman who has her own money and something to lose if the marriage goes south and you won't have these problems.

Alternatively you can avoid marriage altogether and craft a life you're happy with that doesn't NEED a woman in it.

 

[badboys11]

because like many things, it gets tiring. Sometimes, you wanna go home knowing someone will be there to greet you, talk to you about your day, even feed you. Also, when you're finally ready to settle down, everyone you smashed that you woulda liked to have settled with woulda been snatched up by someone else, Like Phonte said once, "once you've had the best, better ain't as good." Sometimes you know when the fun has peaked.

What's the point if it's not real? That person would not be at home to greet you if bank accounts were switched....maybe 30 or 40 years ago but I can't see it today with what money gives you access too. A girlfriend yes, marriage is a whole nother animal and nothing guarantees that woman will be there for you next year

 

[Mr. Glass]

I'd just point out that there are plenty of unmarried men getting hammered with child support. Marriage is not where the problem starts

Ya, having children with the wrong person is the ultimate L in life, it seems.

Don't blast in women you wouldn't trust with your grandma's life.

 

[tremonthustler1]

What's the point if it's not real? That person would not be at home to greet you if bank accounts were switched....maybe 30 or 40 years ago but I can't see it today with what money gives you access too. A girlfriend yes, marriage is a whole nother animal and nothing guarantees that woman will be there for you next year

Most people who get married always think it's real. Why go through the paperwork and headache of marriage if it wasn't worth it?


and 30-40 years ago, money gave you MORE access. Everything you could get now was EASIER then. It was easier to hide the girlfriend you had in Houston. It was easier to be reckless because everyone around you was reckless too. If you can find someone who's willing to be like "we don't need a ring to be official," more power to you, but that's hard, and eventually you wind up marrying just to protect your ass in case something happens to you.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

you don’t need a govt stamped contract to do all that though. So to clarify, there is absolutely no benefit for men when it comes to the state sponsored idea of marriage. Not even one lol

Even if y'all living together, y'all still basically married.